Help me understand the "Rules" here please...

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• BO

  

  BornAgainOriginal Poster

  Oct 26, 2015

  Well at least I will get more things done without distraction of chat room.  I know who my friends are! :)  Take care yáll!

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• JU

  Justnudenothingmore

  Oct 26, 2015

  If a guy holds up his penis on cam to show it's glory, he is out.  Why not a woman?  Let's lose the double standard.
  

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• EV

  

  EvansBetterHalf

  Oct 26, 2015

  Being a moderator here and being a woman that does go on cam, I have to say that if a woman 'parades' as a man 'parades' I will kick and have kicked both out.  The rules apply to all.  Just because women are in the minority does not give them a pass on the rules.
  
  As to photos on the site, as chat mods we have no control over those, that is site administration.
  
  Stay nude and happy,
  Michelle
  EvansBetterHalf
  

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• EV

  

  EvansBetterHalf

  Oct 27, 2015

  Nudista01,
  
  Note the word parading was in quotes as a form of a metaphor.  If you want to show it off, then your face is not the focus, so you are out. Would you have preferred the word flash? How about juggling boobs and balls?  Does this suit you better?
  
  Yes the Chat Room Rules and Regulations are simple:
  
  1.  No Sexual Discussion, or Sexual Activities.
  2.  Sexual orientation does not belong in the room and no openly looking for minors.
  3.  No Crotch Shots. Faces on cam please.
  4.  If you do not want to be seen on your cam. Do not use it.
  5.  Be nice, no rudity harassing or trolling.
  6.  Flag users who do not follow the rules.
  7.  The Terms of Service are part of these rules.
  8.  Have Fun!
  
  Face on cam does not mean that you can set your cam on the floor or at the foot of your bed in a south to north shot. Your can be fully nude, or not, but the face is to be the focus, not your genitals. It also means not putting on a show.
  
  The chat is for enjoyment the many, not the few that think it is their private cyber playground.  If you want a cyber playground, please go to TS.
  
  Michelle
  EvansBetterHalf
  
  

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• EV

  

  EvansBetterHalf

  Oct 30, 2015

  Here are your answers:
  
  "Why have you accepted nudism and more so why do u want to share it with others ?"
  
  Simple, I enjoy the freedom, nothing more.
  
  My understanding is " People enjoy nudism with others, so they can see others nude and show themselves"
  
  Your understanding is oh so wrong, that is exhibitionism, not nudism or naturism. This is not about show and tell and your beliefs give nudism/naturism a bad name.
  
  Secondly, cam option is YOUR'S. Why are the MODS sitting and checking others cams? This kind of makes me think "They are looking for excitement sitting behind a mask"
  
  Read the flipping rules and your silly question is answered.
  
  Let folks do what they want to do on cam. Same as TS. JUST DONT LOOK AT THEIR CAM . SIMPLE!!!!
  
  This is not TS.  If you like TS then stay there.
  

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• EV

  

  Evan-here

  Oct 30, 2015

  They can do what ever they want over at ts,  but this site isn't TS.
  

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• MA

  

  ManOfWicklow

  Oct 30, 2015

  [quote]Let folks do what they want to do on cam. Same as TS. JUST DONT LOOK AT THEIR CAM . SIMPLE!!!![/quote]This is NOT a sex site, so take your perversion somewhere else.

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• BO

  

  BornAgainOriginal Poster

  Oct 31, 2015

  [quote]If a guy holds up his penis on cam to show it's glory, he is out.  Why not a woman?  Let's lose the double standard.
  [/quote]I wasn't holding up my breasts to show.  I was not being sexual.  The double standard is that I rarely open men's cams BECAUSE they are aroused and/or playing with themselves and they are not muted.  Fair thee well...

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• BO

  

  BornAgainOriginal Poster

  Oct 31, 2015

  [quote]Being a moderator here and being a woman that does go on cam, I have to say that if a woman 'parades' as a man 'parades' I will kick and have kicked both out.  The rules apply to all.  Just because women are in the minority does not give them a pass on the rules.
  
  As to photos on the site, as chat mods we have no control over those, that is site administration.
  
  Stay nude and happy,
  Michelle
  EvansBetterHalf
  [/quote] Again, I was not parading, showing, being sexual in any way shape or form.  I was sitting by my fireplace and lifted them because they were heavy, no other reason.  I would go in the water, so they raise naturally, if at a nudist resort/community or beach...  It's a shame that thus far the responses have presented me as guilty for showing,  and parading and neither were the case for me.  No shame or guilt here... Be well.
  

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• BO

  

  BornAgainOriginal Poster

  Oct 31, 2015

  [quote]WOW .. You amaze me EvansBetterHalf !!!! This answer is so so funny !!! First question : If the nudity on cam is called "Parading" why do we have nudist site here ? If thats an issue then all should be naked at home behind closed doors and enjoy it. why be naked in open ? Why are there parks for people to enjoy nudism. In the chat room why there is an option of having a cam. Below are the rules for chat room .. It does not say a man or a woman cannot parade . If your face is seen with ur boobs or penis, it should not be an issue. it specifically says "NO CROTCH Shots" LOL.  Don't the MODS know the rules ? Or they are creating their own rules !!!! Also it says if u do not want to be seen on your cam don't use it !!! :) .. Also it says BE NICE. IF a person is commented on her breasts in a nice way ..it is nice. But there are folks who drink alcohol on CAM directly from a bottle (EX : User : AMBErian) which is allowed and complain against others and the MODS don't even check the authenticity !!!! This is frustrating. Why should one be a member and pay membership. I need to talk about this to the site management !!!
  No Sexual Discussion, or Sexual Activities in EITHER ROOMNo Crotch Shots. Faces on cam please.If you do not want to be seen on your cam. Do not use it.Be nice, no rudity harrassing or trolling.Flag users who do not follow the rules.Have Fun![/quote]Thank YOU!

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• BO

  

  BornAgainOriginal Poster

  Oct 31, 2015

  [quote] Nudista01,
  
  Note the word parading was in quotes as a form of a metaphor.  If you want to show it off, then your face is not the focus, so you are out. Would you have preferred the word flash? How about juggling boobs and balls?  Does this suit you better?
  
  Yes the Chat Room Rules and Regulations are simple:
  
  1.  No Sexual Discussion, or Sexual Activities.
  2.  Sexual orientation does not belong in the room and no openly looking for minors.
  3.  No Crotch Shots. Faces on cam please.
  4.  If you do not want to be seen on your cam. Do not use it.
  5.  Be nice, no rudity harassing or trolling.
  6.  Flag users who do not follow the rules.
  7.  The Terms of Service are part of these rules.
  8.  Have Fun!
  
  Face on cam does not mean that you can set your cam on the floor or at the foot of your bed in a south to north shot. Your can be fully nude, or not, but the face is to be the focus, not your genitals. It also means not putting on a show.
  
  The chat is for enjoyment the many, not the few that think it is their private cyber playground.  If you want a cyber playground, please go to TS.
  
  Michelle
  EvansBetterHalf
  
  [/quote]Again, my boobs were the moderators focus, not mine.  I did not juggle my breasts nor did I intend for them to be the focus, I was singing full face on cam.  I did not break any rules.  You all are getting it twisted.

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• ME

  Member

  Nov 4, 2015

  I had posted this response in another area earlier; I do hope that it does not offend anyone:
  
  "Love2...I can wholeheartedly understand your irritation with the situation; it doesn't appear to be a fair and consistent application of the rules.  Perhaps the biggest contributors are the differences in perspectives and motives between the mods, teamtrue, people with dubious objectives, and the rest of us.  I'll only touch on the mods. The mods have a difficult job, usually without much positive reinforcement, to keep the room clean and above-board.  This is accomplished in a room full of nude people from cultures and backgrounds from around the world distanced by the computer monitor.  If only the UN could be as good!!  Anyway, in my opinion, the mods did not have all of the situation scenario in hand, nor could they view all the 'nonverbal' cues you were providing.  Those two thoughts, along with a finite period to get back to monitoring the room, may have been the chief cause of any perceived misunderstanding.  There's a big difference between a woman holding up her breasts as she mentions 'the big girls' and her clothes baggy fit (as my sister-in-law did a few months back) and the same scenario with the 'hey big boy' look.  Both have the same motions but the underlying intent is not even close. In an open forum, the first one is fine and the second is not... I don't know if this helps any, but it's my logic and I hope you continue to enjoy the room."
  
  

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• EV

  

  Evan-here

  Nov 6, 2015

  Funny how your a " home nudist" but seem to be an expert at what is acceptable for nudists.    Perhaps you should try getting out of your house and going to a nudist resort, nudist beach, or join a local non landed group and then maybe you would know what is acceptable behavior.
  
  Like it or not men and women are treated the same.  If some "heavy " body part needs "adjusting" do it off cam, end of story.
  

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• BO

  

  BornAgainOriginal Poster

  Nov 12, 2015

  [quote]Funny how your a " home nudist" but seem to be an expert at what is acceptable for nudists.    Perhaps you should try getting out of your house and going to a nudist resort, nudist beach, or join a local non landed group and then maybe you would know what is acceptable behavior.
  
  Like it or not men and women are treated the same.  If some "heavy " body part needs "adjusting" do it off cam, end of story.
  [/quote]Is this to me?  I don't even reference myself as a nudist but a naturist naturally as my most fulfilling nude time is in the sun, surf, sand...I frequent nude beaches, naturist retreats, nudist communities, Chicago Fun Club... not adjusting... Free2b... Thank God!

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• T=

  

  Tom === Thomas S. Tierney

  Dec 19, 2015

  [quote] Wow, to paraphrase Cordell Hull:  In all my fifty nine years, I have never seen a document so crowded with infamous falsehoods and distortions, on a scale so huge that I never imagined until today that anyone on this planet was capable of uttering them.
  
  [/quote]That is why I flagged him.
  

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• RE

  

  renebbare

  Dec 19, 2015

  More flags.
  

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• FU

  fuckyou

  Feb 1, 2016

  Standards & common sense are great.  Mods are here to enforce the rules, not impose their own standards.  We find it funny that mods will continuously publish the rules...and then claim that they are enforcing the "focus on face" rule.  There isn't one.  There is no "face only" rule either.  It's "face on cam."  Not really hard to figure out is it?  We've seen a lot of mods that enforce the "public disagreement with me is the primary rule violation."  Sorry.  Perhaps the mods would be least stressed out if they stuck to enforcing the rules instead of enforcing their "authorit-ay."

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• RO

  

  Rob

  Feb 5, 2016

  RE: Help me understand the "Rules" here please...I totally agree with the rules set forth for the chat room. I do think however that this "issue" of seeing a women's breasts on camera and what's appropriate and what's not needs to be addressed by this websites admins. It is clear to see though that breasts are not mentioned in the chat room rules so that doesn't leave much room to call a woman out on it. My only suggestion would be no close up shots of breasts just like the rule that says no crotch shots. Just my two cents.
  
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  Right on target!
  

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• EV

  

  Evan-here

  Feb 11, 2016

  A women being nude on cam, or even just showing her bare breasts is perfectly fine, a women playing with her breasts is something very different.
  Same rules apply for both men and women.  A man can be fully nude on cam, however,  masturbating is not allowed.
  
  Many people who get caught like to claim they were only "adjusting" their "personal " parts.
  
  The cam rules are very simple and very easy to comply with in the room.   Behave as you would at a resort or for that matter any public place.
  
  There are many places on the web that have no cam rules at all,  a few that even encourage bad behavior ,  nudist sites that have no rules
  
  what so ever, however,  people are here because we do.   Many of the same people that complain about the rules have come from those
  
  same rooms,  you have to ask yourself why would they leave a place that has just what they are looking for, no rules.    They come here
  
  Because we are the best nudist site, and if not the largest one of the largest.  Why, BECAUSE WE HAVE RULES.
  

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• KE

  

  Keith

  Feb 11, 2016

  [quote]Standards & common sense are great.  Mods are here to enforce the rules, not impose their own standards.  We find it funny that mods will continuously publish the rules...and then claim that they are enforcing the "focus on face" rule.  There isn't one.  There is no "face only" rule either.  It's "face on cam."  Not really hard to figure out is it?  We've seen a lot of mods that enforce the "public disagreement with me is the primary rule violation."  Sorry.  Perhaps the mods would be least stressed out if they stuck to enforcing the rules instead of enforcing their "authorit-ay."[/quote]Well said Harry. I fully agree.

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• ME

  Member

  Apr 29, 2016

  [quote]How about a chatroom where non-friended users have to ask for permission to view another users cam? Moderators excepted. It would possibly increase the number of women being brave enough to go on cam, knowing that only people they have trusted to friend will view them and perhaps stop unwanted loathsome comments flowing through in pm's.If a non friend requests to view your cam and you do not wish them to, it would be as simple as clicking an ignore button on their request and they can go away, it could also block them from sending pm's.Just a thought.[/quote]Like the old Yahoo chat rooms were, a user could turn on their cam and it would show that user had a cam on, but if another user tried to view the cam it would ask permission from the first user, who could approve, deny, or ignore the requester.

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