Finding real, respectful nudist to chat and make friends.

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• JO

  

  John

  Sep 27, 2020

  I don't know how to answer your post except to say that this type of forum seems to attract that type of person, but it seems to be all we've got at the moment. It's particularly hard on women, because while there are a few of us men who want what you want, they're drowned out by men who are cruising for a pickup and have no restraints. They're not interested in nudism, just naked pictures.
  
  I do have two suggestions. First, don't respond to anybody who isn't serious. You can often tell them by what they're posting. So if you get a post from somebody you don't know, click on his icon and you can tell by his history of posting just what he's there for. I think there's a way you can filter them out in the future.
  
  Secondly, get certified. It's not a sure-fire way to weed out the pervs, but people who have a commitment to real nudism have to take a little extra effort, and it scares away some of the more casual sorts. Yeah, you have to submit a nude picture of yourself, but it isn't seen by anybody besides the moderators. From what I can figure out, the requirement for the clothed and nude pictures is to to prevent somebody from just grabbing a nude picture off the Internet and saying it's them.
  
  I wish you well, and hope you find kindred spirits where you are.
  
  P.S. I posted this before I realized that it was going to end up in "The Ladie's Room." If anybody objects to a guy posting here, I'll delete it.

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• PA

  

  Paul

  Sep 28, 2020

  HI. I joined this site a year ago to find nudists that would want to meet. So far no luck. I am interested in going to Bare Oaks sometime & would like to meet you there if you'd like.

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• PA

  

  paul

  Oct 23, 2020

  see the thing is nudity and sexual thoughts are kind of two sides of the same coin. but we have to realise and understand that we always cant ask just sex from every one and every where, .... being naked is just as natural as being in to and jeans, just naked and not in any clothes
  nothing changes excet the concet of wearing sex. but sadly we often confuse nudity and sex. being nude does not means sex always , righ!. but yeah not every one is a ervert neither every one is a saint, at least i am not a saint

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• ST

  

  Samwize the Bare

  Oct 27, 2020

  [quote]I don't know how to answer your post except to say that this type of forum seems to attract that type of person, but it seems to be all we've got at the moment. It's particularly hard on women, because while there are a few of us men who want what you want, they're drowned out by men who are cruising for a pickup and have no restraints. They're not interested in nudism, just naked pictures. I do have two suggestions. First, don't respond to anybody who isn't serious. You can often tell them by what they're posting. So if you get a post from somebody you don't know, click on his icon and you can tell by his history of posting just what he's there for. I think there's a way you can filter them out in the future. Secondly, get certified. It's not a sure-fire way to weed out the pervs, but people who have a commitment to real nudism have to take a little extra effort, and it scares away some of the more casual sorts. Yeah, you have to submit a nude picture of yourself, but it isn't seen by anybody besides the moderators. From what I can figure out, the requirement for the clothed and nude pictures is to to prevent somebody from just grabbing a nude picture off the Internet and saying it's them. I wish you well, and hope you find kindred spirits where you are. P.S. I posted this before I realized that it was going to end up in "The Ladie's Room." If anybody objects to a guy posting here, I'll delete it.[/quote] This is about what I was going to say. It is sad that we cant feel safe in a chat room, on a nudist site, and not worry about weeding through the Pervs... Perhaps one day. But I do like the idea of being Certified. I think it shout actually be a Requirement for the site.

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• TD

  

  Tom D

  Oct 27, 2020

  [quote]I don't know how to answer your post except to say that this type of forum seems to attract that type of person, but it seems to be all we've got at the moment. It's particularly hard on women, because while there are a few of us men who want what you want, they're drowned out by men who are cruising for a pickup and have no restraints. They're not interested in nudism, just naked pictures.I do have two suggestions. First, don't respond to anybody who isn't serious. You can often tell them by what they're posting. So if you get a post from somebody you don't know, click on his icon and you can tell by his history of posting just what he's there for. I think there's a way you can filter them out in the future.Secondly, get certified. It's not a sure-fire way to weed out the pervs, but people who have a commitment to real nudism have to take a little extra effort, and it scares away some of the more casual sorts. Yeah, you have to submit a nude picture of yourself, but it isn't seen by anybody besides the moderators. From what I can figure out, the requirement for the clothed and nude pictures is to to prevent somebody from just grabbing a nude picture off the Internet and saying it's them.I wish you well, and hope you find kindred spirits where you are.P.S. I posted this before I realized that it was going to end up in "The Ladie's Room." If anybody objects to a guy posting here, I'll delete it. This is about what I was going to say. It is sad that we cant feel safe in a chat room, on a nudist site, and not worry about weeding through the Pervs... Perhaps one day. But I do like the idea of being Certified. I think it shout actually be a Requirement for the site.[/quote] The problem with certification is that once a picture is on an internet site, it can wind up anywhere. Several people have noted that they saw a picture that they posted here elsewhere and they have no idea how it got there.

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  FullSun

  Oct 28, 2020

  [quote]The problem with certification is that once a picture is on an internet site, it can wind up anywhere. Several people have noted that they saw a picture that they posted here elsewhere and they have no idea how it got there.[/quote] Except certification photos are not posted anywhere unless the user decides to post it.

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• TD

  

  Tom D

  Oct 28, 2020

  But they are still stored somewhere and a hacker could find them.

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• ST

  

  Samwize the Bare

  Oct 28, 2020

  [quote]But they are still stored somewhere and a hacker could find them.[/quote] Im wondering why so many people are afraid of their picture being seen, or shared or put on another site. We are Nudists right? Hundreds if not thousands of people have seen us nude, on beaches or at resorts. And in those venues we have most likely been photographed... So, I guess my question is. Why join a Social Nudist group, if you dont want to be Seen?

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• ST

  

  Samwize the Bare

  Nov 3, 2020

  [quote]Idealism is nice and all, but... realism rules the world.[/quote]
  
  Too true. Thats why I like to be real. Ideals are just things you wish that Where. But things you can not effect. Lots of things in life are not Ideal. But we live with them anyway. I live life with purpose, moral grounding and faith.

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• ME

  Member

  Nov 19, 2020

  The reality is that many people live with jobs that do not tolerate nudism. Teaching is one of them. People like to live, eat, stay in warm homes, etc and this takes money. Many can not risk losing their jobs over openly displayed nudism. Those who are real nudists go to clubs, nudist beaches, etc and do not need to put a whole bunch of photos on line for anyone and everyone to see.

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• DY

  

  dynamicduo1963

  May 25, 2021

  [quote] I still live by the A motto, I will not let My liberty be judged by Another mans conscience.[/quote] Excellent! The world would be a better place if everyone lived with this mindset...

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• BE

  

  Bernard

  Aug 5, 2021

  women dont know they hv choices, they dont need to give away their power ...they can choose to rise above
  to love themselves, cos often enough, they dont, thy need validation externally from others to love them...and they settle for less...

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• KU

  Kumar

  Aug 5, 2021

  Agreed

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• AN

  

  Aniruddha

  Aug 21, 2021

  I am real nudist want female friend to know more or explore myself more

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• ME

  Member

  Aug 21, 2021

  [quote]I am real nudist want female friend to know more or explore myself more[/quote]
  
  Then you need to go into the real world, do the hard work, and find what you seek in real life instead of wasting time in an on-line forum where your chances are next to nil. Sadly, if you have problems here or experience crazies then you will not get any help or responses from moderators or TT2. You will be totally on your own so you need to decide whether you want to take it or leave it. Good Luck (preferable in the real world!)

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• AN

  

  Aniruddha

  Aug 22, 2021

  Thank you dear
  But can you explain whatever you say?
  My whatsapp-. +918507076890

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• ME

  Member

  Aug 22, 2021

  There are no real women posters on here because there are only a handful of real nudist men and women who are here. Many have left and more continue to leave because the site is over run with perverts and the fakes and scammers who go after them for money. If the scammers were not successful then they would not keep coming back. Some of the mods prefer to harass and drive the real nudists away then to deal with the scammers. TT2 has been made aware of the problem by members but she does not even reply to the members and so she has most likely given up on this site. The only hope for this site is for new management that cares enough about real nudists to help and support them instead of driving them away and will make an honest effort to clean up the site. Otherwise, the downward spiral continues..........

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• SA

  

  Stone Andy

  Aug 22, 2021

  I agree that this site is on a downward spiral driven by users and management with questionable values and priorities. At the same time there are a handful of good people who are often open and willing to engage in meaningful dialogue. So I am very discerning in identifying them. I'll get friend requests for example and tell people I don't accept ones with private or blank profiles. Usually that's the last I hear from them but sometimes people come around. Count on one in 20 or 50 being worth you effort, and the rest just let them go. If that makes this site worthwhile overall or not is another issue.

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• ME

  Member

  Aug 22, 2021

  There is a group of real nudists here who are actively searching for a new home that is actually for real and true nudists. When such a new home is found, you can be certain that there will be a sizeable exodus from this site. The perverts, scammers, abusive mods, and apathetic owners can have what remains.... It is very sad that it has come to this but no one can say that the few genuine nudists here who at one time cared about this site did not try to warn others to clean it up.

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• DI

  

  Dick

  Aug 22, 2021

  [quote]I am real nudist want female friend to know more or explore myself more[/quote] I think it takes time. Friending others and reading and replying to forum articles are a way to get yourself known to others. Maybe in some groups discussions as well. I believe we tend to see the bad and forget to look for the good. Easy to put fault or do harm to others, but harder to make friends to help you. You have to put yourself out there and take some chances, while protecting yourself at the same time. Patience and understanding take time. Good luck

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• RS

  

  ruhl straley

  Aug 29, 2021

  i am a real nudist, i lived at avalon resort in paw paw, wv for 11 months after wife passed. i can talk clothed or nude in public/private/video chat does not matter to me, i can talk about whatever you want, and whatever you are comfortable with, i have been certified on TRUE NUDIST since JULY 2014, i have posed nude for drawing classes in Cumberland , and was the only one nude among 8 women and 6 men , and interacted with them on breaks [still nude ] so if you ever want to talk contact me

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• JO

  

  John

  Oct 18, 2021

  [quote]But they are still stored somewhere and a hacker could find them. Im wondering why so many people are afraid of their picture being seen, or shared or put on another site. We are Nudists right? Hundreds if not thousands of people have seen us nude, on beaches or at resorts. And in those venues we have most likely been photographed... So, I guess my question is. Why join a Social Nudist group, if you dont want to be Seen?[/quote] For me, it's concern over how it might be used. Yep, lots of people have seen me naked, and I have no problem with it. However, I'm not interested in finding it on a porn site.

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• JO

  

  John

  Oct 18, 2021

  One thing that should be done to cut down on the pervs would be to eliminate all the pics in the gallery that are not of certified users of this website. At random, I searched on the user name who posted a gallery pic. 45 pictures came up of all sorts of people in different settings. My guess is none were of the user who did the upload. I also think sexually provocative comments about pics should be deleted. I'm new here and still trying to make up my mind. But definitely, this place is far from 'true nudists.'

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• ST

  

  Strandjunge59

  Oct 30, 2021

  [quote]One thing that should be done...[/quote] Remarkable that somebody who joined TN only 14 days ago make such far-reaching demands. I am 8 months here and wouldn't presume something like that.

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