double you tea eff?

What is it with people who have never said a word to me deciding to send me friend requests? I'm not going to accept it if we've never been in communication... ESPECIALLY if the only picture you have on your profile is a close-up of your right butt cheek. And I've sent a bunch of messages around to people and I believe only one of those people was actually nice enough to bother responding... what's the deal? We're all interested in the naturist lifestyle, so we clearly have some things in common... so why not take sixty seconds to respond to my inane chit-chat rather than just ignore me? What's the problem? Am I too ugly or too straight or not gay enough? What is this? Middle school? -timp