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Ended a toxic friendship

Published Aug 1, 2020

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Long time ago, I had a friend on this site and she was too skeptical for me. At first I got along with the user because I had a lot in common with that person (I will not mention her name). One time I ended up exchanging skype with her, and whenever I talk to her, she always bring up the topic of sex. I am not a sexual person, but she kept talking to me to the point she would think I am interested in having sex. Often time I argued with the person (both in the chat room, and on skype), and it kept bothering me. Constant she would talk about masturbating, and having sex every week (including with her own boss. The constant conversation got me more concerned, but she kept telling me not to judge people. But for me sometimes I would judge because I am more skeptical in general. Not too long ago she blocked me here, so that was when I got more fed up with her. I sent her a long message on skype when I got on, and this is what I said. "Also, before leaving, I just want to say this. I am saying goodbye to you because now I just learn this. I am strict and judgmental at times because that's what I am as a person. I also want to say this, when you mentioned that I am messed up, well, you are wrong. I am not the messed up one, and the messed up one is you. I have clearly lost interest on you talking about sex because you seem like you can't control it. I don't see you as a nudist, and I can tell that you are fake. Having sex is natural, but having too much sex are for swingers and whores. I also have someone that I like, meet someday, and be nude with. I already know by 100% that I have no interest in meeting you. I did enjoy, but it's time for me to move on. I've had enough talking to a fake, and with that being said, goodbye for good. " Thus, I blocked the user on skype, ending the friendship as a whole. You might be sorry for me at first, but I felt a lot more satisfied after ending the friendship. What I learn a lot more on is never be friends with nudist or other people who are just into sex. Also for an fyi: for those who are only wanting to talk about sex, or wanting to have sex with me I will not bother talking with any. I hope you all understand and thank you for reading. - Takaki Clark