JOLENE1990 & MEN

You raise a good but loaded question Jolene ~ a bit like we're damned if we do and deleted if we don't ~ I think most men with half an ounce of intelligence are aware of the huge numbers by which women here, and every nudist site and venue, are outnumbered by males. So it's a bit hard to react too strongly to the methods that women use to hold back the hordes. We guys also get hit on here ~ often as tastelessly as women must experience. But the reality is you would need a good file system to keep track of who doesn't want messages , doesn't want a PM , or any IM's, or who you 'don't dare look at my camera when I have it on! ~ or have the maners to ask first etc etc ~ so the safest course of action becomes the course of least resistance. We add those who we would like to chat with - and then leave it up to them to make the first overtures. It saves on the emotional bruising ~ because some women do strike out quite venomously if their space is invaded.