Mistywaters

Well, she left the site a few weeks ago due to absolute rudeness in the chat room. She returned 2 days later mostly because of the support that the good people in the forum showed her. She is a large lady, why that should matter on a nudist site is beyond me. But apparantly she became very tired of men asking her why a "fat lady would be on a nude site". What a disgrace for us as nudists to be represented in part by a few pieces of low life dirt such as the ones who would make such statements. She has left for good with what is probably enough damage to her self esteem that she may have trouble ever living the nudist lifestyle. I for one see no need for the private messages in chat. If you see someone you want to speak to get their email, that would seem to eliminate a lot of hate. Make the creeps grow a big enough pair to say what they are gonna say on the chat board for everyone to see. Let all of us see the vile things they say instead of letting them hide behind the "whispers" or pm's. I try to be very careful in choosing my friends here, I look at profiles, read blogs, look at groups and try to message them a few times before suggesting a friendship. When I lose a good friend because of others rudeness it is kind of hard to swallow. On a lighter note, thank you all for being the kind of people you are. Nice, polite and friendly. Thank you for helping all of us to keep the site clean. I have a small group of friends here, but I feel it is a good group of friends.