The DIfference Between Noticing and Caring

I recently read the most amazing profile! This guy spent almost the whole profile about how he hates "fat" and unattractive people, and how they were not to contact him. The remainder was how "fit" he was and how everyone else should be too. I actually had to read it twice to make sure it wasn't tongue in cheek. This incredible profile brought to mind something I've been wondering about. There are some very beautiful women and some extremely handsome men here, and there are some people who are very average looks-wise. Beauty being in the eye of the beholder of course. We can't help but NOTICE a persons looks........but should we CARE? I've always been of the opinion that if you're a true nudist, it's not how "good" you look naked but the fact that you are comfortable in your own skin, and you enjoy being with like-minded people. If you actually care whether a person looks "good" (according to your own standards) naked, then you're not a true nudist but simply a voyeur. I'd like to know what some others here think.