We all hate pervs! ~Please Read~

Yes we all know pervs suck. I think there is a universal line where the term pervert starts, however some people will raise that line into my area because I am a little more experimental. The true difference is that yes while I do see people as sexual beings I also see them as people and treat them as such regardless of what they may or may not be wearing, or how their body looks. The true perverts will see them as a hole to stick it in and that's it. Many of you may say that the line should be drawn a little higher, and it probably should. But to those of us that feel more comfortable or interested with sex and are willing to go further than most, we will get labeled as a pervert. I think my sexual exploits have turned me into a better lover, just ask my Fiancé. A lot of people here and everywhere seem to forget that sex is a normal act and that becoming aroused and all sexual thoughts should be shunned and you should feel shame if you feel that way. I think they are wrong. No one should be ashamed about the sexual urges that they have. They should just not impose upon other's rights as a human being. If you feel that urge toward another person then cherish it but don't ever throw it in their face (so to speak). If you are both adults and you both have that urge toward each other then great you two or three or more can talk about it together in private because everyone else's human rights would be violated if you go about it all in public. It is a fine line to be healthy and sexual versus creepy and perverted. Now go live your healthy sexual lives and let me live mine in peace. If I ever feel any of those urges toward any of you, and I think you might have those toward me, I will brooch the subject delicately and in private. If it turns out that I was wrong in my judgment of your feelings then it will never be brought up again and we will continue to be friends or acquaintances or whatever.