What`s up with the Mods

I can see getting kicked out of chat if I was really doing something wrong, but I honestly wasn't. Okay, so everyone is innocent...yeah right, but seriously...I tugged on my nuts, and wsa booted...went to the other room hoping to explain to the mod and was booted before I got a chance to say a word. There really needs to be some way to question what someone thinks they're seeing. Most of the mods will ask, if in doubt, but I got nothing... Hell, I appreciate the job they've done in making the chat room a cleaner place, but there really needs to be some sort of way to question the almighty hand of MOD. Tell you one thing, I ain't a paying another dime to the site until that changes. IT's one thing when you're in the wrong...but this is something else.