Male nudists — Certified Chat on True Nudists

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Sep 18, 2016

I understand why but I wish it was not so. I am a male naturist with a real enjoyment and passion for living my life as much as I can with out clothing I am not at all interested in seeing people naked or looking for girls naked ether. I have been to a nudusts beach and a nudist club/ camp and I found the people there and at the beach to be friendly and polite and very excepting of me. But I have found on here most of the profiles I has seen have no single men. I guess a lot of single men pester them a lot from some of what I have read by making the point that single men will be ignored.

I just would like to say I understand why you may feel that way I came a cross a guy at the beach I went to and its not nice to be made uncomfortable like that even for me.

But I wish people would not tar every single male with the same brush there would be a lot of genuine male nudists out there that just enjoy being naked as much as you and are not after anything but to make friends that enjoy life naked as well.

In a way its not really equality is it when your single male.

But please I do understand why people do ignore single male nudists.

I wonder what you think about this?

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Joey
Sep 18, 2016
IMHO the problems with online interactions have to do with netiquette (i.e.; internet etiquette) or lack there of.

People should always treat online interactions as they would real world interactions, or in some cases even better. People often do / say things to people that they would not in real life. Part of this is the separation of the various aspects of in person interaction. But other problems are learned bad behavior that people believe doing / saying certain things online is "normal".

Before you send a message or press the button to send a friend request to someone you don't know, READ their profile. Hopefully the person has taken the time to tell people something about themselves and the type of people they're looking to meet. (Likewise, YOU should take the same amount of time as the person should be reading your profile to find out about you as well.)

NOTE - Many people, like myself, state in their profile that people should NOT send friend requests without communicating with them first. If you've ignored this by not even reading their profile then you've already lost. Also, many people have most or all of their pictures set to private for "friends only". If you send a friend request without talking to them you're sending a message that you're only interested in seeing their private pictures. Most important, on almost all social media sites you can see the public parts of users' profiles and send messages without being online friends first.

Again, treat online interactions like you would real life encounters. You won't get a second chance to make a first impression.
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Paul
Jan 6, 2017
Remember there are very few single females on this site as many are fake profiles containing stolen photos so could easy be males hiding as females.
But other looking at the private profiles/photos there isn't any thing to gain other than marking them on a list.
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Shrty Sid
Jan 31, 2017
I wish the folks here for the photos would realise that they can pretty much get better photos without the hassle on Tumblr... Maybe that should be announced more prominently in the registration page.
And I agree with everything you said. I'm single male and a true naturist too and I also feel the pain of being ignored. But then there are the few people here that do give you the benefit of a chance - so I'm happy with the friends I can make and enjoy it.
Cheers
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Paul
Jan 31, 2017
I had one friend request a few days ago who couldn't have read my profile saying I don't want any and then he sent me a pm asking why didn't I want him as a friend.
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Member
May 15, 2017
This was an interesting article I read a couple of weeks ago;
https://youngnaturistsamerica.com/nudism-gender-women-single-male-policies-discrimination/
Particularly interesting is how male nudists are treated after their spouses have passed away.
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Reuben Titus
May 27, 2017
I haven't noticed discrimination on the web, but haven't gone to resorts where it may be an issue. Although I tend to want to hang in the background and not be noticed, so being ignored may not be too bad. I have become a naturist in order to acclimate myself to nudity without lust, so pictures are irrelevant to me. It's easy for men who are looking for something to lust over to get into nudism just to hunt for naked pictures to lust over, they are the ones that make a nuisance of themselves on otherwise clean naturist sites. I used to look at porn occasionally, but then get disgusted with it. Haven't for some time and it's getting where when I do see it it's not interesting. Which is how I wanted it to be.

I am one who's never been married or even a serious relationship. But still kind of plan to some time, will wait on my Lord for that. I mainly want to build my character after the pattern laid out in the Bible, and strive to be a blessing to those around me.
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