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Not sure what I'm doing wrong

Posted Jul 9, 2018

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johnnyOriginal Poster
Jul 9, 2018

I joined hoping to meet nudist friends locally but it's just not happening. I have befriended a few online but I'm hoping to meet in person. I've chatted with a few in the chat room. I have after about a year finally posted pics of myself and recently became certified. I know that a major problem is that my wife is just not into the "lifestyle" therefore I cannot invite anyone to my home but if anyone has any suggestions about getting to meet others please let me know.
When I take my clothes off it seems as though my problems slide off as well. I do love to both see and be seen nude, I have been a home nudist for awhile now and my wife sometimes joins me in this but is not willing to branch out to include others.

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    johnnyOriginal Poster
    Jul 9, 2018

    Thanks for your reply,Bob. I understand the single problem, I love my wife very much and I'm not trying to use this as a hook up site but I also understand that it's hard to trust a single guy in a couples atmosphere. Your finding the all guys group is a stroke of luck I'd love to find a group like that. I have visited a resort twice the same resort, The Barehide Ranch. I loved it the people are supper, loved walking around the trails nude, also loved the nude dances but both times I've gone there was very few people there. once it was right after a major event everyone was gone by the time I attended. The second time I had already arranged everything with my wife and then a cold front came through. I always make sure my wife knows that I'm going and arrange a time when she has plenty to do and not sitting around the house bored.

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    MysticRhythm
    MysticRhythm
    Jul 25, 2018

    It sounds like a lot of us are in pretty much the same boat. I'm still trying to learn how to use this site better (and still very much learning a lot of basic etiquette and info from these forums), but so far not much luck connecting with local people or groups either. I definitely don't think you're doing anything wrong, but simply that people - especially couples on here - probably feel much more at ease if / when our spouses would be comfortably nude as well. Don't be discouraged. Good luck!

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    hardguy29nc
    hardguy29nc
    Jan 9, 2019

    I'm single and understand the guys who's wives aren't nudist or comfortable with it. It's not easy for a lone male to visit and explore social nudist groups, resort, etc. which I understand to a degree. I'd love to find a female for friendship(and possibly more) to explore social nudism with but they are a Unicorn and honestly I can't even find locals for naked time as it is. If anybody has any advice I'd certainly appreciate it.

    C

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    John
    John
    Feb 25, 2019

    You are not doing anything wrong, but it is particularly difficult to meet local nudist friends through this sort of wen site.
    The few friends I have made through similar UK web sites all live between 3 and 12 hours drive away and I usually meet them on holiday or on similar occasions.
    In my opinion the easiest way to meet nudist friends is through a local club. In my case there are no landed clubs very near but there are a couple of local monthly or fortnightly nude swim groups where I have made friends.

    Although my experience is strictly in the UK, I hope this is useful wherever you live.

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