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Below the Hot Tub Bubbles

Posted Oct 14, 2010

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ME
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Oct 14, 2010

Sooo. on our last vavation we went to Caliente, which we enjoyed very much.  On night after some dancing and drinking we retired to the hot tub to relax a bit before going to bed.  We had met two other couples and on single guy who was nice and not pushy.  We were huddled in one end of the hot tub in a circle chatting when I felt my huband let his hand rome arounf my bottom and he did gently roam around underneath.  We are not swingers and on the whole I am not even into PAD for the most part, but due to the lack of inabitions brought on by alcohol and the good vibes of the night I did not give him my usual face of scorn.  We hung out for a while chit chatting and then headed back to our golf cart to head back to our condo.  In the golf cart I chided John for being a bad boy in the hot tub, he laughed and had no idea what I was talking about, I became embarrased and let it drop.  the next morning I asked him about it and he told me it had not been him but must have been ed the single guy standigng on the otherside, I was pretty embarassed, John said it was no big deal that he would talk to Ed later that day when we saw him again.  I asked him not to it would mortify me.  John blew it off.  Was I wrong?

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    D
    Mar 24, 2014
    Uninvited touching is NOT appropriate even in Swinging circles, much less social nudist settings. Caliente is not AANR, but as far as I've heard sexual PDA is still not permitted and I'm pretty confident the Caliente management would love to identify anyone doing this.

    I would hope that Caliente would additionally , even if they are not AANR members, would pass this info on to AANR for distribution to AANR resorts.
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    sunnmaxx
    Mar 24, 2014
    Be prepared to say no, especially in settings where swinging is accepted.  The caressing of the behind is kind of like asking is some peoples minds, so say no.
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