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Conduct and Etiquette

Nudity and towels - Nonpublic settings

Posted Mar 26, 2017

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NathanOriginal Poster
Mar 26, 2017

So I believe I understand about using towels in public settings like beaches and resorts including the reason behind the rule. I am curious about in "private" social setting such as visiting a friends house or being invited to another naturists house for dinner/swim/etc. Would you take a towel to sit on? For that matter do you use one around your house? I have read comments about people getting visitors and after telling them about being nudist proceed to get comfortable in some cases with the visitor choosing to join this unplanned for state of "dress". Does sitting on towels come into play here too? I very interested in what the experienced long time nudists have done/do or experienced when visiting (not to discourage comments by newer nudists I welcome your opinions too just wanting to be clear I want experiences not just opinions).

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  • NM
    Nevada Motojicho
    Nevada Motojicho
    Mar 26, 2017

    When I was in college, I became friends with the nude model in my art class. I visited her and her boyfriend's house and they did not use towels in their home or in their travels. I, on the other hand, would bring a towel regardless. Now that I'm more mature (age-wise), I wouldn't be caught without one... Think about it; have you ever come home from work after a long day, slipped off those tidy whites and become surprised... where the heck did that come from? Well, I don't want to embarrased -- take a towel. (smile)

    (Edited) -- have a guest towel available for unexpected guests.

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  • SC
    Scott
    Scott
    Mar 26, 2017

    I use a towel when sitting inside or outside. On the couch, I use a sheet to keep my body oil off of the fabric. Towels and sheets are easier to wash than chairs and couches.

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  • ST
    Steve
    Steve
    Mar 26, 2017

    We don't use towels when it's just us at home. There are a couple of Indian spreads folded up like cushions on couches in the living room and the lanai, which we will sometimes deploy when napping or with company.

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  • JO
    John
    John
    Mar 26, 2017

    Towels are mandatory for good hygiene and good nudist etiquette. Always take one wherever you go at minimum as a courtesy and sign of respect for your host. Have nice fresh towels available for guests you have to your home as well.

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  • OL
    Olly
    Olly
    Mar 26, 2017

    As you say in public venues a towel, wrap or other cloth is the etiquette for hygiene. When at home I don't use a towel and have had no mishaps. I do provide towels for nudist visitors (and then use one myself) so they need have no concerns. When visiting other nudists they usually provide a towel to sit on. Otherwise I use the Tee shirt I've just taken off. BTW it is only nudist who sit on towels. When in a hotel have you wondered if a textile has sat naked on the furniture the night before.

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  • NE
    nebr4200
    nebr4200
    Mar 29, 2017

    I always use a towel at home and when I visit friends they have towels available for visitors as do I.

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  • EN
    Erik Natams
    Erik Natams
    Mar 29, 2017

    I always use a towel and have towels ready for guests.

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  • DE
    DesertRat
    DesertRat
    Mar 29, 2017
    We always use towels to sit on, weather at home or away, inside or out. The only time I don't usually use a towel is when sitting on the concrete at the edge of the pool, but sometimes I do use a towel.
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  • FL
    flsmoothie
    flsmoothie
    Mar 31, 2017

    We call the towel I'm using at the time, my "nudie towel." I always sit on one with an exception, if just out of the shower. At that point, I'm cleaner than the surface upon which I'm sitting.

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  • OZ
    Ozzy
    Ozzy
    Apr 3, 2017

    I have 2 pieces of lambs wool to sit on at home, so very comfortable and cool in the summer and warm in the winter. I all way have a towel of elsewhere.

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  • JE
    John English
    John English
    Apr 3, 2017

    Allways use a towel when around the house or outside

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    Mark
    Mark
    Apr 9, 2017

    Always makes sense!

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  • MI
    Michael
    Apr 12, 2017

    All hail the butt towel. I keep one in my vehicle, use one at home, and have plenty for guests

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  • OR
    orbarebear
    orbarebear
    Apr 18, 2017

    It depends on the person and the setting - some people "leak" more than others, and it's often circumstantial. The towel rule is clearly a good general practice, but I don't treat it as a hard and fast rule at home including for my friends, but the places I sit regularly have something easily washable in place.

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  • ME
    Member
    Apr 18, 2017

    I think I am also a 'cleanliness freak' as are a few of my nudist friends. Another issue, is that Textiles who use public transport or cafes and restaurants, have no idea of who has sat on the seat earlier and left sticky fingers, icecream or chocolate etc behind. (excuse the pun). We have light coloured fabric chair covering in the house and they are starting to look very shabby from Textiles! So a towel is ALWAYS a wise idea.

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  • ME
    Member
    Apr 18, 2017
    [quote]When you talk about the towels that nudist carry around with them to sit on, how do you know which side they had against their bottom at the last stop? Could be defeating the purpose if it gets flipped around each time. LOL![/quote] Good observation. However, a bare bottom, even if clean, can act like a suction cup on smooth surfaces such as leather or vinyl. Unless you're hopelessly germophobic, that towel adds another layer of sanitation.
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    Mike
    Mike
    Apr 18, 2017

    I could not agree more :-)

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  • OO
    ooigor
    Apr 19, 2017

    i have thought about this "which side up" issue before. my plan, should i ever open my own nudist B&B, would be to offer guests a two-toned towel, one side darker than the other. say blue: light blue on one side and dark blue on on the other. (wouldn't work so well with black, of course.) then each person would be on for remembering which side for them is "up" and which side is "down." were there more nudists who needed such a solution, there would be a market for such towels i would think.

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  • JH
    James H
    James H
    Apr 24, 2017

    Not usually at home - everything is either leather or has sheets on them so those things clean.

    It is common protocol when elsewhere to sit on one though - not everything is as easy to clean as a leather couch!

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  • ME
    Member
    Apr 25, 2017

    Body oils can present quite a cleaning problem over time! I recently had some wood floors refinished, and the floor guy told me we should never walk on the wood floors barefoot!!! He said over time oils from our feet would dull the finish and even cause it to wear out sooner. So now I am "naked-with-socks" and always grab a towel before sitting naked - on the floor!

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  • SU
    sunnmaxx
    Apr 25, 2017

    We always use towels in our home or anyone else's. If we are sitting on the deck benches right after hottubing I wouldn't say a word. It's just the right thing to do. I do leave towels on a few chairs too.

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  • ME
    Member
    Jul 22, 2017
    [quote]I rarely use a towel around the house since I shower after getting home from work. Also, after using the restroom I use a flushable wet wipe, possibly one of the greatest things a nudist can buy.[/quote] No they are not! Waste Management in our region has pleaded with the public on all levels of public media to stop flashing these so called flushable wipes down the toilets. They do not break down like normal tp and could and had plugged up the system. If your drain pipes get plugged and the city has to come down and fix. That's your expense baby. When the system gets plugged at the waste management station that's the city expense ie your taxes at work. They could easily same a million/year if you ONLY flushed your human waste and normal tp. Not even scrap food. Trust me, I know from personal experience. It's expensive.
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  • NU
    nudeyooper
    Jul 26, 2017

    The cat steps out of the litter box and jumps up onto the furniture and proceeds to lick herself clean. The dog comes in from outside and does the same, so I am not that particular.

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  • ME
    Member
    Jul 27, 2017
    [quote]I rarely use a towel around the house since I shower after getting home from work. Also, after using the restroom I use a flushable wet wipe, possibly one of the greatest things a nudist can buy.[/quote] Our club had to shut down an entire restroom / shower house last week for a major septic system issue. Guess what the cause was?? Flushable wet wipes. It was a busy club weekend and it caused a lot of inconvenience for visitors and a huge expense for the club to correct. Good gawd Management was let's say less than happy.
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