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Toilets at nudist resorts?

Posted Dec 17, 2016

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WantstonenudeOriginal Poster
Dec 17, 2016

I have never been to a nudist resort and I was wondering how the bathrooms are since everyone is already naked? And how do the staff dress( if they dress)?

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  • WA
    WantstonenudeOriginal Poster
    Dec 17, 2016

    Also are there open showers? And are the bathrooms unisex?

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    Steve
    Steve
    Dec 17, 2016

    It'll vary. One resort I've gone to has a door-less, unisex bathroom with an outdoor shower. There's a door on the toilet stall. Staff there, in warm weather, anyway, will be naked at the reception desk. Another has a conventional two-bathroom setup and requires clothes in the reception lobby for staff and visitors alike, with staff almost always dressed.

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    DesertRat
    DesertRat
    Dec 17, 2016

    All these things vary from resort to resort. The front desk staff maybe clothed or nude, depending upon the resort. Personally I feel that if they're promoting nudism, they should be nude also. If you're a car dealer selling Fords, you don't drive a Chevy. Some of the maintenance staff may be nude or not. The same with the wait staff, although a lot of these will be just wearing an apron.
    Larger restrooms with multi stalls probably will be single sex only. Small, one person restrooms may be used by anyone but are completely private. Showers may be open air or closed gang showers that can be used by anyone at any time. Some resorts also have private enclosed showers.
    As a side note; when showering in a gang shower, you never know who may join you or what gender they may happen be. I've had some interesting conversations with members of the opposite sex while showering. This is just one of the many benefits of nudism.

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    nudony
    nudony
    Dec 17, 2016

    To all these great answers I will only add that that's the biggest difference between the "rustic" and the "commercial" nudist resort.
    At the rustic (aka the "Mom and Pop") resort you're more much more likely to find coed everything and a nude staff. I was a bit "put off" the first time I went to BA and saw that they had coed bathrooms. Stalls for the toilets, but everything else open. But I personally quickly got used to it pretty quickly.

    You just have to figure out what designation fits the resort you've visiting; and which you're more comfortable with.

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    J.
    J.
    Dec 18, 2016

    Open unisex showers are common at resorts (usually by the pools), but we've seen both unisex and separate bathrooms.

    The member-owned club near us (Solair) has a unisex bathroom with individual closed stalls. The person at the main office may or may not be nude or at least topless. The staff at the grill are clothed (I'm sure by Department of Health requirements). Tours are done by volunteer members who are nude.

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    Hawk
    Hawk
    Dec 18, 2016
    [quote]We've visited countless resorts and clubs and in all cases, except for one, we've found that even in a nudist environment, separate toilets and bathroom facilities are provided which, in our opinion, is the right thing to do. Regardless of our willingness to be nude in the company of strangers, using the toilet in private is something the vast majority of nudists prefer to do. The one facility we did visit that did have coed toilets and would be considered rustic. Since we would be in our motorhome while visiting this particular nudist resort, we'd confine our toilet use to our motorhome toilet. Co-ed showers are usually the norm but we have seen where both coed open showers and private showers in the restrooms are available. With some nudists preferring to groom body hair; pubic area, legs, etc. , and not be watched, the private showers in the men's and women's restrooms provide that for these nudists. Others have no problem grooming their pubic areas in front of others and they don't mind doing so in the coed, open showers. Being nudists and being naked with strangers shouldn't mean that you give up all privacy issues and situations. Using the toilet is a privacy issue and having separate facilities for men and women is something, we're sure, most ... if not ALL men and women would prefer. Take that portion of privacy away and insist on coed toilet facilities and you'll see even more women leave nudism/naturism. Nude resort, club staff dress varies. Most times, we've encountered mostly dressed staff members. Many of these staff members aren't even nudists! At our club, the office staff encounters outside vendors constantly and in an effort not to embarrass, upset or force their nudity on these textiles, they remain clothed or covered most of the day. The upside to our club's office staff, they are all residents of the club and are nudists.[/quote] Andydi is right on the money. My personal experience has been the same.
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    Maryanne
    Maryanne
    Dec 18, 2016
    [quote]I have never been to a nudist resort and I was wondering how the bathrooms are since everyone is already naked? And how do the staff dress( if they dress)?[/quote]

    Like you have read many places are different.
    We have stayed at the former Mystic Oaks in Southern California where they had outdoor showers as well as segregated toilets and indoor showers. No community showers. However, most women did not hesitate to walk into the shower area if they had to tell their husband something ... LOL. Same with the wife of the owner. The toilets had stalls and doors so you had privacy.

    At Glen Eden they have both types of showers. Several private shower areas and a few community showers where around six can use them at the same time. All the toilets are private, though. It was always more interesting using the community showers. You could meet more people, maybe have a short conversation and get to know the residents. If you're at the club to be naked then you should have no hesitancy in showering with them too. After water volleyball we all rushed into the showers together and took turn washing off and chatting. How the staff dresses or not all depends on what the front office is like and what management decrees.
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    sunnmaxx
    Dec 22, 2016

    It's already been said, most toilets are separated unless in a remote area they may only have a one stall. Showers are usually co-ed but if that's sqweemish for u, then go when nobody else is there. While talking one gal asked me to soap her back which I politely did, just so she could tell her husband and make a joke out of it later. Nothing more than that. You need to stop asking questions and visit a resort.

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    J.
    J.
    Dec 22, 2016
    [quote]At Laguna del Sol near Sacramento in Northern California... they have what might be called the 3-door arrangement. Separate toilet rooms, and a common shower room. The shower stalls have walls between them, and are open at the front.[/quote] The ones on the other side of Lake Archie under the condo building? I thought they have a row of shower heads without any partitions. We have always stayed in the condos, so we don't get to use the public showers much.
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    nudeprewd
    nudeprewd
    Jan 17, 2017
    [quote]It's already been said, most toilets are separated unless in a remote area they may only have a one stall. Showers are usually co-ed but if that's sqweemish for u, then go when nobody else is there. While talking one gal asked me to soap her back which I politely did, just so she could tell her husband and make a joke out of it later. Nothing more than that. You need to stop asking questions and visit a resort.[/quote]"..... You need to stop asking questions and visit a resort."Haha :) So *true*!! I'm all about doing one's research and thoroughly gathering info so you can make the right choices for yourself ( so many questions about "where can I go" would be answered with a simple Google search). But yes, the best way to find out, is just GO, man, GO! And enjoy life in way you never knew possible. The freedom and joy of removing that barrier of clothing is cathartic and transforming..... wonderful! So many great replies here by the way. Like many have said, you'll see every combo possible. Having the privacy for bodily functions is certainly greatly desired. The one rustic place Andy refers to has a row of urinals right inside the door to the bathhouse, that even though dudes are facing away, probably is unnerving to the uninitiated visitor to this unique throwback rustic communal vibe hot spring paradise (it's what we love about it) :) And even though I had been to many c/o hot springs etc. and a few other c/o venues and B&B, it was still a jolt the first time I was taking a shower at Oaklake Trails clubhouse. The double shower is just a half open room off the main room of the clubhouse, and went in after breakfast, where most people were still covered in tshirts/robes because of the cool morning. Then in walked a woman, hung robe up, and began taking shower beside me just casual as can be (as to be expected). I don't know why, but even after plenty of previous coed social nudism/naturism, that was still a brief shock. Kind of like, "Dude, you are definitely at a nude resort now!" Ha! And the feeling that here we were, two strangers taking a shower together right off the side of a big 2 story room. Just that one-of-a-kind fun experience you can only find at a nude venue. And wonderful people there at Oaklake Trails by the way (that was 20 years ago, I don't imagine they have changed much, just bigger. Brenda and another lady gave me a personal invite to return with my wife, but that just never was in the cards. ) So ..... just GO!
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    Shrty Sid
    Shrty Sid
    Jan 22, 2017

    At the place I went to - they only have 12 rooms. So the common showers near the pool and beach are wide open - not enclosed at all. The toilets were conventional - individual stalls close the door as you go in.
    Not sure why common showers should be a problem - we are all nude in any case.

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    Jim Shorts
    Jim Shorts
    Feb 14, 2017

    All of the places I've been the showers are unisex. Restrooms are not, but one place I go to has no doors on the restrooms themselves which leads to a hallway. Then there is a wall, and in that wall are two doorways that open on the the clubhouse floor and dance floor. I don't like it, but at least one doesn't have to see right in there and watch someone pooping while you're sitting there eating chocolate pudding. It just seems to me that bathrooms should have doors wherever they are, and they also help odor from leaking out into the common area or in this case, the kitchen too, because the kitchen is right next to the bathrooms on the same hall.

    One place that I go to has no indoor showers at all. One has to rent a cabin or bring an RV, if they want that much privacy. The showers are outside by the pool, and there's six showerheads. Everyone showers together just as they do everything else nude together.

    I love showering outdoors. It's so refreshing...it is every much so as using the hot tub and swimming pools. I used to to shower nude outdoors long before I went to nudist resorts. I worked at public pools, and after pools were closed and I was done cleaning everything, including the pool itself, I would strip and shower outdoors rather than using the showers in the locker room. I really didn't care who saw me, and no one could get in anyway, because I was locked inside.

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    Roger ferris
    Roger ferris
    Mar 5, 2017

    Hi there, been to Prague last year, found nice nudist Park, a haje, 20 minutes metro, from. Central Prague, toilets there were basic, but no attendants, open air cold showers outside toilets, staff at the outside cafe, we're female & fully clothed, but this didn't bother me,, as long as they served me cheap beer, cafe food freshly made, plus salads available, mostly retired there, or locals, will visit again this year.

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    Roger ferris
    Roger ferris
    Mar 5, 2017

    Hi there, went to a nudist Park, just outside prague last year, men's & ladies toilets were basic, no attendant staff, as gents urinals were a bit smelly,just like the old boys toilets, at school, outside cold shared showers, . Outside cafe bar female staff were clothed, mostly retired , sitting there, with locals, the lake is called hostivar, get metro from Prague Central, get off at haje metro, we'll worth the walk to Lake..

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    sunnmaxx
    Mar 6, 2017

    In the Midwest most have separate restrooms with common outdoor shower but the hotel (only 4 rooms) had common restrooms with one shower stall. Of course theres a open shower for rinsing by hot tub.

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