HI I'm pretty new here, I was in the chatroom recently in a private chat when an admin / moderator appeared on another private chat and said I had been accused of sexual chat. I didnt think i had crossed any boundaires I didn't think i was anywhere near an explicit level in conversation. I have been asked questions and chatted to by others in recent days with far more specfic sex talk/ questions which i was politely said no thanks and left that chat. If I knew how to block that user in the future from private messaging me i would do that ! I dont have a cam so it couldnt have been any video issue. So i expected a WARNING if that was indeed the case but instead I was and still am i banned by the admin/moderator from the main chat room So please explain what is the appeal process to being banned ! or how long is one banned for on a FIRST OFFENSE I really like chat its the best part of the site and i miss it a lot !
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- MEMemberAug 5, 2013
Very simply....."sigh" that is all.
ReactReply - MA
ManOfWicklowAug 5, 2013[quote]In context, it was an annoyed response at his incessant requesting for me to show my genitals to him in private.
The moderator does not have the power to unkick me so I'd like to know who does because I have been stitched up.[/quote]
When you have faceless photos displaying erections on your profile, then there will always be people who are going to comment.ReactReply - MEMemberAug 30, 2013[quote]
[/quote]I had it to I was just chatting no cam on ( well I had it on but on a different site ) having a chat with someone in pm I then posted in open chat if any one wanted to chat with cam then without anything being said no pm nothing I am kicked form the chat. So what is going on and how long am I baned for I don't think it's right that you get kicked for wanting to chat in a chat room but not being told why is wrong toReactReply - RE
renebbareAug 30, 2013Are you sure your cam was not on? I think it probably was and if that was the case, this is why you were banned. I will go so far as to say you broke TN rules.
ReactReply - MEMemberAug 30, 2013
dids12345......I was the person who kicked you from the chat room. I thought it was only fair to respond to you here to help you refresh your memory of what you actually posted in the chat room. You stated that you posted in the room....anyone wanted to chat with cam. You are missing about 4 or 5 key words . Statements like that would get you physically removed from any social nudist gathering . I do have a screen shot of what you posted in the chat room and I will be more than happy and willing to provide that to you . Send me a message and I will send the post to you. Thanks Nat
ReactReply - RErenebbareAug 30, 2013
Why is it the banned posters can so 'selective' of the true reason for their ban? - I was only "asking for chat with cam" LOL
ReactReply - MEMemberSep 1, 2013Yes chat with cam and the type of person i want to chat toI like to see who I am chatting to as there are so many fakes on here and dirty old men that just want to have a wank with younger guys i was only stating who I wanted to chat with which was people that wanted to use a cam if they don't they they need not chat
Well it would have been nice to be told but next time i go on chat i I will just say male 30 would like to chat via pvt cam so I know you are not a dirty old gay guy wanting to wank on cam as I like to see who I am talking toReactReply - MEMemberSep 1, 2013
I see you are one of the "nudists " that hide there profile says a lot
ReactReply - RErenebbareSep 2, 2013[quote]I see you are one of the "nudists " that hide there profile says a lot [/quote]Not sure who you are referring to here?
"You stated that you posted in the room....anyone wanted to chat with cam. You are missing about 4 or 5 key words"is quoted by the Mod who kicked you out of the chatroom. Please take a moment to re-think why you may have been kicked from the room.ReactReply - MEMemberSep 2, 2013
as i said next time i use chat i will just post hi i am a male 30 would like to chat via pvt cam so I know you are not a dirty old gay guy just wanting to wank on cam as I like to see who I am talking to end of dont care any way my point was i was never told why
ReactReply - RErenebbareSep 2, 2013The point is please don't bring this to the forums.
Please take this matter politely to the Mod in question.ReactReply - MEMemberSep 4, 2013
well if you read the post you would have sean i was just looking for answers as i did not know who kicked me and for why once i found out who it was i would have spoken to them in mail it turns out it was not you that kicked me so what has it got to do with you other than to make problems in the fourms you have not added anything worth wile to the thread so i am quessing that this how you make your self feel big and worth wile in your life maybe you should do somthing other than poke you nose where its not needed i have nothing more to say i now know why and who kicked me end of and none of your comments helped me get there so you were mot needed
ReactReply - RErenebbareSep 5, 2013[quote]well if you read the post you would have sean i was just looking for answers as i did not know who kicked me and for why once i found out who it was i would have spoken to them in mail it turns out it was not you that kicked me so what has it got to do with you other than to make problems in the fourms you have not added anything worth wile to the thread so i am quessing that this how you make your self feel big and worth wile in your life maybe you should do somthing other than poke you nose where its not needed i have nothing more to say i now know why and who kicked me end of and none of your comments helped me get there so you were mot needed [/quote]Just to repeat.......... Post 39.ReactReply
- MEMemberSep 5, 2013
AND AGAIN I NEEDED TO ASK TO FIND OUT WHO KICK ME TO SEND MAIL YOU HAVE NOT ADDED ANYTHING OR GIVEN ANY REAL INPUT THE ONLY THING YOU HAVE DONE IS STUCK YOUR NOSE IN AND TRYING TO MAKE PROBLEMS WERE THERE ARE NONE
ReactReply - JUJustnudenothingmoreSep 5, 2013And being belligerent and shouting will get you some where? It is a three day ban......the mods cannot change that.....maybe you need to find a hobby.....ReactReply
- RErenebbareSep 6, 2013[quote]And being belligerent and shouting will get you some where? It is a three day ban......the mods cannot change that.....maybe you need to find a hobby.....
[/quote]Well said.ReactReply - LIlifem0delNov 14, 2013[quote]The point is please don't bring this to the forums.
Please take this matter politely to the Mod in question.[/quote]Read his posts if you're going to comment on them.ReactReply - RErenebbareNov 15, 2013Perhaps reading the post by the Mod in question?
And I quote (again) "- "You stated that you posted in the room....anyone wanted to chat with cam. You are missing about 4 or 5 key words"is quoted by the Mod who kicked you out of the chatroom. Please take a moment to re-think why you may have been kicked from the room. - "ReactReply - DA
DavyNov 18, 2013[quote]The rules of the room are simple.
Chat Room Rules and Regulations
1. No Sexual Discussion, or Sexual Activities in EITHER ROOM
2. No Crotch Shots. Faces on cam please.
3. If you do not want to be seen on your cam. Do not use it.
4. Be nice, no rudity harassing or trolling.
5. Flag users who do not follow the rules.
6. Have Fun!
Failure to follow these rules will cause your account to be banned.
In addition to this the TOS states no soliciting and advertising. This mean no posting of links in the room.
Posting Skype addresses, email addresses and the like is considered soliciting. If you chose to share such personal information, do it in a Private Message.
Face on cam does not mean that you can set your cam on the floor or at the foot of your bed in a south to north shot. Your can be fully nude, or not, but the face is to be the focus, not your genitals.
Getting up to get a coffee or a drink is not bootable. HOWEVER, if I check your cam and you have been in the same standing position for a time, you will be screenshoted, booted and if necessary reported to the admins.
The chat is for enjoyment the many, not the few that think it is their private cyber playground.
The boot time is now 3 days.
Behave as you would at a beach or resort and just have fun.
[/quote]I must say while those rules are wonderful and I abide by them. when I posed a music video from youtube that was relevant to the conversation at the moment I was auto booted. IF music videos are grounds for booting then please add that to the list. I was in no way being lewd, sexual or rude. Thank you for reading this
DaveReactReply - RErenebbareNov 24, 2013
I may be worn but as I understand, the ban is in the software from '123chat' and as to who banned you, well the mods appear at the top of the list of people in the room, they are in bold.
ReactReply - GRgriysletaNov 13, 2015[quote]HI I'm pretty new here, I was in the chatroom recently in a private  chat when an admin / moderator appeared on another private chat and said I had been accused of sexual chat.  I didnt think i had crossed any boundaires I didn't think i was anywhere near an explicit level in conversation.   I have been asked questions and chatted to by others in recent days with far more specfic sex talk/ questions which i was politely said no thanks and left that chat. If I knew how to block that user in the future from private messaging me            i would do that ! I dont have a cam so it couldnt have been any video issue.  So i expected a WARNING if that was indeed the case but instead I was and still am i banned by the admin/moderator from the main chat room  So please explain  what is the appeal process to being banned !  or how long is one banned for on a FIRST OFFENSE  I really like chat its the best part of the site and i miss it a lot !  [/quote]ReactReply
- GRgriysletaNov 13, 2015
i have not been able to get into the chat room, i have a small tablet is that the reason why
ReactReply - MEMemberNov 13, 2015[quote] So please explain  what is the appeal process to being banned !  or how long is one banned for on a FIRST OFFENSE [/quote][/quote]I'm not aware of any appeals process. You just sit out the ban for 3 days as I understand.ReactReply
- MEMemberNov 14, 2015[quote][quote] So please explain  what is the appeal process to being banned !  or how long is one banned for on a FIRST OFFENSE [/quote][/quote]I'm not aware of any appeals process. You just sit out the ban for 3 days as I understand.
[/quote]Actually, there is an appeals process.
There are two methods.
1.) Appeal to the sliver of decency that may still be a part of your being. Deep down---no---no---not your twinkie--deep down in your inner being. It isn't something that you can touch and play with. But it is something you can make grow with a little bit of effort. Ask it to come back out. Ask it to guide you when dealing with people. And, when it is in full ,,,ummm, shall we say prominence---then it REALLY IS something that's okay to show in public in all its upright glory!
2.) Appeal to the desires that got you booted. And the impatience that may very well be a part of it. And move on to the many places that will allow you to do your little happy fleshflop dance.ReactReply