We are all on here because we enjoy our bare time. Just curious what is the greatest hinderance that each of you face to enjoying your birthday suit to the max?
Some examples are: lack of privacy , time constraints due to job or other life demands, uncooperative SO, fear someone will find out?
children or others still at home or keep returning home?
I am blessed in I live alone and rural so no one to object in the house and no neighbors to bitch from their yards. I work part time which means I do have quite a bit of free time. I would say my biggest is that I am very social person and can only go so long without interaction with others.
Granted many of my friends are fine with my lack of clothes and strip down when here to soak. But often i meet others in places that my birthday suit would not be acceptable attire.
I am just curious what stops you all from enjoying bare time.
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- MEMemberSep 14, 2021[quote]Children at home who are not nudists and don't like us being nude around them.[/quote] I hear that! Nakedness was not permitted in my house by my ex and the boys did not cross her or there would be drama for all. Now that they are older and on there own she does not matter anymore it just became a no-go zone.ReactReply
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Tom DSep 14, 2021[quote]My wife's love of "brunching" with friends on week ends... I've had to watch a few sunny and warm week ends "pass me by"; because her "brunch plans" prevented us from making it to the resort. I respect her need for non-nudist socialization...but darn! The good news: I brought it to her attention recently and she agreed to compromise by freeing up her Sundays. So I guess I can't actually complain; since she is willing to split her time between socializing with her friends and nude recreation.[/quote] I reached a similar compromise with my wife about having her friends over for lunch. She can have them here as long as I can swim and sun in the back yard if I close the back curtains.ReactReply - MEMemberSep 15, 2021
Compromise is a good thing. To oft that isn't even a doable.
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nudonySep 15, 2021[quote]Compromise is a good thing. To oft that isn't even a doable.[/quote] Uncompromising wives, ex-wives (or husbands) are probably the biggest "killer" of nudism. Especially so when it's purely out of spite. I've been down that road and it sucks...ReactReply - NUnudonySep 19, 2021[quote]If there's not compromise on both parts, a relationship is doomed to fail or it will be a very unhappy relationship.[/quote] Today is a good example of compromising. I wanted to go spend the day naked at the resort. Liz had lunch plans with a friend. So she agreed to move her lunch plans to brunch from 10 to 12; at which point I will go pick her up and we're heading straight to the resort. Simple. Neither one of us gets "exactly" what we wanted, but we're still both getting a satisfactory outcome.ReactReply