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A lot of friend requests lately

Posted Jul 1, 2025

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shatterhand
shatterhandOriginal Poster
Jul 1, 2025

As the title says. Has anyone noticed a sudden uptick in friends request? Now what i find a little curious is that it's mostly women. I always check the profile and see if they have been on the site for at least 7 months and that they have some kind of pictures. But i am wondering what the deal is with this. Why suddenly so many females want to become friends and chat via messages?

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  • DA
    David
    David
    Jul 12, 2025

    Interesting. I have noticed when I get friend requests it's often shortly after signing on.

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  • RD
    rdrunning
    rdrunning
    Jul 12, 2025

    I've been getting requests from young women lately too. I usually ignore them, but a couple of times I've taken them up on their invitation to chat on other sites, such as skype. Eventually it comes out that they are after money, wanting me to send gift cards for some strange reasons. Then the chats end. I have no idea who they are, I don't think they are legitimate women though.

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  • NK
    nkhiker
    nkhiker
    Jul 13, 2025
    [quote]I don't think they are legitimate women though.[/quote] Most certainly not. The are some people here who have cleverly investigated these scammers. They are usually men, not women, and reside in west Africa. Recently, one was not even hiding that he was in Nigeria. It was like every beautiful white woman living in Nigeria decided to join True Nudist in a matter of a couple of weeks. A lot of these guys believe in quantity, not quality. The ones on the opposite end of the spectrum are more challenging, but they eventual slip up. I had one recently I thought was legit, but I eventually realized I was conversing with AI, so watch out for that. Another one was posing as a new employee of True Nudist looking root out spammers. The sad thing is that they must be having some success with their scams because the new fake/scam profiles far exceed legit ones. As a man, you really should not trust ANY friend request from a woman. Sad.
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  • ME
    Member
    Jul 31, 2025
    [quote]Just got a friend request from a woman who's been on exactly seven months. Wonder if that's some kind of filter cutoff? Obviously fake, because: Way younger than me; no meaningful communication, just a hello; model-gorgeous; and - somewhat paradaoxically - no nudes. Remember that one has to identify oneself to post nudes these days[/quote] I have had a few of those lately. Requests declined and blocked.
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  • NU
    NudeInKansas
    NudeInKansas
    Nov 26, 2025

    I don't accept ANY friend requests unless we've chatted. Yes, a lot of requests are from women but we know how many fake profiles there are on this site.

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    John
    John
    Nov 27, 2025
    [quote]I don't accept ANY friend requests unless we've chatted. Yes, a lot of requests are from women but we know how many fake profiles there are on this site.[/quote] I'm not quite that anal about them, but if they are not certified or have a significant (and positive) presence on the site, I ignore them. That's about 99.99% that get ignored. John aka cobeachbum
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    NudeInKansas
    NudeInKansas
    Dec 22, 2025

    I've also had a lot of friend requests lately. I will usually accept them if we have chatted and I don't find you creepy (there have been a few) but most have been from females (probably fake) with a private profile and probably not a female.

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