My Lovely wife allows me to be a nudist, I visit Blacks often, but how the people judge 'single' nude males! We are not all creepy and have sex on the mind, hard to find nude friends anyway, but when I read 'single men will be deleted' I cringe...
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- MEMemberSep 23, 2011
I'm not sure where I fall in all of this. My wife is fine being nude just about anywhere as long as it's JUST us, and no one else can see...She's gone on a 3 mile hike naked with me, and been in the back yard, mostly the hot tub, naked on many occasions. The problem is, she just doesn't really care for people in general, so to take the leap into social nudity would be HUGE for her. As for me, I used to have a friend that had a way of getting everyone that was hanging out at my apartment out of their clothes, but that was before I met my wife. Since then, I haven't been in any social nude situations, but I miss it. I would like to be able to enjoy the freedom I felt back then just hanging out with friends naked, but with the wife not being into it, I feel like I'd be seen as just another perv...it'd be great if the "mingle" thing caught on....
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PhilfreeeukSep 23, 2011Bump!
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ManOfWicklowSep 23, 2011ReactReply - FRfreedomnudeOriginal PosterSep 23, 2011
Ah well, at least my wife is cool with my lifestyle, but others are quick to judge...If you're in San Diego on a hot day see you at Blacks...
ReactReply - FRfreedomnudeOriginal PosterSep 23, 2011
People have issues with nudity, self confidence...ah well, we have to keep showing them its not about the sex, just freedom...
ReactReply - FRfreedomnudeOriginal PosterSep 23, 2011
Really, good idea about flagging judgmental types, get to know somebody first...
ReactReply - FRfreedomnudeOriginal PosterSep 23, 2011
like it! Should be a great group, and women who are in the same situation can join without fear...
ReactReply - FRfreedomnudeOriginal PosterSep 23, 2011
will keep trying, hang ups are hard to get rid of...
ReactReply - ALalonzoSep 23, 2011
I've never been to Blacks Beach, but I've been to several others, including Gunnison, and at every one I've been to, you see many couples where the man is nude but the woman is not, not even topless. And at a nude beach (unlike most nudist clubs), you are not expected to socialize with other people.
Why don't you persuade your wife into coming with you to Blacks, with the understanding she will have the privacy of a bathing suit at all times, while you are able to enjoy being nude? And it she comes with you, other people will treat you very differently than if you're there nude by yourself. That's been my experience, at least.ReactReply - ON
ontariomichaelSep 23, 2011Completely agree. I've been a nudist for thirty years, and a real nudist. I am now separated so am a single male for the first time in a long time and wow, how I am apparently viewed with suspicion.. terrible.
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