This free wheeling, wild child, wife, needs advice! — General Discussion on True Nudists

BornAgainOriginal Poster

May 1, 2013

I've been married almost 18 years to a very conservative Christian man who believes he is the only one that should be able to see me without clothing, with exception of my doctors. The last few years we have been separated for numerous reasons, one being that he doesn't enjoy or accept me fully. I love this man but He does not agree with the nudist lifestyle and I have done everything in my power to ease him of his fears including use scripture, openly discussing and letting him know I really would enjoy living this lifestyle together or at the very least just have him go with me to clothing optional places where he can leave his clothes on. He will not even contemplate the idea. I tried to play the good, submissive, wife for years but I NEED TO BE ME! Any encouraging input or advice is welcome.

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davedws
May 19, 2013
Hello, I can't help but wonder if this subject was discussed prior to marriage? Surely, you were aware of your desires long before you were married. No one likes to find out years later (coming out of the closet if you will) about the person they plan on spending the rest of their life with. Yes, I love to run around nude while my wife won't walk from the bathroom to the bedroom without at least a robe on. I frequent the local nudist camp but I go alone. Not as much fun but it satisfies my desire to be and be around nude people. I just go do my thing while my wife does what ever she planned for the day. There's no advice within this reply just some thoughts. Good Luck and I hope you continue to enjoy the freedom of being nude.
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BornAgainOriginal Poster
May 20, 2013
[quote]Hello, I can't help but wonder if this subject was discussed prior to marriage? Surely, you were aware of your desires long before you were married. No one likes to find out years later (coming out of the closet if you will) about the person they plan on spending the rest of their life with. Yes, I love to run around nude while my wife won't walk from the bathroom to the bedroom without at least a robe on. I frequent the local nudist camp but I go alone. Not as much fun but it satisfies my desire to be and be around nude people. I just go do my thing while my wife does what ever she planned for the day. There's no advice within this reply just some thoughts. Good Luck and I hope you continue to enjoy the freedom of being nude.[/quote]Hi,
I don't know you at all so I'd like to know, are you wondering because you desire to get to know me or because you want to jab at me?
Good for you. Thank you. I do as frequently as possible.
1LOVE
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sunnmaxx
May 20, 2013
You are obviously trying to make this work. Get him to a resort where he can talk to other men.
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BornAgainOriginal Poster
May 21, 2013
[quote]I'm glad you responded 1LOVE. I was going to but didn't want to hijack your thread with a banter between me and someone else. I've followed your posts and we've become friends and I know you can handle these types of posts better than most. ;-) Now ... with regards to the previous poster; The only way that two people can know EVERYTHING about one another is ... well, there is no knowing EVERYTHING about your lifelong partner. A marriage is about growing and learning to live and compromise with the other person daily. We all change our minds over time, things become more important and others do not. The fact remains that LOVE has stated that her husband knew and knows of her enjoyment of nudism, just like reading books or anything else that make up who 1LOVE is and "he" either accepts her for who she is or if he can't ... he'll have a difficult time finding that "perfect" person because they just don't exist.[/quote]Thank you my friends. I appreciate your respect and support. Well said. LOVE, LOVE, LOVE! <3
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Member
May 21, 2013
Really good site from a godly and wise man that might help in case you haven't read it:
The Biblical Naturist
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BornAgainOriginal Poster
May 22, 2013
[quote]Really good site from a godly and wise man that might help in case you haven't read it:
The Biblical Naturist[/quote]thank you!
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MicJones
May 24, 2013
You can still practice nustism and be together. Maybe take a few days of vacation from time to time and go to a nudist resort by yourself or take a nudist friend. I would suggest a fellow female as he would probably think it inappropriate to be nude with a guy. That way you can be nude and still be with him too. Just explain that you have to be nude. The few days at a resort will help satisfy your need to be nude. It may also fuel your desire to be nude more often. I don't know. Would he at least accept that?

He doesn't mind you being nude at home does he or is he completely against it regardless of where you are?

Hope it helps.
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ME
Member
May 24, 2013
Wow, Thanks for the link to the Biblical Naturist. I think this is what I have been searching for.
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BornAgainOriginal Poster
May 25, 2013
[quote]Wow, Thanks for the link to the Biblical Naturist. I think this is what I have been searching for.
[/quote]Right? Good stuff my new "friend"...
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