It seems the Certified room is turning into the rom for men to wtch each toher masturbate. At least that was true the last 3 times I have been there that others were there. This time there were 14 poeple in there, and when I said it was not apporpirate, none of them agreed with me, and several let me know I was ruining their good time. I would like to see this site enforce its rules on such behavior, but obvioulsy there are many that disagree. I am not sure that the certified room serves any purpose at the moment except to allow a place for this behavior to go on.
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PhilfreeeukMar 8, 2010Sorry to raise this thread again, but In case anyone is wondering, Torsten (quoted in post #48, and the troll quoted in post #95 have both been booted off the site. If and when they come back, try to resist their taunts, just flag and ignore is the way to go. Now back to the original subject. If you witness a cam exhibiting inappropriate behaviour, take a screen shot, and send it toabuse@truenudists.com, and now you can also post it to the"CHATROOM MORONS EXPOSED! (SCREENSHOTS)"thread. If they know that there is a very good chance, of their inappropriate drivel, being posted as a screen shot, right here in public, it might just make them think twice before they lowered their cam, or say something to upset the girls. Starved of their cheap thrills, they might even just go look for them elsewhere.
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gator1Mar 10, 2010[quote]I have been giving this some thought whilst at work today and i was wondering whether it would be worth having a chatroom just for this? I know it go's against the grain of why we are here but it would cut down on the risk of seeing something you dont want to? i am new here so everything is a new experience to me here but i have had several private chats in the chat room and most of them involved people touching themselves, not something i am into but not bothered about but if i can see them then everyone else can. Just a thought[/quote] I don't think it would work. I believe the idiots would just try to claim both places. That's the way they're wired. Plus, that's knuckling under to something that most of us don't believe belongs on a true nudist site. Gator1ReactReply - ZI
zinosaMar 11, 2010we abso;utely agree with you! You are making a lot of sense; we also think it has no purpose to continue the chat rooms!!! All fakes anyway!
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PhilfreeeukMar 11, 2010[quote]I have been giving this some thought whilst at work today and i was wondering whether it would be worth having a chatroom just for this? I know it go's against the grain of why we are here but it would cut down on the risk of seeing something you dont want to? i am new here so everything is a new experience to me here but i have had several private chats in the chat room and most of them involved people touching themselves, not something i am into but not bothered about but if i can see them then everyone else can. Just a thought[/quote] This was suggested on post #31.Click here to go back and read the responses.ReactReply - PH
PhilfreeeukMar 11, 2010Also Jens comment #21. is well worth a read. [quote] [quote] Am I the only person here that wonders why the cameras are necessary in chat? It seems that the playtime problem would be gone automatically if the cameras were gone. At the very least TT1 should make the chatrooms the feature that people have to pay to use.[/quote] [quote]No, Lin, you are not the only one who has wondered that. And every time it comes up I've responded with the following (sure wish I could find a thread so I could just copy and paste it): Having cams in chat allows one to see facial expressions when "chatting" which lends so much more to the conversation. There is nothing better than typing in something silly and actually seeing that the person you directed it to is genuinely smiling or laughing. A lot of times people will comment on how I'm always smiling in chat...that's because I am viewing the cam of someone else who is smiling and it becomes infectious. How many times has someone said something here on the forum that was misinterpreted because of the lack of voice inflection and facial expression. With the use of cams, you add back in the facial expressions. With the cams you get to actually see that you are really talking to the person you think you are, not some person who is hiding behind a picture that may not be them. From my past experiences in textile chat rooms, before the advent of cams, I can tell you that the "perv" situation exists irregardless of whether you are on cam or not. Getting rid of the cams won't get rid of the "pervs"...the cams are not the problem, the "pervs" are the problem. There are six simple rules that one agrees to before entering the chat area. Rule number 5 is to flag or report any one breaking rules 1-4. It's that simple. Flag them. Hit the report abuse button and send a video clip. Don't want some "perv" watching your cam? Then use the block feature. Having been on this site for over a year and regularly using the chat room for a little less than a year I am happy to say that we've outlasted most of the "pervs". As far as charging for the chat room...there are more people on this site who regularly use the chat room than there are who post on the forum. Would it be fair of them to say every time someone spams the forum or posts inappropriate threads that one should be charged to use the forum? On a side note, was in chat for about an hour again last night. Had a wonderful time. Chatted to some really nice people. Thomas, it was great seeing you again! You always make me smile. Really miss seeing you more regularly in chat. Rabbit, really missed seeing you at all. Syner, it's been great meeting you. And thank you for making me feel younger by naming bands that I've actually heard of instead of all those new fangled ones, LOL! Jen[/quote][/quote]ReactReply - MEMemberSep 29, 2010
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gator1Sep 29, 2010[quote]Hello This is my opinion and im welcome to it I think its like the TV you dont want to watch why are you looking turn it off or in this case stay out no one is forcing you into the room right!! everyone here is an adult there are some people that like to masturbate in fron of others and not perverts and again here we go with lables again everyone has to lable someone else right whats your lable?? [/quote] Nope...masturbate in front of others on a site that expressly is not for that purpose...pervert. There are plenty of free sites for that. Go find one, Don.ReactReply - ER
EricSep 29, 2010[quote]Hello This is my opinion and im welcome to it I think its like the TV you dont want to watch why are you looking turn it off or in this case stay out no one is forcing you into the room right!! everyone here is an adult there are some people that like to masturbate in fron of others and not perverts and again here we go with lables again everyone has to lable someone else right whats your lable?? you can have a healthy sex life watching others no one is geting hurt damaged if its good clean fun and it is in my opinion and have never attacked anyone lol and i just think this is a big wasted of my time and yours if i dont want to look i just stay out i dont watch tv for that same reason i do however find some programing on the History chanel that ill look at Remember you have eyes there is nothing wrong with looking we look every day Don[/quote] If this were a SEX site, then you would be right; if I didn't like what I saw then I could just turn it off. However, this is a NUDIST site. I, along with others, come here instead of a sex site because I enjoy nudism and not to watch a bunch of people jerking off. The whole "just don't go in that room" isn't really much of an argument. If that was the case, why not just go jerk off in the grocery store? If people didn't want to see it, they just wouldn''t have to come in....right? No, of course not. You don't jerk off in the grocery store because it's inappropriate....the same as it is here.ReactReply - GE
Gerry-4Sep 29, 2010I'm tempted to yell. "NO MORE CAM!"
But I'm sure those who use it regularly and ACCORDING TO THE RULES will probably disagree with me.ReactReply - JA
JackNeilsonSep 29, 2010I always enjoy reading your posts NIM. When they are intended to refute vacuous statements I get a chuckle out of them. Common sense always shines through and I enjoy the way you dissect a post into segments and reply with specific points. Keep up the good work.
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Gerry-4Sep 29, 2010[quote]I always enjoy reading your posts NIM. When they are intended to refute vacuous statements I get a chuckle out of them. Common sense always shines through and I enjoy the way you dissect a post into segments and reply with specific points. Keep up the good work.[/quote] What's unfortunate is that NIM'S comments are needed at all. If respect and common sense were something ingrained in us, we wouldn't need rules. But the truth is we do have rules, and they are clearly spelled out and easy to find. So easy that it's hard to not be extremely disappointed when yet another poster shows a definite lack of it. NIM's ascerbic wit can sometimes be a little over the top, but it's rarely misplaced.ReactReply - GA
gator1Sep 29, 2010[quote][quote]I always enjoy reading your posts NIM. When they are intended to refute vacuous statements I get a chuckle out of them. Common sense always shines through and I enjoy the way you dissect a post into segments and reply with specific points. Keep up the good work.[/quote] What's unfortunate is that NIM'S comments are needed at all. If respect and common sense were something ingrained in us, we wouldn't need rules. But the truth is we do have rules, and they are clearly spelled out and easy to find. So easy that it's hard to not be extremely disappointed when yet another poster shows a definite lack of it. NIM's ascerbic wit can sometimes be a little over the top, but it's rarely misplaced.[/quote] These are soooo on the mark! Thanks, guys! Gator1
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NIM,
You rock. Thanks for investing the time to punch out, one key at a time, a comprehensive response that is spot on. What more can I say.ReactReply - PH
PhilfreeeukSep 29, 2010Bumpt re spam on the home page :)
and anyway, I missed this earlier,
so here's a bump in case anyone else did! :)ReactReply - ER
EricSep 30, 2010[quote]There is nothing so taxing as attempting to read the spewings of an uneducated twit whose spelling and grammatical skills are non-existent. [quote][/quote] In the future, please take a few minutes to proofread your posts, and at the very least, use punctuation. We are not obligated to read crap that was scribbled in crayon on a grocery bag,[/quote] So I'm sitting in a Mexican restaurant yesterday and IactuallyLOL'd while I was reading the forums on my iPad. Bravo sir!
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renebbareSep 30, 2010Clearly I am off cam, but i can't stop smiling. NIM = the best.
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ChronomistNov 27, 2010New guy here, checked into certified chat for the first time and the first cam I looked was a guy wacken!
Missed his screen name.ReactReply - TH
ThomasNov 27, 2010[quote]New guy here, checked into certified chat for the first time and the first cam I looked was a guy wacken! Missed his screen name.[/quote] If you see a mod in either room when you see something like that, whisper to them or send a private message that it is occuring and we will take care of it. The moderators are the ones with bold names at top of room list.ReactReply - NU
nubienude7985Nov 27, 2010I've never been to the chat room mainly because I type slow,but I also didn't know you could see the people you are talking to,if I do go and see something like that I would report it,I joined this site so I could meet true nudists,if I wanted to see someone wacking off I'd get a porno or go to a site where that goes on.I would just like to meet new people and go to places like Avalon and enjoy what little life I have left.
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