FORUM RULES - PLEASE READ BEFORE POSTING.

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• MA

  

  ManOfWicklow

  Jun 2, 2017

  [quote]Yeah, years ago, I was cam and I'd bent over and didn't realized I'd bumped my camera. I didn't look a my cam for a couple minutes. When I'd looked, I was banned from cam. [/quote] "Please don't give me a ticket officer, just because I couldn't be bothered to check my speed"

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• TN

  tnmantnman

  Jun 4, 2017

  Yes I to was on cam this morning chatting with someone, 2nd day here and someone kept breaking in to our conversation asking me to show my face, over and over again then demanding that I show it, Of course they never identified themselves as a mod or such, and as I was showing my nose to the bottom of my chest, they banned me, whats up with that?

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• T=

  

  Tom === Thomas S. Tierney

  Jun 4, 2017

  I just tested the Chat function. Three times I signed in. Not one time did I see any rules posted. I went from a black screen right into the chat room.

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• FL

  

  Flokie

  Jun 4, 2017

  [quote]I just tested the Chat function. Three times I signed in. Not one time did I see any rules posted. I went from a black screen right into the chat room.[/quote] For a site that has been around as long as this one has, I cannot understand why there isn't an FAQ you can go straight to that will list all of the dos and don'ts and good-to-knows. It should be located in the bottom right hand corner of the screen along with the other site information such as "about us" and "contact us". Yes, I realize there is a forum group for questions but it is mostly site members offering their understanding and interpretation of what the rules are. There should be a definitive set of rules that are easy to refer to without wading through pages of discussion.

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  Tom === Thomas S. Tierney

  Jun 5, 2017

  I entered the chat room again - still no rules or link to the rules. I asked where are the rules. I was told a button in the upper right hand corner. I answered I do not see it. A couple of others also said they do not see the button. Some said they did see it. How are we to know the rules if they are not posted. STOP - Do not post the damned rules here. They need to be posted in the chat room.

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• HA

  

  Half

  Jun 5, 2017

  [quote]The site might be owned but only exists by it's dedicated members. If ownership chases members away by stringent unexplained rules then the site will eventually fold. I don't think that is the intention here but from I've read of late ...ownership needs to listen to the members qualms and respond respectively.[/quote] I don't wanna be Debbie Downer here, but .... Its 2017, ownership is everything. Dedicated members mean nothing.

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• MA

  

  ManOfWicklow

  Jun 15, 2017

  [quote]Nowhere in these rules does it say "No Profanity."[/quote]YES IT DOES. ( Be nice, no rudity harrassing or trolling)

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  Tom === Thomas S. Tierney

  Jun 16, 2017

  [quote]The day I stop using profanity is the day the apocalypse comes to the Earth. Until then, I shall express my vocabulary however the fuck I see fit, ok?[/quote]FLAGGED

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  Tom === Thomas S. Tierney

  Jun 16, 2017

  [quote]Wow...one little curse word and people lose their minds. I never knew how sensitive some of you can be. Like you don't curse either. Just as it is your prerogative to shed your clothing, it is mine to express my vocabulary how I wish, profanity or not. And who is being hostile? This is merely my opinion of what I believe to be unjust. Being banned for cursing is ridiculous. I will not adjust my vocabulary just because someone is not thick-skinned enough to handle profanity. And that's that.[/quote]FLAGGED AGAIN

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• JU

  Justnudenothingmore

  Jun 26, 2017

  Yawn........

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• TO

  Tony

  Jul 30, 2017

  Hello,

  I just created my account but when I went to my newly created account and attempted to fill in the location portion of my profile and selected the United States as my country, I received a message reading "select a valid country".
  Is this website only for people in England or Europe? Or have a missed a step in the process?
  Thank you for any help or information you can provide.
  Thank you

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• MB

  

  mr. bill

  Jul 30, 2017

  Chatter spew garbage for no fear of someone finding them to kick their arse, just sayin'

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• JO

  

  John

  Jul 30, 2017

  [quote]Hello, I just created my account but when I went to my newly created account and attempted to fill in the location portion of my profile and selected the United States as my country, I received a message reading "select a valid country". Is this website only for people in England or Europe? Or have a missed a step in the process? Thank you for any help or information you can provide. Thank you[/quote] This happened with the last "upgrade". One thing gets fixed, three get broken. John aka cobeachbum

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• BR

  

  bryan

  Oct 16, 2017

  Tony why did you kick me out?

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• TJ

  

  TJ

  Jan 24, 2018

  Read and accepted 100%

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• DO

  

  Don

  Jan 30, 2018

  Sounds like a really good set of regs, do hope they stick and are enforced.

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• PA

  

  Paul

  Apr 17, 2018

  [quote]There should be a way of flagging comments on pictures as well as pictures themselves... This is one of my biggest pet peeves here. It's no wonder women have their guards up here. So many sexual comments.[/quote] Remember they have to be your friend to be able to post comments about your photos and some people are interested in collecting friends with one case over 11,000 friends and others with 5,000+ friends.

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• ME

  Member

  Jul 16, 2018

  Great topic, we are a very respectful and inclusive couple. I am a 24 year retired Veteran my wife is a Doctor. But for the past two days we have been removed from chat rooms with no explanation. We have ask why with no response and questions to the matter on the forum have simply been deleted with no consideration of a reply. Polite emails to the admin who removed us received no response.

  This is hurtful and unwelcoming particularly in a meeting place such as this where respect for orientation and inclusivity is so important.

  We were excited to find this site but that excitement has been tarnished. Hoping to see that turned around and be shown some respect and consideration through positive leadership from site administrators.

  Please feel free to reach out us, if we did something inappropriate we are unaware.

  Respectfully,
  BareBunz

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• PA

  

  Paul

  Jul 16, 2018

  [quote]Great topic, we are a very respectful and inclusive couple. I am a 24 year retired Veteran my wife is a Doctor. But for the past two days we have been removed from chat rooms with no explanation. We have ask why with no response and questions to the matter on the forum have simply been deleted with no consideration of a reply. Polite emails to the admin who removed us received no response. This is hurtful and unwelcoming particularly in a meeting place such as this where respect for orientation and inclusivity is so important. We were excited to find this site but that excitement has been tarnished. Hoping to see that turned around and be shown some respect and consideration through positive leadership from site administrators. Please feel free to reach out us, if we did something inappropriate we are unaware. Respectfully, BareBunz[/quote] Well looking at your profile you should be on True Swingers and not True Nudist as people who want to have sex on nudist beaches, are the ones who give ammunition to the people who want the nudist/CO beaches shut.

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• ME

  Member

  Jul 16, 2018

  Thanks for the input on the Nudist page, that was referring to us exclusively on private beaches or locations never a consideration at a public nude beach. We removed that like to avoid any confusion and our profile has been updated.
  
  But that does not explain why we were removed from chat rooms on both sites?

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• ME

  Member

  Aug 2, 2018

  I really think admin should modify the "chat rules". Some people get banned for posting pics that don't show their entire face. Some are not and the mods have different views on the "rules". At least let EVERYONE know the rules and not just let the mods make up their own version of the rules. Thanks

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• MA

  

  ManOfWicklow

  Aug 2, 2018

  [quote]I really think admin should modify the "chat rules". Some people get banned for posting pics that don't show their entire face. Some are not and the mods have different views on the "rules". At least let EVERYONE know the rules and not just let the mods make up their own version of the rules. Thanks[/quote]Says Henryb, with a load of nothing but ass shots on his profile,,,Huh!!

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• ME

  Member

  Aug 2, 2018

  lol

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• TI

  

  Tim

  Oct 5, 2018

  [quote]How about a list of the moderators or a special icon that identifies them. That way you know if the person truly is a moderator and not someone claiming to be. That's just a suggestion because there's a lot of fakes and if you have some claiming to be one that's not then how are we to report them without being in fear of retaliation. One because I was asking for clarifications and was told I was bad mouthing the moderator because that moderator logged out. I still wonder if they were really a moderator because there's no way of identifying who's a moderator. I'm just looking for answers not an argument or being rude or disrespectful. Thank you Funf210[/quote] they show as a different color in the list of people who are in the chat. Blue for moderators, Red for Administrators, and Black for everyone else!

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