FORUM RULES - PLEASE READ BEFORE POSTING.

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• JA

  janzen13

  Jan 20, 2019

  does anyone have a wife that wears see thru tops out in public my wife does and gets all sorts of stares

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• ME

  Member

  Feb 8, 2019

  This might not be the place, but can you clarify the rules for mentioning one's sexual identity in the chat room? I've seen several mods challenge people for identifying themselves as gay or bi and saying they want to meet others like them. These mods say that info from one's profile about orientation can't be discussed in the chatroom, and I've seen several mods ban people for doing so, even though that rule doesn't appear to be posted anywhere. I'm asking specifically about people who merely indicate that they're bi or gay, not in a sexual context, but the same way someone mentions that they're married or older.

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• NO

  

  no_pants_bloke

  Jun 27, 2019

  So I say to tony53 that nattbratt was right and he bans me. Touched a nerve and throws his weight around.

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• ME

  MemberOriginal Poster

  Jul 16, 2019

  Is the way you discuss sexual issues with your doctor in their office the same way you speak to your partner in bed? Hopefully not for your doctor and your partners sake. It's not that complicated... Also, be nicer or I'll ban you. Thanks!

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• RO

  

  Rob

  Jul 16, 2019

  I wish the moderators would curtail some of the more virulent political views by members. Moderators should be more "agnostic" when it comes to politics, unfortunately we see certain moderators weigh in support of a given political viewpoint.

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• PA

  

  Paul

  Jul 17, 2019

  [quote]I wish the moderators would curtail some of the more virulent political views by members. Moderators should be more "agnostic" when it comes to politics, unfortunately we see certain moderators weigh in support of a given political viewpoint.[/quote] Yes, and by fellow members of this site. As a member of the political right, I am constantly berated and attacked by those on the left in real life, and on this site.

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• PA

  

  Paul

  Jul 22, 2019

  One site I am on (nothing to do with nudity) banns all things about politics to stop this happening. So it might be a good thing for this site including on chat.

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• MG

  Martin Gelling

  Jul 26, 2019

  I have driven nude on many occasions from North Oxfordshire (southern Midlands of England ) to Cardiff in South Wales both during the day and at night and never been stopped. It was always very exhilerating !!!!!

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• MG

  Martin Gelling

  Jul 26, 2019

  I have driven nude on many occasions from North Oxfordshire (southern Midlands of England ) to Cardiff in South Wales both during the day and at night and never been stopped. It was always very exhilerating !!!!!

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• KE

  

  Kevin

  Nov 20, 2019

  Thanks for posting rules about civility and appropriate actions in the forums, as it's always good to have a refresher about correct behavior when topics can sometimes elicit emotional responses.

  In response to post #145 regarding a ban on political speech, I personally think that is too broad a policy to entertain, since advancing the acceptability of nudism and gaining any additional rights for nudism is in my eyes a political discussion...

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• T=

  

  Tom === Thomas S. Tierney

  Nov 23, 2019

  At the bottom of this page

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• CL

  

  cloudy

  Feb 4, 2020

  I was chatting to a gentleman and mentioned that there are too many guys that all they wanna do is "fuck my wife". I was banned. Seems it is automatic and comments can be taken out of context. Being banned doesn't hurt my feelings, it's just read the previous comment to see if my comment was appropriate . ( happened about 6 PM ( EST ) on Feb 3 )

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• ST

  

  Steve

  Feb 4, 2020

  "Sexually interested" in your wife, maybe... but even that amounts to an accusation that sorta violates chat's "be nice" rule, although if nicely phrased, the comment might pass. The F-word, well that pretty much nails it.

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• MA

  

  MarkRunNJ

  Feb 13, 2020

  I did follow the rules and got banned! I literally got banned for NO reason. I never even typed anything. I was reading everyone else in the room. WTH?

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• RR

  

  RRandy

  Apr 9, 2020

  I was banned. I would like to know why.

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• JO

  

  John

  Apr 10, 2020

  If you have a cam on, it needs to be on you. If you don't want to be on cam, turn it off.

  From the rules:
  No Crotch Shots. Faces on cam please.
  If you do not want to be seen on your cam. Do not use it.

  John aka cobeachbum

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• ME

  Member

  May 6, 2020

  saw your post. I was banned yesterday and did not wrong. it's the second time in less than 3 days

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• RR

  

  RRandy

  May 7, 2020

  So frustrating. I have been banned twice without giving a reason. I appreciate being a mod is not an easy job, but banning seems to be arbitrary.

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• BR

  

  Bruce

  Jun 22, 2020

  Same here I just got banned for showing my bare chest. I wonder how you put a grievance against a mod.

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• CA

  

  Carl

  Aug 22, 2020

  [quote]Same here I just got banned for showing my bare chest. I wonder how you put a grievance against a mod. It was already said: if you are using your cam its for your face, otherwise dont use it.[/quote] As far as I can see, the rules say that your face has to be on cam, not that ONLY your face may be on cam - I took that to mean that, quite reasonably, it's not a place for crotch-only shots of people masturbating etc, (which is what I'd expect, it's not what nudism/naturism is about and there are plenty of sex-cam sites for that.) But interpreting "face on cam" as "ONLY face on cam"? On a nudist site? Perhaps it should just say that clothing is mandatory in chat? I mean, I don't use the chat, and I fully appreciate that many who've been bannedwereprobably in fact being obnoxious in some way, and that some might not even have realised it, and that modding is always a thankless task, but I find it hard to believe that ALL of the people talking about being banned for having their shoulders on show or something were up to no good - I mean y'wouldn't whine about it in public if you were flouting the rules, would you? Or mebbe you would, I dunno. I reckon I'll just avoid the chat altogether. Either everyone on it is an over-entitled, self-regarding perv constantly pushing their luck, or it's basically nudist-unfriendly. Either way , it seems like a potential source of stress I can do without. If I wanna chat nude on cam with nudists, I guess I'll do it somewhere off the nudists site, I've always enjoyed irony. Most of the folk I've met on here so far don't use the chat, either, so I suppose it doesn't especially affect my decision to become a paying member or not - to be honest, the limited payment options are far more significant, for me - I'd have paid up already if PayPal was an option. (And yeah, I know they take a cut and they're not the world's loveliest people, but payment processors I've never used before are a big barrier for me, I'm guessing I'm possibly not alone in that, dunno.)

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• JO

  

  John

  Oct 10, 2020

  [quote]Pardon the newbie question - but are the four rules in this thread the only rules? I was looking for rules on media posting, webcam usage in the chat, and so on the other night and I didn't find anything. Maybe the post got buried somewhere and I just missed it? But if someone could point me in the right direction (assuming there is one), I'd appreciate it.[/quote] Chatroom Rules No Sexual Discussion, or Sexual Activities in EITHER ROOM No Crotch Shots. Faces on cam please. If you do not want to be seen on your cam. Do not use it. Be nice, no rudity harrassing or trolling. Flag users who do not follow the rules. Have Fun! Failure to follow these rules can lead to a permanent chat room ban or account removal and add the unofficial rule "Anything the current moderator(s) deem to be a rule even though no such rule actually exists" As for the main forums/groups/gallery you can add: No boner/crotch shots No advertising competing naturist websites Keep your bitching about this buggy website to a minimum Group moderators can add additional rules to their groups John aka cobeachbum

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• CN

  

  Ceilidh Naarasusi Gambill

  Oct 25, 2020

  Pretty straight forward and simple. No misunderstanding them.

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• DA

  

  Dave

  Feb 12, 2021

  As far as being right or left (wrong), lol, I am always bouncing across the floor to either side depending on what I like about right or wrong. So, for all I suggest that seeing some like being right, and some like being wrong, somewhere in the middle is correct!

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• ST

  

  StevieLorna

  Apr 21, 2021

  Teamtrue, there are multiple users with the same IP address posting on the forums. Is this allowed?

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