Does it make me a perv? — Sex and Sexuality on True Nudists

imnekedOriginal Poster

May 11, 2012

I found that I enjoy to be nude outside and with others. I find this to be a sense of freedom and it is relaxing. Now for the questioning part, I find that secretly I am hoping that others are admiring my body and peeking. I don't go to nudists areas with the intent of anything sexual, just to sun with my wife, but the thoughts I get. I can't help it.

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Steve
May 11, 2012
If you were wearing your favorite outfit on the street, would you be pleased when people noticed it? Would you look back at them and smile when they looked at you? If what you feel when you are outfitted in your own skin is like that, then no, you're not a perv.

If you were wearing your favorite outfit on the street, would you be pleased if someone parted their curtains just a bit to take a peek at it? That's gettin' there. Would you prefer it? You're there.

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Cheri Donna Dawson
May 11, 2012
[quote]I found that I enjoy to be nude outside and with others. I find this to be a sense of freedom and it is relaxing. Now for the questioning part, I find that secretly I am hoping that others are admiring my body and peeking. I don't go to nudists areas with the intent of anything sexual, just to sun with my wife, but the thoughts I get. I can't help it.
[/quote]Nudism isn't about seeing or being seen. However, glancing at new arrivals no matter what they are wearing or not is human nature.
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NakedDevil
May 11, 2012
Cherri always hits it on the head.

My perspective is, are you doing anything different than if you were clothed? Do you like to people watch if you're clothed? Then, it's kind of the same naked.
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intune
May 24, 2012
cherri is right its human nature
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Soupie
May 24, 2012
Probably not. But you will have to wait for the final word from NiMa and Bruce. They are the perv authority on this forum.
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Member
May 24, 2012
Soupie, good one :-)
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Grant
May 25, 2012
#8 and #9 This was totally unasked for. You've really done it again.
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renebbare
May 27, 2012
[quote]#8 and #9 This was totally unasked for. You've really done it again.
[/quote]When you read the OP and his last two sentences, why not bring some levity into the thread?
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ManOfWicklow
May 28, 2012
[quote]Open your mind Soupie, my friend. Let go of the hatred. You can do it if you try.[/quote]Yes Soupie, go on I dare you. Although it would be very difficult, I know you could show people that there is still just a tiny bit of humanity left somewhere inside you. Give it a try, or are you really so afraid of entering into the world of normality.
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Soupie
May 28, 2012
Pot, kettle, black. I know that you would hate to be called black or gay, but not everyone is going to agree with you. I've accepted that, and your attitude is much more about putting on your white hood to impress the other fellas.
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ravensflyinnow
May 30, 2012
[quote] One sourceHERE[/quote]Source.....ANN COULTER.....HA HA HA HA HA!!!!!!!

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Soupie
May 30, 2012
It's ironic how someone like Bruce worships a professional hate monger like Coulter. Wait, no it isn't. It makes perfect sense.
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Soupie
May 30, 2012
Is it a fact that as Coulter has said that 9/11 widows are "harpies of death", or that John Edwards was a "faggot"? How about when she told a CBC reporter that Canada fought in Vietnam and promised to prove it, but didn't. I can see why you would admire her so.
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Soupie
May 30, 2012
Of course you do. You admire her opinions. Which you can use as "facts". I'm totally interested in the John Edwards is a "faggot" opinion. Can you give us the context and factual basis for that? And can you explain why she walks out of so many interviews?
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Soupie
May 30, 2012
"Could it be that liberals try to trap her?". No, a journalist who asks for facts to back up an opinion are not trapping anyone.
The reporter from the CBC, Bob MacDonald, asked her to prove that the Canadian government had ever committed troops to Vietnam, and her reply was "you are wrong and I will get back to you." Needless to say, she never did.
As for the walk outs, you can view a montage of them on you tube. But it's easier for you to believe the whole left wing media conspiracy theory.
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EvansBetterHalf
May 30, 2012
Must you two chase each other around and highjack numerous threads? It is getting pretty old......

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Soupie
May 30, 2012
oh ditto!
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EvansBetterHalf
May 31, 2012
[quote][quote]Must you two chase each other around and highjack numerous threads? It is getting pretty old......[/quote]
Be so kind as to check post #8.

[/quote]NinMA, while we agree on a few things and disagree on others, this has gone on long enough over numerous threads.....You two will never agree to anything....ever.

â€œThe definition of stupidity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.â€ â€” Albert Einstein

or in the case of you two is it?

â€œIf at first you donâ€™t succeed, try, try againâ€

or:

â€œPractice makes perfectâ€?In any event it is getting wearisome.....Oh and Soupie.....this "shut the hell up" applies to you too.....
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DesertRat
May 31, 2012
[quote]

Must you two chase each other around and highjack numerous threads? It is getting pretty old......

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I was thinking the exact same thing when I saw this post. Thank you EBH.

To get back to the original thread. When I'm in a social nudist situation, I feel very comfortable because I doubt that anyone is checking out my body parts to compare them with someone else. Even if they were, I feel that it would be their problem and not mine. A wise person once said "It's hard to put on airs when you're naked." That is one of the things that I love about social nudism, it's really hard to be phony when you're naked. Actually maybe we shouldn't call this site "True Nudists" but Real People" instead.
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Soupie
Jun 4, 2012
How does one argue an opinion that isn't supported by facts? She just pisses against the wind and loves the spray that covers her.
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ManOfWicklow
Jun 7, 2012
[quote]Maybe there's a thin line and we are having trouble really defining it. Nudism is and can be "sensual," but isn't primarily "sexual." There are those that are not into swinging but use nudism and visits to nudist venues to "enhance" their sexual drive or to stimulate their relationships. Watching other naked people can have this effect on some couples and if it "helps" their personal relationship ... then I don't think it's a bad thing, as long as they are private about it. The sensual feeling most get with nudism is pretty tame and G rated. For example; when my wife and I visit our favorite resort, we get massages from our friend, the resort masseuse. The massages are done in the nude, outside and it is "sensual" in that we become completely relaxed, we are uncovered and the sun and breeze feels so good against the naked skin. The smell of the oil used also can be sensual and calming. WE are so relaxed that our friend usually has to awaken us to turn over or to tell us the session is over. My wife and I reconnect at nudist resorts and clubs. Our everyday lives are put on hold and we are there without cover, opening up completely to one another, discussing our lives, discussing our dreams and planning our stress free futures. It can be a very sensual experience and most times it is for us, but it's never really been a sexual experience nor do we think if you think it's "sexual" ... it automatically makes you a pervert, just new or a little misinformed. :)[/quote] [img src="http://bennettsblog.files.wordpress.com/2012/03/facebook-like.jpg?w=584">
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Good77
Jun 12, 2015
[quote][quote]I found that I enjoy to be nude outside and with others. I find this to be a sense of freedom and it is relaxing. Now for the questioning part, I find that secretly I am hoping that others are admiring my body and peeking. I don't go to nudists areas with the intent of anything sexual, just to sun with my wife, but the thoughts I get. I can't help it.
[/quote]Nudism isn't about seeing or being seen. However, glancing at new arrivals no matter what they are wearing or not is human nature.
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I totally agree with CherBear
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paul
Jun 15, 2015
[quote]I found that I enjoy to be nude outside and with others. I find this to be a sense of freedom and it is relaxing. Now for the questioning part, I find that secretly I am hoping that others are admiring my body and peeking. I don't go to nudists areas with the intent of anything sexual, just to sun with my wife, but the thoughts I get. I can't help it.
[/quote]There's nothing wrong with having a bit of pride in your body and it's certainly healthier than worrying if others think you have a bad body
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J
Oct 21, 2017
Doesn't in my mind! Nice to be looked at.
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