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Does size matter?

Posted Mar 17, 2012

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ME
MemberOriginal Poster
Mar 17, 2012

Is bigger better? Or is how you use it that matters? This is one for all you size queens out there lol ;) xxx

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    Tom === Thomas S. Tierney
    Tom === Thomas S. Tierney
    Feb 4, 2019

    If size did not matter no one would be asking the question.
    Does anyone ever ask if the size of someone's nose or ears matter?

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  • FR
    Freeinthebuff
    Freeinthebuff
    Feb 4, 2019

    What I lack in my pants I make up with my tongue

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  • TH
    Thomas
    Thomas
    Feb 9, 2019

    Hey , y'all braggin'!? This machines got 103 inches!

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  • AN
    Anthony
    Anthony
    May 10, 2020
    [quote]welcome to the rabbit hole, where men confuse nudity with sex. Sad indictment of societal conditioning .[/quote] Thank you!!!
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    Michael E. Operhall
    Michael E. Operhall
    May 11, 2020

    I believe that size is more of a mental obstacle for men than a physical one. Bigger is always perceived as better but the main issue here is whether or not a man can reach the G-spot with his erect penis. The G-spot is just inside the upper vagina opening and is packed with jillions of nerves empowered to drive a woman insane. So if your penis is at least 3-4 inches when erect you are able to reach this magical place. Since 75% of women reach orgasms not by vaginal intercourse but clitoral /G-Spot stimulation, we men shouldn't be all that worried about its length. The bad news is that we are because it is perceived that bigger is better.

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  • ME
    Member
    Sep 18, 2020

    In nudism (an outlook, attitude, state of being), nothing matters. All acceptance. Kumbaya. In nudity (a conscious sexual dynamic), physical attributes and preferences (and more) matter. The problem is that, in social settings, the two sometimes become intertwined (often on nude beaches). A couple of years ago I was hanging out with a girl and we got along very well. I asked her on a date to a local nude beach. We had a great time. Of course the topic of body acceptance (yes, including penis size) came up, as it was her first time at a nude beach. She stated matter-of-factly that I have a small penis and asked me whether I was embarrassed to be seen among the many other guys with larger penises. I said not at all and that such things are of no concern to a nudist. In any event, I said I would like to take her out again and, the following week, I called her a couple of times. She didnt answer. I never heard from her again. On the one hand, one could argue that she was seeing nakedness, not nudism (nothing wrong with that). On the other hand, it was a date and she had every right to consider her own preferences. And so this is my example of how, while nothing matters in nudism, at the same time, in practice, things can be a little more complicated. But even with nudity, apart from a nudist philosophy, its actually quite simple: everyone is still entitled to their own preferences!

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    John
    John
    Sep 21, 2020

    In my opinion the only nudist activity where size matters is hanging wallpaper on freshly plastered walls.

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    roffdusen
    roffdusen
    May 15, 2021

    Since this is a sex and sexuality page, I'll respond here. Two female podcasters said they knew of women who had dumped a guy because he was too big, but never heard of a woman dumping a guy because he was too small. That made a lot of sense to me. How say u?

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    Steve
    Steve
    May 25, 2021

    I'd go with the traditional Rolls-Royce specification:

    Size: adequate.

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  • MA
    ManOfWicklow
    ManOfWicklow
    Oct 18, 2021

    Yes it matters. Women prefer men with big fat wallets.

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  • ME
    Member
    Jul 31, 2022

    The range of responses here has been all over the place; Im not quite sure what to make of it all as its really quite personal. As someone that is probably technically categorized as just below average, Im happy to report my sweetie is quite happy and we have a fantastic marriage. My package size has just about *zero* to do with our relationship, 40+ years and counting. Go back and work on the things that make a union work and STFU about this subject. Is this straightforward enough for you?

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    nudeyooper
    Jul 31, 2022

    Like any job done well, the preparation is key. It is not what is between the legs that matters as much as what is between the ears. The penis is not the be all and end all in the satisfaction. she gets.

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    ManOfWicklow
    ManOfWicklow
    Jul 31, 2022

    Yes it is very important when wallpapering.

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    EarlD
    EarlD
    Jul 31, 2022

    As I naturist I have no inclination to focus on a person's physical size or the size of their body parts. The only size I care about is a person's personality. Those who insist on injecting these objectifying topics into the forum are simply pursuing an ulterior motive

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    Louie
    Louie
    Sep 30, 2023

    Well for me size matters, Im small and prefer average to small, but you still need to know how to use it..

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    Louie
    Louie
    Oct 11, 2023

    I prefer average to small

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  • SA
    Stone Andy
    Stone Andy
    Oct 14, 2023
    [quote]Five boys and two dads crying laughing on a beach is the best response to this post I can think of.[/quote] Your story reminds me of when my boys were in grade school and were talking and laughing about weenises. I was confused about the context and then they pointed to their elbows and told me that was their weenis. So I looked online and sure enough found found the definition: a slang word for the excess or loose skin at the joint of one's elbow, which is technically referred to as olecranal skin. So we all need to look at the circumference of our olecranal skin, take a deep breath, and remember how weenis size matters!
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    Bob
    Bob
    Oct 21, 2023

    I am 6 ft 9 and bang my head often on door jams so yes, size does matter.

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  • YS
    You should really ask!
    You should really ask!
    Oct 25, 2023

    Size matters somewhat, but not to the extent most males believe. Think about it: if you've got 10 inches (a rarity, btw...) and I can only accomodate 7 inches, then what difference does it make that you have that extra 3 inches? If anything, it keeps your balls from slappin' on me... and I LIKE balls slappin' on me! (wicked grin) I much prefer thickness to length. I'll take 4 inches and thick over 10 inches and skinny any day. Just my two cents... xoxo, amy

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    Steve
    Steve
    Mar 20, 2024

    Im small but I actually enjoy being small and being around others at parks and camps that having bigger dicks than me lol

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    ShavedNudist27
    ShavedNudist27
    Mar 20, 2024

    I'm average and it doesn't matter to me what size a guy is.

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    Calidablue
    Calidablue
    Mar 22, 2024

    Im above average it seems, lucky me lol. Sometimes in certain positions it can hurt my lover. Its the upward curve she loves
    It is thinner than some Ive seen so thinker would be good, I believe most women would take girth over length.

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    Louie
    Louie
    Mar 22, 2024

    Size matters lol, I prefer smaller or average. I know not the norm but its what I like

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    Henry
    Henry
    Mar 22, 2024

    female friend of mine says "a man's worth is measured in his girth". But to be honest the attached photo says it all.

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