gay in the chat

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  StevieLorna

  May 28, 2018

  Same thing happens to me when I talk about plumbing in there , people assume Im looking for a guy with a big moustache to come round and fk the wife.

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  ManOfWicklow

  Oct 4, 2018

  [quote]Because nudism isn't about sexual orientation. And bringing it up makes it seem like you're looking for a hook-up.[/quote]Ditto

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  Jim

  Nov 20, 2018

  [quote]I have found that straight male nudists are generally very comfortable with gay male nudists and that the bond of nudism is more significant than any difference in sexual orientation. I am pleased to have male nudist friends of all sexual orientation.[/quote] If someone is asking about other gay men and nothing else they are talking about identity not sexual orientation. Being gay is not reducible to who we have sex with, its who we love. It's a little rich to see heterosexual people defining once again who and what we are or are not using what is very close to the language of deviance our community is by now used to, despite it being reprehensible. If there is no other content beyond the word 'gay' its not about sex. Its about friendship and camaraderie.

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  Dane

  Nov 20, 2018

  I totally agree with 'pig. Many straight social nudists find they are comfortable with a gay nudist. I have several straight nudist friends that I socialize with.

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  Stone Andy

  Nov 20, 2018

  [quote]Well, for some gay/bi and even ace men usually get along better with one another and relate better. This is definitely true for non-heterosexual males with Asperger as we have been raised with other Asperger males from an early age and the MAJORITY of MALE Aspies/High function Autistics are in fact... NON-HETEROSEXUAL... so deal with it. If anything you should seek to understand then to be understood and have compassion and exercise empathy considering we are among the most hated and powerless communities out there in this time and planet. POINT IS : GROW UP[/quote] I am so sorry to hear how you are a hated and powerless community as non-heterosexual male aspies. I recognize that I am pretty much "the man": white, middle aged and heteronormative, but evolving beyond my learned constraints and prejudices. I understand that I have benefited from privilege which I am basically unaware of. I am treated better than others without knowing it and assume everyone is treated like me. If others feel they are disrespected, it's easy for me to question if they have an issue before expressing empathy. In other words, my privilege can make me an IGNORANT ASSHOLE without even being aware of it. Please accept my apologies for this, please be patient with me and others, and please continue to be a shining example of authenticity and integrity to learn from. We have a lot to learn from you and other minorities, some of whom I don't even know are different than me. The best I can do is to try to stay open and grateful for you as on the cutting edge of better ways to be men. Maybe this is kind of even growing up, that an old dog can learn a few new tricks after all.

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  Buckeye

  Feb 14, 2019

  I also agree with your post Adam. Sexual orientation makes no difference to me either.

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