Incontenience and Nudity.

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  Grant

  Jan 15, 2014

  glad, this issue was addressed, I'm a nurse and I do know about these problems. In a nudist situation, take a dark towel with some padding infolded, when nude socially. If you are the one affected, you are aware. As much as you want to be nude and hopefully it can be outside in a garden, lawn setting open in nature, you will overcome this problem physically. Psychologically, it is good to talk about it, as there are many cases out there, which do share same problems. All one needs to do, is to brake his own barriers, which will make life much easier.
  

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  DesertRat

  Jan 15, 2014

  This is an important subject. I just hope some people can come up with some good suggestions.
  
  I am always checking for that stray drop that makes its unwanted appearance.

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  Timo2009

  Jan 22, 2014

  This sounds like an inherently sound solution. The dark towel will hide any telltale signs and since it's always appropriate to be seated on a towel in nudist venues, even if you're indoors, it seems a perfect was to avoid embarrassment. Plus, be assured that a lot more people have this problem than are willing to talk about it. You've made great progess just in bringing it up here. Good for you!
  

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  Mike

  Nov 10, 2014

  Fortunately not effected yet,but we are all getting older and it is great to see that such issues can be discuued here with respect.

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• TR

  

  Travellingbizguy

  Nov 10, 2014

  Had a buddy who had a temporary ostomy pouch.  When laying he used to cover it with a baseball cap.
  

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  Lonewolf2Original Poster

  May 3, 2020

  I realize this is an OLD thread, but I just had prostate surgery and anytime I move to get up or reach I leak pretty substantially. At my own house I can work outside and not worry about it. Maybe its even good for the grass. I'm not sure what the attitude is at any nudist resort. I was at a nudist resort nearly 20 years ago and a 7 yr old boy was hollered at for peeing in the bushes. I thought that was a bit prude.

  Anyway, since the average age at most resorts is over 60, any one have any idea how they treat such a problem? Do they throw out the member, Design special rules, or except it as a natural part of aging to be managed with dignity?

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  nudeyooper

  May 4, 2020

  My prostate is fine, but I leak and have urgency whenever I stand up. My doctor advised going on a regular schedule to keep the pressure from building. This works but can be very disruptive.

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  Paul

  May 4, 2020

  We have a member of our club in the same situation as your friend. We wears a medical looking clamp device on his penis to stop any fluids from leaking out. Nobody says anything, and he doesn't care. Hey, he survived prostate cancer! He's "Da Man" in my book!! I'm actually pretty proud of the guy.

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  No_tan_lines_60

  Jul 13, 2020

  My prostate was removed in June and Im still healing. I leak when I stand, sneeze, or cough. Sometime I leak when I reach for something or twist my torso. This is completely uncontrollable and embarrassing. I cover myself with a mens pad at home but would be terrified of squirting someone unintentionally in a social setting. The medical clip sounds like a good idea.

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  No_tan_lines_60

  Jul 13, 2020

  My prostate was removed in June and Im still healing. I leak when I stand, sneeze, or cough. Sometime I leak when I reach for something or twist my torso. This is completely uncontrollable and embarrassing. I cover myself with a mens pad at home but would be terrified of squirting someone unintentionally in a social setting. The medical clip sounds like a good idea.

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  AvgJoe

  Nov 11, 2020

  I had my prostate removed three weeks ago. My recovery has gone very well. However, I do have a fair amount of leakage when I move, cough, sneeze, stand, etc. I am looking forward to getting back with my nudist friends soon but am concerned about the incontinence. I saw mentioned a penis clamp used to control incontinence. That might be a good option for now. Does anyone have experience using penis clamp? If so, how effective is it? Thanks in advance for the info. Mike

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  AvgJoe

  Nov 11, 2020

  Has your incontinence improved as time has gone by?

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• ME

  Member

  Nov 12, 2020

  My BIL had his prostrate removed this summer. His recovery went well. His dr. recommended kegal exercises and his incontinence was resolved within a couple months.

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  AvgJoe

  Nov 13, 2020

  I am glad to hear that things resolved themselves after couple of months. I had surgery three weeks ago. I am just hoping the leaking stops soon.

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  John

  Nov 13, 2020

  I had my prostate removed 3 years ago and wear light pads due to leaking. Going nude hasnt been a problem as it seems the leaking occurs usually while Im seated. When Im at a resort Im usually reclining or walking and I also empty frequently. Im grateful to be cancer free and still be able to enjoy nudism.

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  craigop

  Mar 25, 2021

  I am a nudist and possibly facing the same surgery and have been doing some research. The suggestions already given are good. But, I am wondering if a penile plug would work. I can't imagine why it wouldn't. One day while at a resort I noticed he was wearing a clothes pin clamping the end of his penis. Finally dawned on me why.

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