My Job and my Private Life

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  nudedrew

  May 27, 2013

  No one at work needs to know you are a nudist just as you do not need to know what they are into. And really why is there such a stigma that being a nudist is a kinky dirty kind of thing. As far as the people who think that way what are they thinking? These are our bodies and that will never change and everyone has one or the other. I myself cannot understand why some people have to be dressed 24/7 and never let the sun on certain parts of their body as long as they live. And that is normal? As far as your love life it is really not their business to judge you because of your preference. Live your life how you see fit and do not regret what you wish you would have done because time stops for no one.

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• CD

  

  Cheri Donna Dawson

  May 27, 2013

  Nudists usually don't tell should you meet someone who is a client of your business.
  

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• ME

  MemberOriginal Poster

  Jun 1, 2013

  The higher standard thing!  Exactly. I have thrown up a pic of myself. I guess I can just go with the flow.
  

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• ME

  MemberOriginal Poster

  Jun 5, 2013

  [quote]I also agree with "alwaysnaked" and "KouakCFI".    Young parents, nowadays, are paranoid about their children and if only one found out that you were a "nudist and bi" ... some jackass will make it into a horrible, disgusting thing and it will spread like wildfire. SURE ... you can worry yourself to death about certain things that don't matter.  But being a nudist and announcing that and possibly your sexual orientation ... you're just asking for trouble and worry with today's narrowminded society.    I say ... because of your job and involvement with children ... you best keep it underwraps , be careful what you devuldge and be caring but careful with and around those children! [/quote]Yeah I love the kids in my care. I'm well respected and have a waiting list of eager parents.  So, there's no issue with how I do my job. And some great advice from all.
  

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  to_be_cloths_free

  Jun 14, 2013

  [quote]In my job I'm responsible for small children. I worry... I do meanworryabout clients finding out I like nudism. I worry enough about them finding out about my love life (I'm. Bi guy).
  Do you think it's something I can feel confident about.The obvious stuff is I'm not naked at work etc.  but people can be weird and make odd connections
  [/quote]Well if you are found out as if found out like a site like this on a beach/club etc. which good parents !!! should not be on/go to you will be able to point out if you are not fit for your job, they are also not fit to have children and so the children they have should be taken into care and that would shut them fast.

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• MA

  

  ManOfWicklow

  Jun 14, 2013

  I cannot see a problem so long as you keep your private and work life seperate. If you are not nude in front of the children, then no parent can have any cause for complaint, but there will always be the odd one who may not approve of your lifstyle. How well do you know the parents ? should one find it a problem, perhaps you may have the support from another.
  
  Many years ago, my wife was a registered childminder and the parents knew of my nudist lifestyle, and although not agreeing with it, they saw no problem with me often working nude in the garden when they came to collect their children. They would sometimes stay and have a tea or coffee whilst chatting to me, and never once complained about my nudity. Most neighbours, friends and work colleagues new I was a nudist and most accepted it, albeit not their way of life.
  
  Of course things are somewhat different today, and in many ways people are now more concerned since we have the www full of perverted nutters.
  
  I really don't know the best advice for you, other than keep your private life seperate and always be on best terms with the parents. I wish you luck, it cannot be easy for you.
  
  

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  ManOfWicklow

  Jun 16, 2013

  How sad this world has become when decent hardworking law abiding people are frowned upon if their lifestyle deviates from mainstream ettiquette. Where will it all end ? The way things are going, the word freedom will eventually be remove from the dictionary. A very well known quote comes to mind -It's life, Jim, but not as we know it.

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• ME

  MemberOriginal Poster

  Jun 16, 2013

  I have a few tats, and want a full arm sleeve on my left arm.Just another thing that might scare of clients.  Hair dye, tats etc... Have a way of sending out messages that are out of touch.

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• SU

  sunnmaxx

  Jun 24, 2013

  Friends of ours, both husband and wife, lost their jobs working with troubled youths when the bosses found out.  If you work with kids take extra precautions.

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• SC

  Scoutniagara

  Jun 24, 2013

  As a teacher, I had to hide the fact that I was a nudist.  One female teacher showed me photos of her in a bikini on Orient Beach.  I asked her if she got naked and she was curious how I'd know that it is a "clothing optional" beach.  I told her I was a nudist, that I'd been to Club Orient and to please keep it private between the two of us.   Around this time, the female staff members had been talking about breasts and bras and girlie things, and wondered how I knew so much about those topics...well, my confidant, later had told them my secret, but they all kept it to themselves.  Now that I'm retired, I don't have to worry about any of this, and my former students are cool with this knowledge..... I'm in touch with some of them on fb.

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• LU

  

  Luis

  Apr 20, 2024

  You shouldn't worry. You should enjoy being a nudist and being nude. If anyone sees you away from work or on a nude site they need to know that you enjoy being nude. You should still feel confident because you enjoy what we enjoy and that nudism and its a natural thing to be without clothing. People shouldn't judge you and need to realize that we all have our things that we enjoy but still do the job we are paid to do. [quote]In my job I'm responsible for small children.I worry... I do mean worryabout clients finding out I like nudism.I worry enough about them finding out about my love life (I'm. Bi guy). Do you think it's something I can feel confident about.The obvious stuff is I'm not naked at work etc. but people can be weird and make odd connections[/quote]

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• LU

  

  Luis

  Apr 20, 2024

  Agreed. [quote]No one at work needs to know you are a nudist just as you do not need to know what they are into. And really why is there such a stigma that being a nudist is a kinky dirty kind of thing. As far as the people who think that way what are they thinking? These are our bodies and that will never change and everyone has one or the other. I myself cannot understand why some people have to be dressed 24/7 and never let the sun on certain parts of their body as long as they live. And that is normal? As far as your love life it is really not their business to judge you because of your preference. Live your life how you see fit and do not regret what you wish you would have done because time stops for no one.[/quote]

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