A user openly asks why I have a penis and use the other category when in clearly male , 1 thats assuming gender , 2 inappropriate to publicly ask gender identity in the manner it was asked it would have been acceptable to say can I ask you about the other symbol no need to say clearly male and can see your penis , I defended myself and said non binary and that was rude to ask like that , they replied stop attacking me cause I'm transgender I said stop gaslighting because they were and playing victim when they started the attack I simply defended and was not rude however got a ban from chat . I'm the one who was victimised why am I banned by CplMoe71 very odd , and very very wrong to be targeted by admin for my gender identity and to side with someone who initiated an attack . It is very apparent that it was cause of my gender identity I was banned . Hate crime . Been reported luckily I kept screenshot of the abuse . If you click the box in bottom right it shows the chat screenshot where you can see who started the abuse not me i was the one attacked. Disgusting actions by a mod
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PieterJun 18, 2023Hi!
Of course it's not done to be like that...but don't loose your time on people who say bad words... spend time on people who support you!
Be proud to be transgender and live your live...
Everybody is different and unique...
Some people you like, some people you don't like....but always handle with respect.
And this last thing is very important.ReactReply - RI
richardg1973Jun 18, 2023Yep, saw that. Original question was pretty rude, and had the audacity to do so from a picture-less profile attacking you based on your pics! Maybe the mod bans both, but didn't seem right when you were merely defending an unprovoked attack.
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Stone AndyJun 18, 2023I am sorry for your trauma. I would avoid the chat room as dysfunctional and toxic. I would seek out people who affirm you as beautiful and strong. I close my eyes and breathe in with you and am Mother Earth and receive to say "Thank you." I exhale Spirit to Father Sky and say "Yes." Then I do another breath, inhaling, exhaling, affirming life, affirming gender, affirming Earthskyspirit, affirming life in its flow and cycle and know that all is and all shall be well, and you are here fully alive, strong and beautiful.
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hel784Jun 18, 2023Unfortunately TN, especially the chat room is not a safe space and mods are often biased or not trained at all to deal with contentious situations, they are simply average joes
TN however is full of allies and as said by another member don't let a troll get under your skin or question who you are and don't let them take away your will to practice nudism, you will find safe spaces and alliesReactReply - RORobin_hoodlessOriginal PosterJun 18, 2023
Thanks for the kind words and reassuring me I was not in the wrong , CplMoe71 is the account which banned me , reached out to them and raised tickets of concern and reported their mod capability , doubt it will do any good but I'm shocked in 2023 I get attacked and asked about my penis and another user can say my gender is obviously male when they are trans themselves and should know non binary is under the other umbrella and I'm the one banned ! I didn't swear I didn't break any rules I called out gaslighting when they said to me stop attacking a transgender ( which I didn't I said I'm non binary and I didn't appreciate being asked about my penis or my gender being assumed it was rude and no need to ask in that way) that's gaslighting attempting to start an argument and then switching it so they are the victim. I don't see how I was banned my only explanation is I was discriminated by CplMoe71 for being non binary and they sided with the no photo no certified account attacking me ..... read the entire chat maybe before banning people CplMoe71
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I witnessed that , not a good look for trunudists
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JayJun 18, 2023Sorry this happened but unfortunately it won't do much good the mods get away with this toxicity but glad you aren't afraid to stand up
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I don't think anyone got any reply when complaining about mods (maybe it happens too much to be able to handle all the replies) and as frustrating as it is, the best advice is to block the people (you won't see any message from them in the chat) and report their message/profile without pushing back or writing anything yourself... and questioning the moderation almost always gets you banned (I guess that's one of the unwritten rule of TN)
hopefully you will be able to get to know people who are regularly in the chat to whom you can turn with private messages for support if you feel distressed in such as situation againReactReply - RORobin_hoodlessOriginal PosterJun 18, 2023
Update CplMoe71 claims I started the " rudeness " lies lies lies can clearly see in the screenshot who started the rudness . Hmmm there we have it folks truenudists.com is for cis males and females only
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MarkJun 18, 2023Really sorry to hear about this. It shouldnt be happening in this day and age, even more so on a site that should be about people being able to be free and live their life with no judgement.
I very rarely comment on threads like this but felt I had to show my support.
Dont waste energy on the haters, they arent worth the head space. Focus on all the wonderful people in the community.ReactReply - S
SJun 18, 2023Sorry to hear that.
You are right to complain and raise it with the admin, but I am pretty sure that nothing will happen. TN mods are a bunch of bigots and not able to their job properly. I was baffled by their behaviour. It's just a waste of time to try to engage with them.
I stay away from the chat now.ReactReply - TR
Trekrider2779Jun 18, 2023[quote]Sorry to hear that. TN mods are a bunch of bigots and not able to their job properly. I was baffled by their behaviour. It's just a waste of time to try to engage with them.[/quote] Correct. I've used many different chat rooms over the last 25 years I've been using the internet. The chat room here stands out above all the rest as being the most unfriendly, conformist, and dictatorial, that I've ever seen. My only purpose in using it is for private chat. The mods are clearly on a power trip, and feel very threatened by people wanting to chat elsewhere instead of their controlled environment. And liking photos which are not to their like will get you banned. Of course, if the photo is of a straight couple or a female, the 'rules' seem to a lot more relaxed. There is apparently a small but vocal section of the nudist world where anything but straight couples and females are seen as an undesirable threat.ReactReply - SSJun 19, 2023[quote]Correct. I've used many different chat rooms over the last 25 years I've been using the internet. The chat room here stands out above all the rest as being the most unfriendly, conformist, and dictatorial, that I've ever seen. My only purpose in using it is for private chat.The mods are clearly on a power trip, and feel very threatened by people wanting to chat elsewhere instead of their controlled environment.And liking photos which are not to their like will get you banned. Of course, if the photo is of a straight couple or a female, the 'rules' seem to a lot more relaxed. There is apparently a small but vocal section of the nudist world where anything but straight couples and females are seen as an undesirable threat.[/quote]
You nailed it. Let's just not even discuss the "rules". Pics are authorised without any consistency and despite what it's claimed sexual innuendos are totally fine as long as they relate to couples and females.
The "morality police" is very active in the chat but can't be bothered with fake accounts and spam. The only friend request I recieve are from "female" bot promoting meeting sites. The reporting fuction could be taken down, as it's another waste of time. It's just pathetic rellyReactReply - SAStone AndyJun 19, 2023
Given the toxicity and dysfunction, I'm amazed anyone comes back to the chat room. I vote with my feet and stay away.
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