Ray

Gay liberal atheist cigar smoking bear looking for other gay bears

I just wanna spend time with older men, mature daddy-type men, or at least men with an attention span. I'm kinda that guy that never had the gay uncle or the dominant, guiding hand in the gay world, and I have for years said I wanted to try the kink world. Alas, it's never happened, and I've come close to giving up on the matter. I absolutely HAVE given up finding anything like that in the Bay Area (of all places to find zero such thing, huh?) Aiming at moving to Palm Springs area soon.

Reading, Writing, cooking, drinking, cigars (and I mean good ones, not cheapies), and coffee coffee COFFEE!!! Espresso especially. Also I wear a sigil of Baphomet, not because of an interest in Satanism, (not that the funny antics of TST or The Satanic Temple, haven't been making some serious waves in defending the 1st Amendment) but because Baphy is just my spirit animal so to speak. Not as scary as it sounds. Ask me about it! It's a fun conversation, believe me. I'll also explain why I go by 666Bear. That's also reeeeally not what you think it is!

Metal: Rob Zombie, Pantera, Five Finger Death Punch, Disturbed. Rock: Tool, Dream Theater, U2, Whitesnake, Fleetwood Mac. Pop: Scissor Sisters, Tracy Chapman, Sheryl Crow New Age: Ah*Nee*Mah, David Arkenstone, Loreena McKennitt, Delerium Classical: Dvorak, Prokoviev, Grieg So you can clearly see, I'm rounded out here, and just like talented sounds, not auto-tuned garbage.

Instinct: It's a late 90s film with Anthony Hopkins, Cuba Gooding Jr, and Maura Tierney, that advertised like it would be kind of like Tarzan. But in reality it was based loosely off of a revolutionary novel by Daniel Quinn called Ishmael (completely different story though). Hopkins was an anthropologist believed to be lost in the forests of Africa, and while living amongst gorillas, was believed to have come to think he had become one, and had murdered two men. Cuba, a psychologist, wanted to do the analysis, thinking he was going to see man in his natural state. But not a lick of that turned out to be true, and instead Hopkins teaches Cuba a thing or two about man's place in the world, and why we need to rethink ourselves as the kings of the earth. This is where my naturalism was reborn. Also love Matrix, Contact, V for Vendetta, Connie & Carla, the Saw movies, and a lot of old classics like Young Frankenstein, Dr. Strangelove, and Some Like it Hot.

Margaret Cho, the comedian. Rev. Bishop John Shelby Spong, for having the guts to take on fundamentalism. Howard Zinn, for telling the side of history nobody else dared tell.