Booted out of chat room

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• TI

  

  tiny

  Apr 24, 2017

  Same thing happened to me been a member for 5 years was in chat got kicked out now says I'm not allowed in.

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• TI

  

  tiny

  Apr 28, 2017

  I am back in chat

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• SE

  

  Sean339

  Sep 28, 2017

  This has, over the last few years, become a place overrun with catfish, fakes, and, mostly, extremely rude "women."

  Anyone care to disagree?

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• ME

  Member

  Sep 29, 2017

  i was trying to make some new friends for both my wife and I and trying to meet like minded people
  then asked room 1 question about what can be posted and bam kicked out of room and can not chat

  I hate this and want this to be overturned immediatley

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• MA

  

  ManOfWicklow

  Sep 29, 2017

  We DON'T want to hear all the pathetic excuses from Chat banned crybabies.

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• ME

  Member

  Sep 29, 2017

  [quote]i was trying to make some new friends for both my wife and I and trying to meet like minded people then asked room 1 question about what can be posted and bam kicked out of room and can not chat I hate this and want this to be overturned immediatley[/quote] I've never heard anyone say they got it overturned. Wait 3 days you'll probably be back in.

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• JO

  

  Jodiee

  Sep 30, 2017

  You do not get kicked out of chat for no reason, Let me tell you that.

  If you was making inappropriate chat in private, had said something in main room, was camming without face showing / Erect then this would be why you was kicked. The staff don't just kick people for nothing.

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• JO

  

  Jodiee

  Sep 30, 2017

  Go into the chat, top right hand corner -"RULES"next to the logout option.

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• JO

  

  Jodiee

  Sep 30, 2017

  https://flashchat.socialcomedia.net/rules.php?room=12

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• ST

  

  Steve

  Oct 3, 2017

  In a real-life settings - a social group I belong to has such a rule, as do some resorts / beaches - it can make sense to require everyone (or sometimes just the men) to be nude, so as to discourage voyeurs and to create a kind of unanimity that encourages shy folks to disrobe. That's where the idea of showing yourself to be naked comes from. But in real life, your whole body is present, head to toe; there is no possibility of anonymity. Anonymity is a huge concern on the internet, as you point out with regard to the no-cam people who send you pm's.

  On gay sites - bear with me here - it's really common for people to use images of just a torso, or torso-to-knees, without a face. On a beach, one would never have a conversation with such an object; it's specifically meant to be sexual but not personal. (This is not a gay thing, it's a guy thing: guys use this sort of image in a wretchedly misguided effort to interest women, as well. It only works on men.) Headless torso cam shots on here play into that, and encourage the sort of pm's you mention. So, in an attempt to move the dial back toward conversations on the beach, if you put an image on cam, it has to include the face.

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• JU

  Justnudenothingmore

  Oct 5, 2017

  Your answer lies here [quote] enjoying women panties[/quote]. I am not sure, but I do believe this is not a subject you would bring up at happy hour or any social situation, as in "Hi, I like football, hockey and enjoying women panties". Just my humble opinion.

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• T=

  

  Tom === Thomas S. Tierney

  Oct 5, 2017

  [quote]Yesterday morning I was in the chat room and a guy said hello and gave a brief description about himself, which included hobbies and enjoying women panties. A moderator quickly attacked him and was ready to kick him out of the chat room. Now, in my humble opinion, NOTHING he wrote broke the rules. The guy simply gave a list of his hobbies and enjoyments. A moderator could've simply sat back and watched if he got out of line. IF, he did start to go out of line then a quick message to stop that behavior would've been needed. Again, just my opinion.[/quote]QUOTE: A moderator quickly attacked him and was ready to kick him out of the chat room. methinks he doth protest too much

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• MA

  

  ManOfWicklow

  Oct 6, 2017

  [quote]Yesterday morning I was in the chat room and a guy said hello and gave a brief description about himself, which included hobbies and enjoying women panties. quote]Another jerk on the wrong site.

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• SS

  

  Sexy Stu

  Jan 18, 2018

  In the interests of of a balanced opinion....

  When I first joined, I was on cam showing face and upper torso. I was encouraged by quite a few men to show my lower torso and then to start touching myself.... I found this a turn on at the time....

  I was contacted by a moderator in pop up windows that I was in contravention of rules....those pop ups I didn't see immediately.

  Eventually I saw them and then realised I had been targeted as a noob and stupidly went along with the ego-boosting comments I was getting.

  I did apologise to the mod and advised what had happened. I was so embarassed about it - because I am NOT gay...yet here I had allowed myself to be put into such a position due to selfish egotistical greed.

  You know what? I wasn't kicked. I was shown where I had gone wrong and I have stayed a member on here for many years after.

  Times could have changed and if it happened today I suspect I'd be kicked (I'd kick me now for doing that).

  Just my thoughts

  Take care out there!

  :)(

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• WA

  Wayne

  Jan 21, 2018

  I was muted when I answered a question someone asked me about. I mentioned the word "skype" and was muted. when I tried to explain, I was told argueing only makes it worse in the chat room for me. How can you maintain your reputation in the room if you can't clarify a misunderstanding? Sometimes mods drop the hammer before they find out if it is warranted

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• NU

  

  NudyJay

  Jan 22, 2018

  The mods are trying to control too much. There have be many instances where they overstep the mark. I find the chat room seems to be for the regulars who know each other whilst the rest get silenced or ignored. Now in the new chat room we can't even do private cams between friends. We have to see the chat room that we don't use as cams can't be bigger. I don't think I'll be renewing my membership sadly.

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• MA

  

  ManOfWicklow

  Mar 3, 2019

  If you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen.

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• ME

  Member

  Mar 5, 2019

  [quote]...........Is there a good way to contact site ownership directly about chat moderator misconduct?[/quote] Don't waste your time contacting the site ownership. You will get no response. They do not care to get involved with issues like this.

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• JO

  

  John

  Mar 5, 2019

  This sort of thing happens all the time and will continue to happen whatever we or the site management do about it.

  The moderators are all unpaid volunteers attempting to work to a set of guidelines and needing to monitor several dozen cams while watching the public chat and checking on the many private chats as well. It is inevitable that they will both miss some things that people should be banned for and sometimes misinterpret and ban people for valid things.

  If you think you can do better then contact site management and volunteer.

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• BE

  

  Berky

  Mar 17, 2019

  I gave up on the chat room here on TN. A. Total. Waste land. I'm all for getting to know other members but I just can't go for the all the insanity that passes for "conversation". I've been a moderator in the past on various websites and I begin to wonder if any of the mods on TN even know or have basic customer service skills. Rant over. LOL
  
  [quote]You're not alone. There's no doubt in my mind that certain moderators have a problem with UK members. I've had totally irrational responses from some of them to the point where I rarely bother to post there now and let their comrades ramble on about guns and total bull sh it..[/quote]

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• ME

  Member

  Mar 17, 2019

  I quit visiting the chat room long ago, it was like I was returning to junior high school again. Found it more interesting to message and chat with individuals.

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• ME

  Member

  Mar 17, 2019

  It seems really hard to get into the flow there. Then its hard to start chatting solo with someone. Not much value if you ask me.

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• SC

  

  SCodyG

  Mar 27, 2019

  I got booted for posting a pic of my wife nude. so don't do that

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• SC

  

  SCodyG

  Mar 27, 2019

  The mods seem to have the god complex to an extent

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