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Separating social nudity from sexual nudity

Posted Aug 7, 2023

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MarkOriginal Poster
Aug 7, 2023

Had a home a few years ago where I was a full-time nudist in my house & backyard. Over the years, I rented a room to different housemates. Some were nudists, some not. I made it clear in the beginning that I would ALWAYS be nude, even when they would invite guests to come over. Not once did I ever have a problem with a clothed person concerning my nudity. Thats because its all about how I behaved. Im so comfortable with my naked body, and doing normal, everyday things, that my conduct put (clothed) people at ease. I was very sexual when I lived there, but I kept a hard line between that and my everyday nudity. If it wasnt a sexual situation, then I didnt act like it, nor ever got aroused. I even demonstrated a sex toy for a clothed, mixed group, at their request. It would normally be used when a man had an erection, but since it wasnt a sexual situation, I didnt have one. I told many people that social nudity and sexual behavior are completely separate things. I also imparted this adage:
Social nudity is not about SEEING or being SEEN.
Its about BEING nude.

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  • ST
    StevieLorna
    StevieLorna
    Mar 14, 2026
    [quote]I have a difficult time understanding why nudism and sex have to be separated. Textiles have sex.[/quote] Its easy for solo, home nudists to include sexual activity with nudism. Its called having a wank in the shower.
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    StevieLorna
    StevieLorna
    Mar 14, 2026

    On a less flippant note, yes textiles have sex, but you never see them make love. Its private.

    As a nudist, its exactly the same for us..

    Understand now?

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  • JO
    John
    John
    Apr 17, 2026

    In my opinion the rules about sexual behaviour are exactly the same for social naturism as they are for clothed social meetings.

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  • JO
    John
    John
    Apr 17, 2026

    In my opinion the sexual rules for naturism are exactly the same as those for cothed encounters.

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  • JO
    John
    John
    Apr 17, 2026

    In my opinion the sexual rules for naturism are exactly the same as those for cothed encounters.

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  • JL
    Jimmie Larson
    Apr 21, 2026

    Wife and I are an older couple. Both of us have had other partners over the years. Seems like adults should understand that anytime people mingle nude there's gonna be thoughts of a sexual nature.

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    nudony
    nudony
    Apr 21, 2026
    [quote]Wife and I are an older couple. Both of us have had other partners over the years. Seems like adults should understand that anytime people mingle nude there's gonna be thoughts of a sexual nature.[/quote] I came to an understanding years ago that what goes on in someone's head when they see my wife naked is inconsequential. I'm sure some people, at the various venues we've been to, may have had prurient thoughts upon seeing her "exposed." Heck; maybe some even had the opposite reaction lol. What matters, as it is often said; is behavior. And my wife's comfort with it. As long as their "inner dialogue" is not manifested into action; who cares?
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    StevieLorna
    StevieLorna
    Apr 22, 2026
    [quote]Wife and I are an older couple. Both of us have had other partners over the years. Seems like adults should understand that anytime people mingle nude there's gonna be thoughts of a sexual nature.[/quote] Makes you wonder how textile ever procreate. Sexual thoughts happen regardless of how people are dressed.
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