the size matter? — Sex and Sexuality on True Nudists

petyroOriginal Poster

Jan 22, 2011

question just for woman

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Michael
May 13, 2011
[quote][quote]um... thanks? But i've never come here trying to be arrogant, rude, or immature.[/quote] Your intent notwithstanding, that is the impression that you give to Bruce, to me and to many others. [quote]The fact is all I'm doing is seeing people I disagree with and asking "why" the only time I might come across as an asshole is when people like NiM come in and just get nasty with me because I disagree with them.[/quote] Evidently I am living rent-free in your head. IAC, the fact that you cannot debate me logically, rationally and objectively is not my burden. [quote]The problem I'm coming across the most is that people are afraid that if you relax on nudism in the least that it's going to turn into this free for all orgy or something...[/quote] No, kid, the problem is that there are dickheads who come here, discover that they don't like the rules and restrictions imposed by the admin, and then whine, bitch, piss and moan, and demand that the rules be changed to accommodate their "If it feels good, do it!" mentality. [quote]All I'm after is a live and let live attitude that people here don't seem to echo. I challenge convention and get no satisfying answers... if that changed you'd hear a lot less of me.[/quote] The only "answer" that you need or will get is that you are on a privately-owned and -operated website that has rules, policies and TOS established by the owner/admin, and those rules are not going to be changed because some young'un likes to "challenge convention".[/quote] Do you want to know what bothers me the most about you? It pretty much boils down to the idea that your word is law... and that you're absolutely right, which is ironic because I always hear people go "The older I get, the less I realize I know"... I guess that doesn't mean that the things you still think you know are in anyway open to reinterpretation. Here's the next thing. No one else speaks like they have the authority to change things around here... you do. You speak as if your word is law, yet it isn't. This is why you stick out to me. I'm sorry if you think I'm trying to "change" anything but at the end of the day what it boils down to, since this is a privately owned site, is what the owner thinks. I've made enough noise I'm sure someone has tried to report me that sits in this general camp of "how dare you"... and I'm still here. Clearly the owner of this site isn't bothered by what I have to say. I don't mind that you have a dissenting opinion, what bothers me is you won't discuss it. I haven't asked any rules to be changed, my views on what is and isn't acceptable don't extend to this site, they extend to life in general and nudism as a whole. If you really think I care that much about the going ons of this particular site I don't. If I want a site that offers what I'm talking about I can find one or make my own it's not that hard. To boil that down some, as I get accused of rambling. My biggest problem is that you don't discuss things. You have literally posted in here before a banner that says THE END to suggest that there's no discussing it and that you're absolutely right... this is the problem I have with you. I don't care that people here don't like certain images or discussions I'm working within the confines of this site so I know I'm OK on that level whether others like it or not. I talk about it to hopefully get people to see the other side of that argument. There's all these justifications on this site about why it's OK to ban single men and how it's gay activities that are driving people away and that women don't want to come because of... we generalize and stick people into these groups then go "no". What it does is leave these huge double standards and these strong outcries when my real life experiences have shown almost the opposite to be true when I have social nudity. When I'm with friends or acquaintences I meet it's a nonissue. And btw, another point. I realize you have some 45 years on me, but I'm not a kid, and you need to stop acting as if this is just some brat whining about his toys. I may not have as long as you in being an adult, but I am currently 22 years old and well old enough to realize what I'm saying and learned enough to feel confident in the things that I do say. You may have been here longer, but I have more time on my side to win. Age doesn't equal wisdom, ask Charlie Sheen.
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renebbare
May 15, 2011
2 whole days I'm waiting now.
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Michael
May 15, 2011
[quote]2 whole days I'm waiting now.[/quote] you can forget it NiM doesn't engage in rational debate unless he thinks he has the upper hand
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Member
May 15, 2011
When I was young, my Dad would try to teach me things. He would play or challenge me in sports, games, discussions.... I'd think I had the upper hand at times and then my Dad would use a line that I later learned as truth: "I've forgotten more than you'll ever know about _____."
That was true for many, many years. Now, I'm almost 50 and he is in his 80's. I finally found a few things where I know more than he does. Very few even still.
Wisdom comes only with age and experience but not to everyone. And you can take that to the bank.
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Michael
May 17, 2011
[quote]When I was young, my Dad would try to teach me things. He would play or challenge me in sports, games, discussions.... I'd think I had the upper hand at times and then my Dad would use a line that I later learned as truth: "I've forgotten more than you'll ever know about _____." That was true for many, many years. Now, I'm almost 50 and he is in his 80's. I finally found a few things where I know more than he does. Very few even still. Wisdom comes only with age and experience but not to everyone. And you can take that to the bank.[/quote] wisdom comes with experience, but experience doesn't necessarily come with age. I don't talk about how best to juggle a mortgage and a marriage and raising two kids because I don't have any real life experience or education on that matter. I comment on things like sexuality... because we are sexual from our gestation they have documented proof of identical twins having sexual encounters inside the womb... so is 22 years enough to comment on sexuality and have an informed opinion without getting called a kid? And another thing, just because you're dad forgot more about something than you currently know doesn't mean you don't know something he doesn't, if nothing else you could very well know something he's forgotten. Wisdom comes with age, but sometimes people just figure things out. Perception is a gift, some people learn it and some people just have it. To suggest that your perception is better than mine because you're older? Horse shit. It's also an ignorant attitude. Just because you think that by being around longer means you know more doesn't mean you know enough to stop listening to other people. There's always something you can learn, or relearn. When you enter into a discussion like a public forum was built for (no not online, as in when they originally built them in ancient Greece and Rome) you open yourself up to public debate from anyone who chooses to enter, emphasis on ANYONE. The fact is whether you agree or disagree if you find my opinion so disconcerting you should engage in a response because one thing your age and experience does mean is that you'll be gone from this earth a lot sooner than i will and it'll be my generation making these decisions, an eventually that's really not that far off. How about instead of ignoring what I say or calling me stupid and immature you engage in a rational debate and talk about these almighty things your increased wisdom has bestowed upon you so that I can understand what you do? Otherwise that wisdom isn't worth shit.
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ruby-belle
May 23, 2011
yes size matters the size of his brain not his member
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renebbare
May 23, 2011
[quote]yes size matters the size of his brain not his member[/quote] Well said.
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Michael
May 24, 2011
[quote]From the posts here it seems that tne 'size matters' question is of more importance and interest to a whole lot more males than the females. Too bad it's still a hangup for so many guys. Question might be that some want to just display their large size to anyone for self gratification and comments, using the excuse of nudism. True nudists don't need to care, or to ask this endlessly[/quote] Men are bred to be competitive and to boasts about their bigger, better catches. Men are bred to be exhibitionists, in every sense of the word. In man world, bigger is better, something advertisements and popular media echoes. It's not even necessarily a sexual obsession as it is a general desire and expectation bred into men to be the bigger better badder... whatever. It's one of the reasons men are less likely to share their feelings and emotions because that competitive nature is coupled with a belief that things not effecting us is bigger and better.
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ME
Member
Jun 30, 2011
Really? Are you kidding me? What does "size" have to do with being a nudist? Wow, another one who just doesn't get it.
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Michael
Jul 1, 2011
[quote]Really? Are you kidding me? What does "size" have to do with being a nudist? Wow, another one who just doesn't get it.[/quote] Well in the sense that when you're naked it's visible it does. Also since this is the sex and sexuality section of the forum it clearly was asked in regards to the sexual arena which is clearly OK to the operator of this site since there's a separate forum for it... so while sex is not necessarily a part of nudism if you are a nudist then nudity is a necessary part of sex for you because it's a necessary part of your life in general... therefore it does have something to do with being a nudist as most nudists like most people on this earth as a whole practice sex of some kind. So... maybe you don't get it. If you didn't want to talk about a sexual topic why did you open a topic that was in the Sex and Sexuality section?
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gopala
Jul 1, 2011
it will last longer.
happily
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gopala
Jul 1, 2011
it will last longer.
happily
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Mitch
Jan 8, 2012
Whats that old saying..."It's not the heat of the meat but the motion of the ocean"

What does it really matter. Sure, many guys, like being at a sub shop, want to upgrade from the 6 inch to the footlong, but I am guessing the only reason they want that is, like a new car, they want everyone who sees it to be impressed.
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Chuck
Jan 14, 2012
My goodness does having a 10 inch penis make you a better nudist, I don't think so. Sorry I just don't get these threads on a nudist site. You people who ask theses questions belong on True Swingers and not True Nudists!!!
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Tom === Thomas S. Tierney
Jun 12, 2012
[quote]Really? Are you kidding me? What does "size" have to do with being a nudist? Wow, another one who just doesn't get it.[/quote]You are right. Size doesn't matter. The shortest woman I "dated" was 4'9"
the tallest was 5'9" and many in between. I only "liked" some of them.
It wasn't their size that I liked or disliked.
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Member
Jul 1, 2012
[quote]question just for woman[/quote]
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womannudista
Nov 5, 2012
[quote]I don't have to tell you anything.[/quote]I have just made myself a your fan jajaja

me acabo de hacer fan tuya jajaja
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renebbare
May 14, 2016
Who woke this 4yr old thread up?
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Tom === Thomas S. Tierney
May 14, 2016
Yes size matters, no one wants a small glass of wine.
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ManOfWicklow
May 14, 2016
[quote][quote][quote]If you place an educated, wealthy and intelligent guy whom has a small one in the room with a not so educated nor wealthy guy who has a huge one, who drives away in the Porsche with the girls?[/quote] [quote]The wealthy guy will end up with the hooker.[/quote] [/quote] A Charlie Sheen joke?[/quote]No, my joke.
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Rich
Jul 12, 2016
My girl would take the uneducated guy with a big one lol
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pinewood
Sep 11, 2016
Some of us guys dont have that problem, us big fat guys with the old disappering dick syndrom. wish it were otherwise, but oh well.
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Hawk
Sep 11, 2016
[quote]Yes size matters, no one wants a small glass of wine.
[/quote]Thomas is right again lol ;)
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ManOfWicklow
Sep 11, 2016
[quote][quote]Yes size matters, no one wants a small glass of wine.
[/quote]Thomas is right again lol ;)[/quote]Not sure what size Barmaid he likes.
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