Why... — Sex and Sexuality on True Nudists

Miss_LindaOriginal Poster

Dec 6, 2009

...do so many people try to push the boundaries of good taste within this forum?

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gator1
Dec 10, 2009
[quote][quote][/quote] In a recent court case, a witness was even heard to have said "Those f*kin' f*kers f*ked me." And he was testifying in English in a case where testimony had to be interpreted into French for the benefit of the defendant. I marvelled at how the interpreter managed to capture both the meaning and the flavour. I don't know if I would have done as well. So, how do our children learn to speak so badly? I think a great number of parents may have to look into the mirror to find the answer. [/quote] I've heard it referred to as "the universal adjective." Gator1
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ME
Member
Dec 10, 2009
Totaly agree Gerry
I have actually seen a documentary on he F word.
In my opinion? This word is so much used do to the simple disregard to others feeling or as mentioned here before on another subject: the “me” culture.
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ME
Member
Dec 10, 2009
By the way , I have read in some psychology book once that the human being has several stages of maturity
One of them, being in a very young age all auto-concentrated (the "ME" stage)
Can it be that time has changed and we (as a race) have stopped our development in that stage?
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Gerry-4
Dec 10, 2009
[quote]By the way , I have read in some psychology book once that the human being has several stages of maturity One of them, being in a very young age all auto-concentrated (the "ME" stage) Can it be that time has changed and we (as a race) have stopped our development in that stage? [/quote] I hope you're wrong, BMan, but you've shown a rare talent for insight. Oh, woe is us!
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Curt, or Cowboy
Dec 10, 2009
[quote]By the way , I have read in some psychology book once that the human being has several stages of maturity One of them, being in a very young age all auto-concentrated (the "ME" stage) Can it be that time has changed and we (as a race) have stopped our development in that stage? [/quote] Methinks not ! Society these days, DEMANDS that kids grow up FAST, especially sexually. OK, while they spend their energy "growing up" and maturing sexually, becoming obsessed with the size of certain body parts, how much fat, and all that rot, does this not take away from being able to mature in other, more normal ways ? I submit that development hasn't stopped in the "me" stage, but that the development that would have / should have taken place in that section of the brain has been diverted to obsession with the size of their ass, so that when hormonal and physical maturity does occur, the mental maturity has been wasted on body image issues that just aren't important to nudists. Further, that having grown up in the very liberal "ask not what you can do for your country, but ask what your country can do for you" age of entitlement these "people" have been conditioned more, and more, and more, that it's all about "me" even if deep in their hearts they really do know better. To not know better is to be a sociopath, and I'm not convinced that the mis-lead are all sociopaths. I'll come back to my first post in this thread ( #2 for those interested ) that it's not arrested development as far as maturity, but misunderstanding of the boundaries, perhaps agravated by mid-development as a victim of the society at large. Yes, I DO blame the parents ! It was their responsibility ( and an awsome responsibility it is ) to guide along the right path. Too many have failed to do just that.
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Miss_LindaOriginal Poster
Dec 16, 2009
[quote]Methinks not ! Society these days, DEMANDS that kids grow up FAST, especially sexually. OK, while they spend their energy "growing up" and maturing sexually, becoming obsessed with the size of certain body parts, how much fat, and all that rot, does this not take away from being able to mature in other, more normal ways ? I submit that development hasn't stopped in the "me" stage, but that the development that would have / should have taken place in that section of the brain has been diverted to obsession with the size of their ass, so that when hormonal and physical maturity does occur, the mental maturity has been wasted on body image issues that just aren't important to nudists. Further, that having grown up in the very liberal "ask not what you can do for your country, but ask what your country can do for you" age of entitlement these "people" have been conditioned more, and more, and more, that it's all about "me" even if deep in their hearts they really do know better. To not know better is to be a sociopath, and I'm not convinced that the mis-lead are all sociopaths. I'll come back to my first post in this thread ( #2 for those interested ) that it's not arrested development as far as maturity, but misunderstanding of the boundaries, perhaps agravated by mid-development as a victim of the society at large. Yes, I DO blame the parents ! It was their responsibility ( and an awsome responsibility it is ) to guide along the right path. Too many have failed to do just that. [/quote] You have some really interesting insights, Curt. I might add that some of the ruder discussions we have seen on this forum might come solely from boredom. Some people, lacking anything better to do, might see this kind of forum as a safe place to stir the pot, sowing the seeds of dissension for their own twisted form of amusement. Does anyone else think this might be true?
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Curt, or Cowboy
Dec 16, 2009
[quote] You have some really interesting insights, Curt.[/quote] Thank you. [quote]I might add that some of the ruder discussions we have seen on this forum might come solely from boredom. Some people, lacking anything better to do, might see this kind of forum as a safe place to stir the pot, sowing the seeds of dissension for their own twisted form of amusement. Does anyone else think this might be true?[/quote] Yes, and it happens in every unmoderated disussion group, on-line and othwerwise.
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Miss_LindaOriginal Poster
Dec 16, 2009
[quote][quote] You have some really interesting insights, Curt.[/quote] Thank you. [quote]I might add that some of the ruder discussions we have seen on this forum might come solely from boredom. Some people, lacking anything better to do, might see this kind of forum as a safe place to stir the pot, sowing the seeds of dissension for their own twisted form of amusement. Does anyone else think this might be true?[/quote] Yes, and it happens in every unmoderated disussion group, on-line and othwerwise.[/quote] Sad, but likely true.
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catbird
Dec 16, 2009
[quote][quote][quote] You have some really interesting insights, Curt.[/quote] Thank you. [quote]I might add that some of the ruder discussions we have seen on this forum might come solely from boredom. Some people, lacking anything better to do, might see this kind of forum as a safe place to stir the pot, sowing the seeds of dissension for their own twisted form of amusement. Does anyone else think this might be true?[/quote] Yes, and it happens in every unmoderated disussion group, on-line and othwerwise.[/quote] Sad, but likely true.[/quote] The idle mind is the devil's workshop.
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jason
Dec 16, 2009
The idle mind is the devil's workshop.[/quote] so true, in college my friends would get nervous if i was quiet for too long. they learned to be on their toes.
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Miss_LindaOriginal Poster
Dec 28, 2009
[quote]Pushing the boundaries as a child/youth is part of the experience of maturing. The major difference that I see between my youth in the 40s/50s and today's culture is that there are no longer any boundaries to push against. Whereas in my childhood an infraction beyond the established limits resulted in a swat in the ass, today there seems to be nothing that a kid can do that merits a loud, NO!" and a physical reminder. Much of the reason for it is that we have become a culture where discipline is verboten, lest we damage the fragile psyches of the little darlings. Pop a punk kid in the butt these days and the DSS will have you in court for abuse. Facing that penalty for trying to maintain a proper parent-child relationship, parents just give in and set no limits whatever. And what happens then? Kids need the security of knowing that their parents love them enough to establish a set of rules that they can safely test without breaching their trust. Without those limits, they first try to get their parents to show that they love them enough to say, "ENOUGH!" And if they can't evoke that response, they are justified in assuming that they are the bosses of the home. At that point, they're all but lost. The worst damned nonsense of the last several decades has been, "Be a friend to your child." What egregious bullscheiss! How about being a father or a mother to your child? They don't need more friends. They need role models of how loving men and women live together in harmony. They need guidance and discipline. They need to learn self-control. They need to realize that the universe doesn't revolve around them, and that what they want is not the standard for what they will get. They need to learn that their arse cheeks are not where the world will plant its collective lips. The most disturbing call that I heard today on my police scanner was the one that dispatched a cruiser to deal with "an out-of-control 11-year-old". My cats thought I was nuts when I bellowed at the radio, "Smack the little shit's ass, you (bleep)ing morons!" Of course, if they actually did that, they'd be in court on assault, if not child abuse, charges. That's how far we've degenerated. One of my fondest wishes is to use Dr. Who's TARDIS to go back in time and castrate Benjamin Spock's father.[/quote] It's just my opinion, but I don't think we can really blame Dr. Spock. He wrote a book of guidelines. It's not his fault that his readers thought his words should have been carved in stone.
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Serranior
Jul 10, 2010
Because in their normal lives they feel that they have little power and here they can push back on in this case push boundaries. For example how many of us have been presented with a body part of sexual question in some case before the person contacting even says hello? I have realized that is maybe best not to talk to men first thing in the morning on here lol. I think I responsible and acceptable ideas of what nudism is goes right out the window until a certain thing is address. I am sorry, but I don't to me the recipent of such greetings every morning unless I know well.
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ME
Member
Jul 11, 2010
Im not sure why some people do the thing they do on this site but it makes it really hard for the people here who are actually true nudists. Perhaps, they dont understand the values and reasons for being a nudist. Maybe in there world, being a nudists is gawking and showing of there goods. Either way, i feel they should be able to sort themselves from true nudists and move on to a different site. It seems to me that they wouldwantto go to a different site where people enjoy the things that they are doing here. Im not sure. I dont like it. And it makes it hard on a young nudist.
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Pussyfart
Jul 12, 2010
I would think it is because those people don't have boundries , they may not have ever thought to set any for themselves or think nothing about what they do or say may be offensive to others.
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UKrudegirl
Jul 13, 2010
[quote]...do so many people try to push the boundaries of good taste within this forum?[/quote]Part of the problem with the notion of good taste is that it is wholly subjective and dependent upon the culture from which the individual springs. The internet is global and diverse but we as individuals on the net tend towards the parochial.Love n stuffRudie x
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ME
Member
Sep 17, 2010
Linda, I'm missing your posts!
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GB
Greg Brannan
Sep 17, 2010
They find it fun, unfortunately.
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Good77
Jun 12, 2015
[quote][quote]Methinks not ! Society these days, DEMANDS that kids grow up FAST, especially sexually. OK, while they spend their energy "growing up" and maturing sexually, becoming obsessed with the size of certain body parts, how much fat, and all that rot, does this not take away from being able to mature in other, more normal ways ? I submit that development hasn't stopped in the "me" stage, but that the development that would have / should have taken place in that section of the brain has been diverted to obsession with the size of their ass, so that when hormonal and physical maturity does occur, the mental maturity has been wasted on body image issues that just aren't important to nudists. Further, that having grown up in the very liberal "ask not what you can do for your country, but ask what your country can do for you" age of entitlement these "people" have been conditioned more, and more, and more, that it's all about "me" even if deep in their hearts they really do know better. To not know better is to be a sociopath, and I'm not convinced that the mis-lead are all sociopaths. I'll come back to my first post in this thread ( #2 for those interested ) that it's not arrested development as far as maturity, but misunderstanding of the boundaries, perhaps agravated by mid-development as a victim of the society at large. Yes, I DO blame the parents ! It was their responsibility ( and an awsome responsibility it is ) to guide along the right path. Too many have failed to do just that. [/quote] You have some really interesting insights, Curt. I might add that some of the ruder discussions we have seen on this forum might come solely from boredom. Some people, lacking anything better to do, might see this kind of forum as a safe place to stir the pot, sowing the seeds of dissension for their own twisted form of amusement. Does anyone else think this might be true?[/quote]I think this is True Miss linda.
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