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Why is sexual orintation a question in profiles?

Posted Aug 9, 2010

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rusty62
rusty62Original Poster
Aug 9, 2010

In my understanding of nude recreation - we are not here to flaunt sexuality. Why does it need to be a profile question? Strikes me as a little creepy and one of the reasons I have not opted for paid membership here in an otherwise good nudist organization online. Really I do not want to know who is what sexual orintation. I am not go looking for sexual information when I am in a nudist enviroment. Furthrmore I have a safe and balanced sexual life in the company of my loved one and do not look anywhere for extra cirricular gratification, here, my home club, work, other personal groups and organizations. Why should I be intrested here?

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    Philfreeeuk
    Philfreeeuk
    Aug 9, 2010
    This is a "Double post"   It happens sometimes, often because, after hitting submit, the page doesn't refresh very quickly and the poster is tempted to hit it again.   To prevent this, if the page doesn't refresh, -always- hit the back button twice, and then refresh, to see if your post has been published. If not, hit the back button to return to your text, and then hit submit again.   To see the responses to this post, pleaseclick here :)
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    Alison James
    Alison James
    Sep 28, 2013
    [quote]In my understanding of nude recreation - we are not here to flaunt sexuality. Why does it need to be a profile question? Strikes me as a little creepy and one of the reasons I have not opted for paid membership here in an otherwise good nudist organization online. Really I do not want to know who is what sexual orintation. I am not go looking for sexual information when I am in a nudist enviroment. Furthrmore I have a safe and balanced sexual life in the company of my loved one and do not look anywhere for extra cirricular gratification, here, my home club, work, other personal groups and organizations. Why should I be intrested here?[/quote]What if single people or couples are interested in others for close friend relationships to hang out nude in private get to gethers. I wouldn't mind knowing a head of time which way they roll. Of course I'm Bi already, but I still wouldn't mind knowing.
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    ManOfWicklow
    ManOfWicklow
    Sep 29, 2013
    [quote]What if single people or couples are interested in others for close friend relationships to hang out nude in private get to gethers. I wouldn't mind knowing a head of time which way they roll. [/quote]That is why the (trueswingers) site was set up,to take the sexual content away from the truenudists site.
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    Christopher
    Christopher
    Sep 30, 2013

    I would guess that the question is there for the same reason as the questions that ask if you  single or a couple; or if you are here for friendships or dating.

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    renebbare
    renebbare
    Oct 2, 2013
    TrueSwingers is just that, a site for swingers, with many naked people.
    TrueNudists is a site for nudists, with many naked people.
    Naked people are not always Nudists!
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    ravensflyinnow
    ravensflyinnow
    Oct 2, 2013
    [quote][quote]That is why the (trueswingers) site was set up,to take the sexual content away from the truenudists site.[/quote]  But did TrueSwingers do what it is supposed to do?  I just signed up and saw some people, with the same username, on both sites.  Now are they swingers or nudists?  Are they on both sites to double their opportunities for sex?[/quote]They could be both! Swingers can be nudists and True Nudists can be swingers. Nudists don't have to be asexual. If sex, prospective sex, voyeurism, or exhibitionism are theonlyreasons to be a member here, then maybe another site would be a better fit. This is a social networking site for nudists, social networking has been known to bring people together and sometimes sex gets involved.
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    orbarebear
    orbarebear
    Oct 3, 2013

    Sexual orientation isn't just about sex.  It's part of who we are, an important part, and helps us understand each other a little bit.  Like it or not, we tend to want to be around people that have similar interests, and to some extent it's not much different from including what sorts of music, tv and movies we like.

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    nudebeachbunny
    nudebeachbunny
    Mar 31, 2014
    [quote][quote][quote]That is why the (trueswingers) site was set up,to take the sexual content away from the truenudists site.[/quote]  But did TrueSwingers do what it is supposed to do?  I just signed up and saw some people, with the same username, on both sites.  Now are they swingers or nudists?  Are they on both sites to double their opportunities for sex?[/quote]They could be both! Swingers can be nudists and True Nudists can be swingers. Nudists don't have to be asexual. If sex, prospective sex, voyeurism, or exhibitionism are theonlyreasons to be a member here, then maybe another site would be a better fit. This is a social networking site for nudists, social networking has been known to bring people together and sometimes sex gets involved. [/quote]I very much agree with this.
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    to_be_cloths_free
    to_be_cloths_free
    Apr 1, 2014

    I think the reason is because if somebody is bi or their own sex and the same sex as you and they want to meet up with you and the meet goes ahead you will be watching more closely if he/she in only interested in your body.

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    Flokie
    Flokie
    Apr 1, 2014
    [quote]I think the reason is because if somebody is bi or their own sex and the same sex as you and they want to meet up with you and the meet goes ahead you will be watching more closely if he/she in only interested in your body.[/quote]I think that's a little bit cockeyed ... whatever your orientation, I doubt you check out every body you see ... or maybe I'm just being naive.  :-)
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    Christopher
    Christopher
    Apr 2, 2014
    [quote]I think the reason is because if somebody is bi or their own sex and the same sex as you and they want to meet up with you and the meet goes ahead you will be watching more closely if he/she in only interested in your body.[/quote]Now there is a statement that is absurd, uninformed, and more then a bit ignorant!
    Among other things, this is a social site and one of the profile questions asks if you are here for dating. Is it that difficult to understand that if some people are here for dating opportunities knowing the sexual orientation of others is needed?
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