Anyone else can be nude in front of their old man like me? My old man made it comfortable to be nude in front of other men. I've been finding out that guys that didn't have an old man that was comfortable with being naked in front of other men envied that I was able to be naked in front of my old man and he in front of me. Also how he was easy to talk to about morning wood and unexpected erection that young men get for no reason. I was wanting to hear other guys nude bonding with their old man growing up.
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PatrickMay 5, 2025Not my dad by my brothers and I had nephews a little younger from a much older sister. So I took on that role for them. I'd help them understand what a grown penis looked like and why mine was different as I'm circumcized and they aren't. My brother taught me about things you don't learn from a book! It all helps!
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MikeMay 5, 2025Unfortunately I grew up in a "no nudity" household so I never saw my dad naked. I accidentally saw my mom naked on a couple of occasions as she slept that way. But there was no casual nudity in my home. I have always regretted that. I learned all of my sexual physiology from an older male cousin and a younger female cousin.
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NudeAllMyLifeMay 5, 2025I grew up very comfortable being nude with my dad. I really appreciate that I had that growing up. I'm sure it contributed to making me the nudist I am today
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Tom DMay 5, 2025[quote]Unfortunately I grew up in a "no nudity" household so I never saw my dad naked. I accidentally saw my mom naked on a couple of occasions as she slept that way. But there was no casual nudity in my home. I have always regretted that. I learned all of my sexual physiology from an older male cousin and a younger female cousin.[/quote] I never saw my Dad naked either, but did see my grandson a few times so I knew what a naked adult male looked like. I wasn't even allowed to be shirtless except in my bedroom and the bathroom. Once when I was visiting my parents after I was married I made a quick trip to the bathroom in just sleep shorts. I crossed paths with my mom in the hall and she told me to never do that again in her house, but what I did at home was my business. I decided that I still shouldn't tell her that at home I wouldn't be wearing anything.ReactReply - TDTom DMay 5, 2025[quote]Unfortunately I grew up in a "no nudity" household so I never saw my dad naked. I accidentally saw my mom naked on a couple of occasions as she slept that way. But there was no casual nudity in my home. I have always regretted that. I learned all of my sexual physiology from an older male cousin and a younger female cousin.[/quote] I never saw my Dad naked either, but did see my grandson a few times so I knew what a naked adult male looked like. I wasn't even allowed to be shirtless except in my bedroom and the bathroom. Once when I was visiting my parents after I was married I made a quick trip to the bathroom in just sleep shorts. I crossed paths with my mom in the hall and she told me to never do that again in her house, but what I did at home was my business. I decided that I still shouldn't tell her that at home I wouldn't be wearing anything.ReactReply
- TDTom DMay 5, 2025[quote]Unfortunately I grew up in a "no nudity" household so I never saw my dad naked. I accidentally saw my mom naked on a couple of occasions as she slept that way. But there was no casual nudity in my home. I have always regretted that. I learned all of my sexual physiology from an older male cousin and a younger female cousin.[/quote] I never saw my Dad naked either, but did see my grandson a few times so I knew what a naked adult male looked like. I wasn't even allowed to be shirtless except in my bedroom and the bathroom. Once when I was visiting my parents after I was married I made a quick trip to the bathroom in just sleep shorts. I crossed paths with my mom in the hall and she told me to never do that again in her house, but what I did at home was my business. I decided that I still shouldn't tell her that at home I wouldn't be wearing anything.ReactReply
- TDTom DMay 5, 2025[quote]Unfortunately I grew up in a "no nudity" household so I never saw my dad naked. I accidentally saw my mom naked on a couple of occasions as she slept that way. But there was no casual nudity in my home. I have always regretted that. I learned all of my sexual physiology from an older male cousin and a younger female cousin.[/quote] I never saw my Dad naked either, but did see my grandson a few times so I knew what a naked adult male looked like. I wasn't even allowed to be shirtless except in my bedroom and the bathroom. Once when I was visiting my parents after I was married I made a quick trip to the bathroom in just sleep shorts. I crossed paths with my mom in the hall and she told me to never do that again in her house, but what I did at home was my business. I decided that I still shouldn't tell her that at home I wouldn't be wearing anything.ReactReply
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ArthurMay 5, 2025[quote]Unfortunately I grew up in a "no nudity" household so I never saw my dad naked. I accidentally saw my mom naked on a couple of occasions as she slept that way. But there was no casual nudity in my home. I have always regretted that. I learned all of my sexual physiology from an older male cousin and a younger female cousin.[/quote] Both my parents werent shy, especially Dad, not that they went around naked but if they were showering or heading to bed or swimming they didnt hide themselves. I guess also being a farm kid you just kinda naturally understood some of those "facts of life" because they were all around you vs. in town. Remember skinny dipping with Dad on a NYE when I was 18 - the tide was out and the water never seemed to get deeper so we had to wade and wade and go flashed with torches/flashlights from shore and the burst of fireworks. Was very freeing and maybe the moment I saw him and started trying to relate to him as a man/person and not just annoying Dad.ReactReply - SA
salcalMay 5, 2025My Dad brought me to the YMCA when there was nude swimming. It was a great way to bond and be nude as a kid, seeing the variety of men of a variety of ages, too. Very easy and open to ask questions, and get honest answers. No shame. I hear the same thing from friends, how great for me, and sad for them.
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we used to shower when I was younger then we stopped but now we are reconnecting and maybe he'll be a nudist too
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Rede2rub1May 6, 2025My da and I swam every morning from my 2nd birthday until I was 24. So everyday in the locker room, in the sauna, and skinny dipping at home,Dad liked to hang out in the locker room and talk to anybody. I was very comfortable with my dad. We lived on lots of land so very private. Dad encouraged all of my friends ad their dads to come and swim and hang out nude on the ranch. We had a big pool,lake, and a stream to use.
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Nude PaulMay 6, 2025My dad and I were nudists growing up. My mom wasn't shy about being seen nude, she just didn't walk around the house like we did. I started showering with my dad when I was 3 and continued until I went to college. Random erections were common, and considered normal and natural. Masturbating was considered normal and healthy. Going through puberty I had lots of questions and he was always open to talk about anything and everything. Nudity created a life-long bond between us
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Freedom88May 7, 2025I talk to a lot of men and most of them are surprised when I tell them that I used to shower with my dad and that we often see each other naked. It is also common for us to talk about our bodies. He showed me his frenulum and told me about it. I was circumcised, then had a vasectomy, and during both surgeries he followed my recovery. The nudity and the dialogue between father and son should be natural, but unfortunately it is not.
ReactReply - MEMemberMay 7, 2025I suspect this topic has as many answers as there are fathers & sons; each one is probably a little different. Though personally, I never showered with my Dad and don't know of anyone who did. He was part of the WWII crew and told me they gang showered & slept nude in the barracks so that was the norm. A quick check of the internet came up with this comment,"Dr. Wendy Lane, who works at the University of Maryland C h i l d r e ns Hospital, said it can actually be beneficial for ch il dr en to rinse off with their parents during their early years but the practice should stop around the age of 5.". This particular statement is probably a base line and nothing more. Perhaps the most telling part was later on when the article mentioned that it ...should stop whenever anyone gets uncomfortable. As I was part of the 70s generation, nude gang showers in both junior & senior high was the norm. After the initial shock in 7th grade, it was just something you did. Concerning my own ch il dren and gr and ch ild ren, I bathed them all. My own until about the age of 5 and the others as it is needed. Does this sound like you other folks out there?ReactReply
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MauricioMay 12, 2025As a nudist dad is the best, we have a lot of trust and it helps with confidence too
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RonMay 19, 2025[quote]I suspect this topic has as many answers as there are fathers & sons; each one is probably a little different. Though personally, I never showered with my Dad and don't know of anyone who did. He was part of the WWII crew and told me they gang showered & slept nude in the barracks so that was the norm. A quick check of the internet came up with this comment, "Dr. Wendy Lane, who works at the University of Maryland C h i l d r e ns Hospital, said it can actually be beneficial for ch il dr en to rinse off with their parents during their early years but the practice should stop around the age of 5.". This particular statement is probably a base line and nothing more. Perhaps the most telling part was later on when the article mentioned that it ... should stop whenever anyone gets uncomfortable. As I was part of the 70s generation, nude gang showers in both junior & senior high was the norm. After the initial shock in 7th grade, it was just something you did. Concerning my own ch il dren and gr and ch ild ren, I bathed them all. My own until about the age of 5 and the others as it is needed. Does this sound like you other folks out there?[/quote] Yes so much of this is familiar to me, my dad was the Korean era. He told of the group showers and he stayed in a quanset hut, which dad said like a tin can and was to warn to sleep in anything. I never showered with my dad nor did I even think about it. However when it was bath time ir shower time. He would make my bath water and I would take a bath while he shaved and got ready for his shower. When he was do e he would wash me again and more less an inspection to make sure I was clean. Then I got out of the tub and would dry off and brush my teeth and comb my hair while he showered. Which he showered fast. Then he said ok we done go get ready for bed so I ran off to my room and climbed in bed neither one of us put clothes on to sleep. Eventually the bath stopped with me and I would shower dad didn't stay on the bathroom to make sure I got clean bit he would come in and shave and shit while I showered and would jump I. After I was out,well when I started going into puberty dad talked with me which i was. Comfortable with, you was right is was the norm on school after the initial shock of being naked with the guys you had went to school with since kindergarten.it was nothing to think about. Now even though dad and I was nude in the bathroom I ran around the house naked I was totally comfortable in front of my mom and my sister which was a lot older than me . But when puberty hit and I started sprouting pubes and all the rest that goes with. I was forbidden to be naked in front of my mom and sister. He said it was disrespectful. So when dad was home only in the bathroom and my bedroom could I be nude. But if dad was not home mom woukd allow me to be naked around the house. We lost mom when I was 15 then both if was naked at home as soon as he got in from work and me when I got home from school. It was never an issue even as adults and I would pop in to stay the night and then eventually take care of him until he passed.ReactReply - TDTom DMay 19, 2025[quote]I suspect this topic has as many answers as there are fathers & sons; each one is probably a little different. Though personally, I never showered with my Dad and don't know of anyone who did. He was part of the WWII crew and told me they gang showered & slept nude in the barracks so that was the norm. A quick check of the internet came up with this comment, "Dr. Wendy Lane, who works at the University of Maryland C h i l d r e ns Hospital, said it can actually be beneficial for ch il dr en to rinse off with their parents during their early years but the practice should stop around the age of 5.". This particular statement is probably a base line and nothing more. Perhaps the most telling part was later on when the article mentioned that it ... should stop whenever anyone gets uncomfortable. As I was part of the 70s generation, nude gang showers in both junior & senior high was the norm. After the initial shock in 7th grade, it was just something you did. Concerning my own ch il dren and gr and ch ild ren, I bathed them all. My own until about the age of 5 and the others as it is needed. Does this sound like you other folks out there? Yes so much of this is familiar to me, my dad was the Korean era. He told of the group showers and he stayed in a quanset hut, which dad said like a tin can and was to warn to sleep in anything. I never showered with my dad nor did I even think about it. However when it was bath time ir shower time. He would make my bath water and I would take a bath while he shaved and got ready for his shower. When he was do e he would wash me again and more less an inspection to make sure I was clean. Then I got out of the tub and would dry off and brush my teeth and comb my hair while he showered. Which he showered fast. Then he said ok we done go get ready for bed so I ran off to my room and climbed in bed neither one of us put clothes on to sleep. Eventually the bath stopped with me and I would shower dad didn't stay on the bathroom to make sure I got clean bit he would come in and shave and shit while I showered and would jump I. After I was out,well when I started going into puberty dad talked with me which i was. Comfortable with, you was right is was the norm on school after the initial shock of being naked with the guys you had went to school with since kindergarten.it was nothing to think about. Now even though dad and I was nude in the bathroom I ran around the house naked I was totally comfortable in front of my mom and my sister which was a lot older than me . But when puberty hit and I started sprouting pubes and all the rest that goes with. I was forbidden to be naked in front of my mom and sister. He said it was disrespectful. So when dad was home only in the bathroom and my bedroom could I be nude. But if dad was not home mom woukd allow me to be naked around the house. We lost mom when I was 15 then both if was naked at home as soon as he got in from work and me when I got home from school. It was never an issue even as adults and I would pop in to stay the night and then eventually take care of him until he passed.[/quote] Was your dad nude when he was shaving?ReactReply
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John EnglishMay 19, 2025I really didn't start seeing my dad nude till my sister went off to college, and it was just the 3 of us
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No, only as a young child. Wish I had when I was older. Might would have been closer to him
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Dave LowhangersMay 20, 2025I had the same experience as you. Dad taught me to be nude from a very long age, and then I taught my boys the same. It's a freedom and connection that surpasses any bond that is textiles. Getting home and stripping to my smile was common when my mom was at work and it was boys home time...so I can say I am happier and more confidant and mentally more stable because I had this experience with my dad.
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My dad would always sleep with just a t-shirt, so seeing him in just that in the morning was common. My older brother was a big sportsman, and when he was a teen he would walk from his bedroom to the bathroom nude often. I guess as a result Ive had a healthy attitude about nudity?
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uniballMay 22, 2025Showered with him as a kid and was nude around the house. Stopped as a teen when I got insecure. Miss those days and wish we still had that bond as adults. Been wanting to invite him to a nudist event, but afraid it would make things weird.
Envy fathers & sons who are still that comfortable together. Hoping to share that special bond with my own son one day.ReactReply - TDTom DMay 22, 2025[quote]Showered with him as a kid and was nude around the house. Stopped as a teen when I got insecure. Miss those days and wish we still had that bond as adults. Been wanting to invite him to a nudist event, but afraid it would make things weird. Envy fathers & sons who are still that comfortable together. Hoping to share that special bond with my own son one day.[/quote] Was he nude around the house also?ReactReply
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NewNudistInTown_92May 23, 2025Me and my dad are sharing a nudist bond for around 10 years now. And the idea of shedding all clothes and be the way we were born have made our bond very stronger. We are so close to each other now that we do not feel shy about anything between each other. We walk around the house with boners all day. It has become very common for us. We make sure that we get together for a naked drink every week. And we discuss about each other's sex lives and make jokes and laugh loud. And after getting drunk, we go and pee together then come back and sleep together sometimes hugging each other. My mom doesn't like nudism so we have to sneak around a bit. But when she's not at home, the whole house is for ourselves and we'll be doing all our daily chores stark naked together. We make sure we shower together as well. I think nobody else shares such a close bond with their fathers or sons. I feel we both are the lucky ones.
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