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Boys and Their Dads

Posted May 5, 2025

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ME
MemberOriginal Poster
May 5, 2025

Anyone else can be nude in front of their old man like me? My old man made it comfortable to be nude in front of other men. I've been finding out that guys that didn't have an old man that was comfortable with being naked in front of other men envied that I was able to be naked in front of my old man and he in front of me. Also how he was easy to talk to about morning wood and unexpected erection that young men get for no reason. I was wanting to hear other guys nude bonding with their old man growing up.

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    Freedom88
    Freedom88
    May 27, 2025

    The chances of things getting awkward are slim to none. I highly recommend that you take the initiative to reclaim the freedom of being naked together.

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    Freedom88
    Freedom88
    May 27, 2025
    [quote]Showered with him as a kid and was nude around the house. Stopped as a teen when I got insecure. Miss those days and wish we still had that bond as adults. Been wanting to invite him to a nudist event, but afraid it would make things weird. Envy fathers & sons who are still that comfortable together. Hoping to share that special bond with my own son one day.[/quote] The chances of things getting awkward are slim to none. I highly recommend that you take the initiative to reclaim the freedom of being naked together.
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  • AN
    Anonymous
    May 27, 2025

    just invite your dad to the nude event. Start with "Dad do you remember how we'd all be nude when I was 13 years old. That was so much fun. Hey Dad, let's do it again. Why don't we go to XYZ event on June 1st? It'd be just like old times!

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  • ME
    Member
    May 28, 2025

    Grew up with a dad who has German naturist roots - which involved shared showers, open communications, bonding activities and an overall healthy sense of male freedom and physical togetherness.

    Definitely agree with everyone else in this thread as well - its something to be communicated with and to discover together one step at a time, which I think everyone here can agree had led them to discover more about themselves as men, mentally, physically, the feeling of male bonding and liberation together, etc.

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    naturist_jw2702
    May 28, 2025

    Grew up in modest household, but did see my Dad nude - showering or when at the locker room, beach changing room. Never hung out with him nude, or my brother - except for a reason, like when got a spanking. Dad was not nude then but ...

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    yome04
    yome04
    Jun 1, 2025

    As a dad, I'm not sure if being bude is taught. Feeling comfortable being nude is taught through example. We have gone through different stages at home, but i don't know if I can say it has been taught.

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    naturistexpl0rer
    Jun 5, 2025

    I grew up in Scandinavia, so being naked with your family and friends in the sauna was the norm. I've done it my whole life. It's not even considered naturism, it's just normal nudity. Showering, swimming, sauna and downtime in between, always in the nude. At home, or at the summer house. Creates a real natural bond. When socialising outside the family, the dads will take the sons, and the moms will take the daughters in separate sessions. That's just because men and women tend to socialise separately, rather than avoiding each other naked. Builds strong male bonds, not just with my own dad, but with others dads too.

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    T
    Jun 25, 2025

    These stories are great. Wonderful bonding experiences.

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  • ME
    Member
    Aug 27, 2025

    Being that my Dad was a nudist himself, I saw him nude around the house on a daily basis. He always went commando as he never owned underwear. He taught my brothers and I that there is absolutely nothing wrong with casual nudity. We've all followed in his footsteps and those of us with children are raising them in the same tradition.

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  • ME
    Member
    Aug 28, 2025
    [quote]Being that my Dad was a nudist himself, I saw him nude around the house on a daily basis. He always went commando as he never owned underwear. He taught my brothers and I that there is absolutely nothing wrong with casual nudity. We've all followed in his footsteps and those of us with children are raising them in the same tradition. Was your mother nude at home too? Do you have any sisters?[/quote] Mom was a corporate executive which required her to put in long hours at work which meant she wasn't home much. Our sister basically lived at her best friend's house so most of the time it was just us 3 boys and Dad at home.
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    Tom D
    Tom D
    Oct 1, 2025
    [quote]Being that my Dad was a nudist himself, I saw him nude around the house on a daily basis. He always went commando as he never owned underwear. He taught my brothers and I that there is absolutely nothing wrong with casual nudity. We've all followed in his footsteps and those of us with children are raising them in the same tradition.Was your mother nude at home too?Do you have any sisters? Mom was a corporate executive which required her to put in long hours at work which meant she wasn't home much. Our sister basically lived at her best friend's house so most of the time it was just us 3 boys and Dad at home.[/quote] Where in the order of the boys were you? Do you think it was easier for the you younger brothers to be nude since they had older brothers for examples. Along the same lines, I noticed an old post of your where you said that you started sleeping nude at 5. Were you partly inspired by older brothers or helped encourage younger brothers to do likewise? What did you wear for sleeping before you slept nude?
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    northshoreman
    Oct 21, 2025

    Was quite common to see him nude - I'd asked typical curious questions about his body and he'd answer. My mother encouraged Dad/Son weekend trips occasionally. (maybe a trip to D.C., baseball Hall of Fame, White Mountains of NH, etc) in the hotel room we were never eager to get dressed. I felt quite comfortable being nude in front of him and he with me. As my mother would say when I was real young at the Y "change with the men, it's ok, you got the same parts they do".) Afterall this is nudity so why have shame about being nude in front of family?

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    Luca
    Luca
    Nov 12, 2025

    U guy have a lot of experience
    Lucky u

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    Xander
    Nov 15, 2025

    I stayed with my dad when my parents got divorced so since age 10 it was just us 2 in the house. We became super close and bonded soon after and decided together to just start being naked around the house. It was awesome!

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    Mauricio
    Mauricio
    Nov 16, 2025

    I raised on the lifestyle so my son can have more confidence and be however he wants around me, since I had a textile family growing up I wanted to make a difference

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    Hang Naked
    Hang Naked
    Nov 16, 2025

    I tend to agree, its not taught its just naturally exampled. I recall when we would go to the public pool to swim. Afterwards we had to shower there (old fashioned big open shower room) because my dad felt let the county pay for the hot water and not himlol). No one thought twice about it. And even if not nude at home, then at most it was just underwear.

    But each person has their own comfort level and I respect that. I have been comfortable in my own skin. Used to share a room with my bother who is 6 years older. Once I started sleeping nude, he moved to the basement within 2 months. Even when a few years back and we shared a hotel room. He slept in his underwear, t shirt, socks and khaki shorts!!!! More than I wore most days!!! LOL

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    Mark
    Nov 23, 2025
    [quote]I stayed with my dad when my parents got divorced so since age 10 it was just us 2 in the house. We became super close and bonded soon after and decided together to just start being naked around the house. It was awesome![/quote] That sounds awesome. I think it's more common than people realise. You were very lucky to get to bond so closely.
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    Grapewest
    Nov 27, 2025

    Hi, I lgrew up in a somewhat nudist home in Mexico. Both my parents were very comfortable walking around naked at home. I remember my dad taking afternoon naps fully naked, however we never talked about naturism or us being naked, lol.

    The nudity in my household was established by my mom I assume as my dad's family would not ever get naked in front of other people (extremely catholic and religious), however from my mom side I did see my Granma and some female cousins naked sporadically.

    In my mom's family they are all females (no male cousins, never met my grandfather, all aunts -mom is the youngest female of all her sisters), the only male was my mom youngest brother. He was 10yrs older than me. Because of the lack of males my mom always pushed for me to spend time with him.

    While it was normal to be naked at home and was used to see my dad naked all the time, it was with my uncle that my curiosity and enjoyment of being naked begun. First time we started hanging out naked I was probably 6yo until I was 13 and he married and moved to another town.

    He is the one that teach me to enjoy being naked, I learned with him a lot about my body and his body (I was very curious). I don't have kids as an adult but if I did, I would show them to be proud of their bodies and to enjoy being naked without shame.

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    FLNoody
    Dec 19, 2025

    I have taken the time to read through all.of the replies in this topic ans I must says, yall have a beautiful mind a d wise decisions were made regarding thr nude bonding between father and son, and to decide to raise your own in the same manner.
    If anyone would like to chat further about this rather than resurrecting this topic, feel free to reach out to me in here and if needed we can jump over to Session.

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    nudist_wf4295
    Dec 23, 2025

    My dad was the first adult male I saw naked so the memory of his naked body is still really clear in my mind. My dad got naked in front of me as if he was alone, it made no difference that I was there as we were family so it didnt matter, and I really appreciated that. It highlighted that deep father-son bond where he felt he could get naked in front of me like it was nothing. And for me it felt like I was getting to see what was normally hidden but with my dad it didnt have to be hidden. My parents divorced when I was young so I would stay at his on weekends and sleep in his bed, he slept naked so I have vivid memories of watching him undress in front of me and him walking around, his penis flopping around and how it moved and the veins and the size of it. I remember him in the bath and how his penis moved in the water. My dad was really not shy about his body and I was lucky enough to find an old vhs video from the 90s where he showed his penis so it was amazing to see it again after all these years and in some ways I think he meant for me to find it. My dad is passed now so I dont mind showing pics of him hopefully I can attach them here and you can see the body I admired as a boy.

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  • ME
    Member
    Dec 23, 2025

    Nothing should be hidden between Fathers & Sons; Children learn wisdom best from Good Communicative Parents. Communicating Body Confidence & Pride in ones Manhood ( verbally in word or by example in the flesh in deed ) is apparently a Lost Art these days which is destroying Society Culture Civilization & Our Humanity.

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    Lima
    Lima
    Jan 6, 2026

    I used to see my father naked when I was a child, but I never saw him again after I grew up... I intend to have this freedom with my children because I believe that nudity is something natural and that it connects people.

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    Xander
    Jan 10, 2026

    Thanks. I loved that me and my dad became so close after my mom left. It's like we completely opened up with each other and I was able to express anything I ever felt. It was an amazing way to grow up, having someone so safe and loving to learn from and experience becoming a man with.

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