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  StevieLorna

  Aug 26, 2022

  I wonder if the reason why certain men are rejected for entry in to clubs is not because they are single but because its obvious they are one of those proud penis enthusiasts and no one wants to be bored witless listening to that childish babble while sitting by the pool drinking a Pina cloaca.

  Its getting very boring seeing it here.

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  TWman9865

  Aug 27, 2022

  I agee with most that it's not about the condition of your penis since you should be at a point of feeling secure and confident whatever it's status. Since nudity isn't about sexual arousal the focus should be about feeling free to engage and conduct ourselves as if we're wearing clothes but aren't.

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  TWman9865

  Aug 27, 2022

  I agee with most that it's not about the condition of your penis since you should be at a point of feeling secure and confident whatever it's status. Since nudity isn't about sexual arousal the focus should be about feeling free to engage and conduct ourselves as if we're wearing clothes but aren't.

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  Oso

  Aug 31, 2022

  Sit down and lay your towel over your lap or hang out in the pool/hot tub until it goes down. Don't make a big deal of it and draw attention to yourself and odds are no one is even going to notice.

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  Bill

  Aug 31, 2022

  First, congratulations to you for your random erections. Welcome to the male body. And know that you are not alone. There is an answer for you - a proud but troubled man of constant sorrow(ful), uncontrolled, even spontaneous socialus-nudus-interruptus erections you think you're going to have upon even the contemplation of being nude in public. Are you boney even now, knowing I'm about to give you the answer you seek? Calm down! It seems very obvious and I shouldn't have to say this but I'm here to inform - if you cannot control your penis from rising with even the whiff of a stiff breeze, you should masturbate over and over & over, and then one more time for good measure, until it just won't get stiff anymore, before you venture out to a 'nude event or whatever'. Removing enough of your manly juices from the situation may calm your consistently-unexplainable boners. I suggest Astroglide for the duration of your slippery stay in your hand(s), and get the big bottle because it sounds like you need it. Don't leave home until you can't stand up, genitally. If this lengthy process ends up making you miss the nude event altogether, or because even after all of that semen expulsion you can't stop becoming erect, or you collapse from the exertion, well, maybe it was for the best that you just stayed home. Look at yourself naked in the mirror and realize that you have had a lovely time without offending any fellow nudists. And put some aloe on that poor thing - it looks like it could use a rest. Slightly more serious for a moment: If you are indeed already at the bare event and you become hard, please do cover it up by draping your towel down in front of your offending, soon-to-be drooling dong, or quickly and discreetly find a lounger and sit down on that towel and flip onto your tummy and try to think about something that turns you off like catching your dog licking its balls. Lucky fuckers. For your information, many men (myself included), in all age groups, experience some erectile-overfunction when they begin their nudist adventure, only to find that once they've gotten normalized to the constancy of nude skin in view, they find the view less and less - engorging. In the mean time, masturbating until you're a droopy dan may be the answer. It isn't hurting anyone - and don't hurt yourself. [quote]I still get random erections even at 31, so if I do go to a nudist event or whatever, what's stopping me from just being hard all the time? Like not sexual arousal but being nervous or getting excited about doing something out of my comfort zone, should I just cover up when they pop up, or let them stand, I know when I first go to one, I'm going to have issues with it, so what should I do?[/quote]

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  Bruce

  Sep 1, 2022

  I have been to resorts. I have never seen a full erection out in the open. Though i heard there had been seen a couple times. They were not banned because he was just walking and not flaunting it in front of others. If you did that yes you would probably get banned. Im 61 and still get erections. I'm not ashamed of it. I have never gotten one out in public unless i seen another then i might get one.

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  EarlD

  Sep 1, 2022

  But they want to be noticed. That is why they post topics like this. They are exhibitionists using nudism as cover for their sexual proclivities. [quote]Sit down and lay your towel over your lap or hang out in the pool/hot tub until it goes down. Don't make a big deal of it and draw attention to yourself and odds are no one is even going to notice.[/quote]

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  Sep 3, 2022

  [quote]But they want to be noticed. That is why they post topics like this. They are exhibitionists using nudism as cover for their sexual proclivities. Sit down and lay your towel over your lap or hang out in the pool/hot tub until it goes down. Don't make a big deal of it and draw attention to yourself and odds are no one is even going to notice.[/quote] I'm pretty sure this topic is more about someone trying to deal with being self-conscious about their own body than...whatever this whole thread got into. Fact of the matter is that body shaming is more normalized that nudism. The dialogue around penis size, regardless of gender identity, can be a toxic as #### environment. Its an unfortunate reality, and I assure you, the typical gatekeeping vibe this entire forum has over nudism compounds the problem more than help.

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  EarlD

  Sep 3, 2022

  [quote]Its an unfortunate reality, and I assure you, the typical gatekeeping vibe this entire forum has over nudism compounds the problem more than help.[/quote]
  
  Call BS where is your proof. I can tell you instance after instance of people who are turned off because stuff like this people I know personally, people in this site and public reports. Where is your proof that focusing on the non sexual side of social nudity compounds the problem. Why is a focus on non sexual nudity a problem?

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  Brian

  Sep 3, 2022

  Ohh my, who's got time to read all this, I have a theory, if a post is bigger than my phone screen, it's probably unmitigated waffle....

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  Brian

  Sep 3, 2022

  Now I've said that, just forced myself to read it all,. I can Concur, my theory is indeed correct..

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  EarlD

  Sep 4, 2022

  Honestly it is scary how much opinion on this board passes as fact. People make blanket statements that have no basis in actual fact and are rather a reflection of a particular personal point of few or philosophy.
  
  That is the world we like in of alternative facts.

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  StevieLorna

  Sep 5, 2022

  [quote]Honestly it is scary how much opinion on this board passes as fact. People make blanket statements that have no basis in actual fact and are rather a reflection of a particular personal point of few or philosophy.That is the world we like in of alternative facts.[/quote]
  
  The ancient Mayans were all nudists, they were the first people to invent sunscreen made from the blood of the martyred victims to the sun gods. The reason for the shape of their temples was so sunbathing shamans could catch the rays 24hs a day.
  
  All true. I read it somewhere. Or Ed told me all about it.
  
  Another astonishing fact. There are no vikings, there were Danes and Norsemen, neither ever called themselves Vikings.

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  EarlD

  Sep 5, 2022

  [quote]All true. I read it somewhere. Or Ed told me all about it.
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  Hehe you read it on Reddit

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• ME

  Member

  Sep 5, 2022

  [quote]Its an unfortunate reality, and I assure you, the typical gatekeeping vibe this entire forum has over nudism compounds the problem more than help. Call BS where is your proof. I can tell you instance after instance of people who are turned off because stuff like this people I know personally, people in this site and public reports. Where is your proof that focusing on the non sexual side of social nudity compounds the problem. Why is a focus on non sexual nudity a problem?[/quote] I like how you completely disregard the paragraph I typed right before the one you quoted and, ironically, asked for proof. But since this literal thread isn't enough proof for you: Literally a post in the "Frequently Asked Questions" board, someone posted a question/concern that they were having. Did you offer advice? Did you offer solace? Nah. What did you post? This: [quote]So much absolute rubbish being spouted by folks on this board recently[/quote] Its understandable why my reply made you so defensive as you are literally part of the problem. To directly poke at your "woe is us" on "why is a focus on non-sexual nudity a problem", quite literally,nobody said it was a problem.You simply can't expect everyone to automatically think like you. This is a forum with MANY categories. Some of those categories open the door to ask questions, or post experiences, etc etc. You and folks like you jumping the gun on almost every thread with nothing to offer than "ERMAGERD TRUE NUDIST" does not help. You're not opening the doors for new nudsits; you're being territorial. Weirdly territorial, considering this site is all but abandoned by the dev team. Does this site have a legitimate problem with pervs? Of course. Making sure to establish that before you try and strawman. The problem is that you're conflating anyone that doesn't share your EXACT views as a perv, and we have words that describe those kinds of people. Gate keeping being the nicest.

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  StevieLorna

  Sep 5, 2022

  [quote] Does this site have a legitimate problem with pervs? Of course. Making sure to establish that before you try and strawman. The problem is that you're conflating anyone that doesn't share your EXACT views as a perv, and we have words that describe those kinds of people. Gate keeping being the nicest.[/quote] Just to pick you up on this point. Its impossible to define exactly what a nudist/naturist is, in exactly the same way its impossible to define what a textile is. Textiles for the most part live by a moral code and in my first had experience naturists have exactly the same standards, the only difference is a better tan. The problem in reality is that many posters on here have zero first hand experience to draw on and simply project there own ideas as to what naturism means from them, if they do ever experience social nudity, its going to be very disappointing for them.

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  Member

  Sep 5, 2022

  [quote]Does this site have a legitimate problem with pervs? Of course. Making sure to establish that before you try and strawman. The problem is that you're conflating anyone that doesn't share your EXACT views as a perv, and we have words that describe those kinds of people. Gate keeping being the nicest. Just to pick you up on this point. Its impossible to define exactly what a nudist/naturist is, in exactly the same way its impossible to define what a textile is. Textiles for the most part live by a moral code and in my first had experience naturists have exactly the same standards, the only difference is a better tan. The problem in reality is that many posters on here have zero first hand experience to draw on and simply project there own ideas as to what naturism means from them, if they do ever experience social nudity, its going to be very disappointing for them.[/quote] This this this this this THIS! Thank you!

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• ME

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  Sep 6, 2022

  [quote]I ask that you provide proof for you grandiose statement about what the real problem is. If that is not forthcoming then I will continue to call BS.[/quote] Wow. LOL. I referenced a thread /and quoted you/, but sure. Selective reading is AMAZING, ain't it? Stay toxic, buddy.

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  EarlD

  Sep 6, 2022

  [quote]I ask that you provide proof for you grandiose statement about what the real problem is. If that is not forthcoming then I will continue to call BS. Wow. LOL. I referenced a thread /and quoted you/, but sure. Selective reading is AMAZING, ain't it? Stay toxic, buddy.[/quote] See you cant even address the issue you need something more that your condescending words or a single instance based on the very thing being critiqued to back up your opinion and you cant do it so you through out stuff likestay toxic. Guess I shouldnt be surprised since you are hiding behind a locked private profile. Gatekeeper indeed.

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  Marcus

  Sep 8, 2022

  It seems that you need some education. This helps:
  https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Naturism

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  EarlD

  Sep 17, 2022

  [quote] Sure, it's different if they put it in your face, but just for being erect in a nudist environment I don't think there's anything wrong with it.[/quote] That is such BS Which nudist environment have you been it where that is acceptable behavior?

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  EarlD

  Sep 17, 2022

  That may be your opinion and it may be what the other thirsty people here think but it is by no means generally accepted or acceptable behavior in a social nudist setting.

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  StevieLorna

  Sep 17, 2022

  [quote]Nowhere is it acceptable to put it on your face. But that someone has a casual erection should not matter to anyone[/quote] Thats a very pro cock point of view that many men here share. And the thing they almost always have in common is that they have never experienced social nudity.

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  Little_David

  Sep 17, 2022

  The first time I went to a nudist beach with my wife I was tumescent and my wife noticed. Luckily that was all. although she didn't mind if a guy walked past with a massive hard-on. In fact it quite amused her.

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