Gay Nudist

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  Tom === Thomas S. Tierney

  Nov 26, 2019

  [strong][strong][strong][strong]What is the name of the nudist ranch where this happened?[/strong][/strong][/strong][/strong]

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  Dan

  Nov 26, 2019

  Hi you should name and shame the place. Why should you be discriminated against? Too many shallow minded people in this world.

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  TJ

  Nov 26, 2019

  Masculine schmaculine.

  I don't care if you spelled it daisies and purses when you talked or if you're so flaming you left smoking Footprints behin
  This was absolutely unacceptable

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  Rain

  Nov 26, 2019

  We're a gay couple of 20 years who frequently stay at various nudist resorts. While well aware of the homophobia that exists all around us (even at some gay-friendly locales), we've yet to experience such blatant, in-your-face discrimination at a legit nudist resort or clothing-optional location.
  
  We'd really appreciate the name of this place.

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  nudeyooper

  Nov 26, 2019

  I have no reservations about being nude in the presence of gay men. If approached, I would welcome appropriate conversation, but nothing more. That goes for nude women and clothed people of any gender too.

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  gabare

  Nov 27, 2019

  rawdude sorry to hear about your experience at that resort but folks this BS about nudist being the most welcoming friendliest people is a crock I've been a nudist since the 80's and just taking your clothes off in a group doesn't make you friendly or welcoming to everyone . now saying that most people clothed or nude are generally friendly but we can go all the way back to our days in school, college and even the workplace of click, bullying and such and like these people ever change. first off I've never asked someone sexual preference , political preference when I first meet them heck I might not ever unless the conversation leans that way as friendship grown but even than it shouldn't be a judgement on them. second what the hell with the management this goes back to the early 70's when I wanted to visit a nudist camp for the first time solo but was told that was not allowed now push forward to the late 80's when nudist camps - resorts were hurting for money suddenly singles were now a source of money and a way to keep the nudist venue alive. now as for someone comments on aanr I dumped them long ago they to are just about money imo . and my last point since you said you were gay rawdude check to see if there is a gay campground in your area most are really nice and a lot less expensive to visit.

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  Dane

  Nov 27, 2019

  I totally agree!! As an AANR member, as a retired military and openly gay senior who goes to that particular nudist ranch, I find this totally unacceptable behavior on the part of the management. I have never encountered that type of a situation at that establishment but it is totally wrong.....And I go there quite frequently.

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  Tom

  Nov 27, 2019

  I don't have any problem at all being around naked gay men or anyone else for that matter, at least they are willing to talk to you, I find straight guys won't talk, I don't know, maybe they think I am gay and just cruising.

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• ME

  Member

  Nov 27, 2019

  I find that hard to believe as well. You apparently ran into one homophob. I have been numerous times never an issue. I know many gay men who go. I met a gay couple at the buff and shine, not a proplem, and well known. I heard there are swingers at this place and sure many bi people.

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• ME

  Member

  Nov 27, 2019

  Sounds like shangri la

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• JO

  

  John

  Nov 28, 2019

  rawdude68 I think you should name the place on here.
  Report your incident with AANR if they are affiliated and even take it to social media too.

  You unfortunately encountered one homophobic asshole and all hell breaks lose. Shame on the management who did not bring you both into the office and get both sides of the story and shame on the other people you were chatting with all day who did not stand up for you.
  And people have to ask why theres still a need for PRIDE PARADES every year. SMH

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  Brett Rapley

  Nov 28, 2019

  [quote]How do feel being anywhere nude knowing there gay men in the same nudist area as you? The reason for this question, I was at a Nudist Ranch and was having a great time and having great conversation with alit of the others. This guy came up to me in the pool and started a conversation with me. Very pleasant conversation. But he asked about my wife and if have any kids. I told him I have never been married and have no kids. He asked why. I told him I travel a lot with my job and that I am gay. He just took off and was telling everyone that I am gay. Then I was approached by a lady who was fully clothed and introduced herself as the Manager and asked me if I could get dressed and come to the office. I did I was asked and she told that she has been getting complaints that I have been disrupting other guest and asked me to leave. When I asked her how I was disrupting other guest she said will not tolerate my attitude and said you are banned from our facility and to please never try coming back. I felt disrespected, discriminated and I was angry. I am not flamboyant at all. I am very masculine and no one believes when I tell them that I am gay. It's just very disheartening knowing people are still homophobic.[/quote] It's plainly obvious that he noted you were there alone, so was fishing for information, all he had to do and exactly what he did was spread a rumour which got you kicked out of the place. That little toad basically shit stirred and got you booted out, it was as simple as that, he felt, for whatever reason threatened by your presence and the fact that you were completely honest. With hindsight, you should have realised something was going to happen the moment he took off and started gossiping about you. I would also suggest that he thought you might try it on with him because you are gay and he was another man ! The old assumption that because he has the parts that gay men like, you automatically wanted them, when it was obviously not the case. I would not worry about it, because one day, this will come back to haunt him.

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  Nick Costello

  Nov 29, 2019

  I find it strange that the OP posted this and has not checked back in. He logged in 40 minutes ago. AND he did not name the place that offended him. I find this very weird.

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  ManOfWicklow

  Nov 29, 2019

  [quote]I find it strange that the OP posted this and has not checked back in. He logged in 40 minutes ago. AND he did not name the place that offended him. I find this very weird.[/quote] I agree, and it makes one wonder if this just fantasy.

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  StevieLorna

  Nov 29, 2019

  Agree, the first reply asked for the name of the resort.

  The non response is very suspect.

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  ShavedNudist27

  Nov 29, 2019

  I don't mind any gays looking at be. If they are friendly and like to chat, its OK with me.

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  Tom === Thomas S. Tierney

  Nov 29, 2019

  [strong][strong]
  [strong]I sent him a PM He answered
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  I Asked why he wouldn't name the offending ranch, He said he thought they were cool[em]YESTERDAY[/em]
  ' I followed with thomasstierney19 hours ago They banned you and you think they are "cool"???? Something doesn't sound right here.
  
  rawdude6818 hours agoIt was the guy who made a big deal about it and he is the one I think pushed the issue and made it more then what it was. The manager apologized several times and said it was policy. I am fine with it. I found a different place to go to and they are a gay nudist place and it's a nice place.
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  ShavedNudist27

  Nov 29, 2019

  [quote]Wow discrimination at its best. This is why I am anti Labels. We are all human no matter what gender or sexual preference. So many nudists and textiles are phobic against anything they think is outside the presumed norm. The norm should be to be yourself and polite to everyone. Treat each other with respect.[/quote]I agree! Well said.

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  Phil Turner

  Nov 29, 2019

  Post #1
  rawdude68
  Textile
  How do feel being anywhere nude knowing there gay men in the same nudist area as you?
  The reason for this question, I was at a Nudist Ranch and was having a great time and having great conversation with alit of the others. This guy came up to me in the pool and started a conversation with me. Very pleasant conversation. But he asked about my wife and if have any kids. I told him I have never been married and have no kids. He asked why. I told him I travel a lot with my job and that I am gay. He just took off and was telling everyone that I am gay. Then I was approached by a lady who was fully clothed and introduced herself as the Manager and asked me if I could get dressed and come to the office. I did I was asked and she told that she has been getting complaints that I have been disrupting other guest and asked me to leave. When I asked her how I was disrupting other guest she said will not tolerate my attitude and said you are banned from our facility and to please never try coming back. I felt disrespected, discriminated and I was angry.
  I am not flamboyant at all. I am very masculine and no one believes when I tell them that I am gay. It's just very disheartening knowing people are still homophobic.
  
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  You posted the above. You stirred up a lot of feelings. Everybody felt sorry for you. Everybody was pissed off at the ranch you refused to name.
  Now we know they reversed themselves and apologized. So you have no reason to be angry. Why did you post this non-event? Why should we believe any of this is true? One more thought, what is the name of the new place you found that makes you happy? OR is that a big secret as well?

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  Tom === Thomas S. Tierney

  Nov 30, 2019

  Phil, it seems you smell it as well!

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  ManOfWicklow

  Dec 3, 2019

  The OP started this fantasy thread for no other reason than to 'Stir The Pot' and should be completely ignored.

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  Tom === Thomas S. Tierney

  Dec 3, 2019

  [quote]One thing I've learned in life: There are always two sides to a story!I'm not saying this didn't happen, but in this day of political correctness, it's not likely. My guess is that this situation (if real) is being wrongly represented.To Thomas's point on post #22, there's more to this story.Don't be too quick to throw a business under the bus without all the facts.Businesses don't stay in business long if they make bad decisions that would harm their reputation.[/quote]
  
  [strong][strong][strong]TO FREELEE POST @28[/strong][/strong][/strong]
  [strong][strong][strong][strong][strong]That's the point I was making. The business is innocent. The stories are BS[/strong][/strong][/strong][/strong][/strong]

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  StevieLorna

  Dec 3, 2019

  He wouldnt be the first member to make up a totally bogus situation at a resort simply to provoke a reaction.

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  mako09

  Dec 4, 2019

  Ok, I will give you my honest experience.... There are LOTS of gay DUDES at nudist resorts, and many of them are married or with women. I have to admit, I'm probably on the more exhibitionist end of being a nudist, so I have drawn attention to myself having a PA and being completely shaved and had many of gay dudes see me naked, and yet I'm still a virgin in my ass... they can look all they want and that's the limit

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