Lone man

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  John

  Oct 30, 2022

  homeclothesfree wrote:[quote] This is exactly the kind of stuff that gives single men a bad name and makes most people groups women and venues get suspicious and inclined to think all single men are horn dogs.[/quote] Well, if men read this and say, "Hey! I want some of that, and it looks like nudist resorts are the place to get it," then you're right. But if this sort of thing happened at a clothed resort, nobody would bat an eye. In fact, some resorts cater to this sort of clientele. And, in those resorts, people make friends. And if there's "chemistry" between them, they act on it. I don't see why nudist resorts should be exempt from that, as long as the action is private and nobody else has to see it or participate in it. A nudist resort isn't a hot bed of sexual activity. Nor is it a monastery. It's just a place where people do what they always do, except without clothes.

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  EarlD

  Oct 30, 2022

  [quote]I don't see why nudist resorts should be exempt from that, as long as the action is private and nobody else has to see it or participate in it. [/quote] Because many women dont go to a nudist resort to get hit on by guys looking to get a piece.

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  StevieLorna

  Oct 31, 2022

  Woodsman you are correct that it could happen at a textile resort, but I think it would be even more unlikely a single man would meet a single lady at a textile resorts because they dont attract single people of either sex.

  But we are to believe a man in his 60s goes to a naturist club, finds a single lady (how rare are those?)

  Not only finds one, but finds one who thinks taking a guy in his 60s to bed would be an attractive idea

  And that he could, make love all evening.

  Im willing to put my money on they story being total BS and that the guy has never been to a naturist club in his life.

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  John

  Oct 31, 2022

  [quote] Im willing to put my money on they story being total BS and that the guy has never been to a naturist club in his life.[/quote] Well, you're both probably right that it was a fantasy. But I knew two people that met at a nudist event sponsored by an FKK group and got introduced to each other that way. They were both young, though. This was fifty years ago, and I don't know if they're still a couple, because I lost track of them. And I know of two other nudists who had known each other for a long time. One of them became a widow, but after a while, the guy (who was single) told her that he wanted a relationship. She agreed, and they became a couple for a while. But that again was a different situation, because they'd been friends for a long time. So "chemistry" can still happen, even though it doesn't usually play out the way people fantasize.

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  StevieLorna

  Nov 1, 2022

  People will always have a story or two, but the new to nudism pensioner fantasy of casual sex at naturist clubs wont be one of them.

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  EarlD

  Nov 1, 2022

  [quote] Well, you're both probably right that it was a fantasy. But I knew two people that met at a nudist event sponsored by an FKK group and got introduced to each other that way. They were both young, though. .[/quote] I for one wasnt saying relationships dont happen at nudist venues. Naturists arent asexual they have relationships and they have sex. It was more of the way it was presented like single man goes to nudist venue meets woman and immediately she is available for sex. Do casual hookups happen? yes but as others have suggested not the way this person depicts that sounds much more like the single male looking for sex at nudist venue fantasy.

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  gabare

  Nov 2, 2022

  2022 and still some nudist clubs are taboo to single male or they make the admission cost crazy $$ , here three ideas not just for nudist in utah but anywhere - google nudist travel clubs in your area or contact AANR for help locating one they travel as a group to landed clubs have house parties or rent out facilities that may have a pool . or form your own nudist travel club put a listing here or in a community paper . last find a male - gay nudist club/resort no rule says you have to be bi , gay , queer or other just be yourself it's no different than a coed club/resort other than all guys.

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• ME

  Member

  Nov 3, 2022

  I have not known that gay or bi guys are not discriminated in this state what so ever. Not easily found on the web but there are men only clubs here. The Club near ours certainly is open to all and men are still a 10-1 ratio. Utah might be like Iowa and the search needs a deeper dive to find what you are looking for. Press on brother.

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  Shawn

  Dec 3, 2022

  I can relate to that. I visited resorts for close to 20 years with my wife and after my divorce I wasn't allowed in because I'm now a "single man". They will give you a lot of reasons why we should be okay with being treated like a predator but in the end it is blatant discrimination. If there is a problem with a single man (or anyone else), it should be addressed with that person only. I know this is probably not a popular opinion but it is exactly how I feel as a single man and I know I'm not alone.

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