I am curious about nude males on beaches. I have been going to nude beaches on and off most of my life and I am straight. Recently I have been going at least 2 to 3 times a week by myself for the last 3 years to the same beach (my wife occasionally joins me as well).
I have tried to strike up conversations with others but it seems that I have spiders all over me. Not one has ever approached me and said hello.
Very few if any will engage in a conversation and when they do, they seem very introverted/reluctant/suspicious. I thought nudists were likeminded people who would gladly associate or engage with others.
Is it a fear that I am bi and after some action? Or it believed that 2 male nudists chatting are perceived as bi or something sexual? From experience on this site, a good proportion seem to have an agenda other nudism.
Is it a male thing, some sort of taboo or is that male nudists are loners because of public perception that all males are somewhat perverted and have a hidden agenda. Nudist couples do not seem to have a problem from what I have seen.
Id like to hear your thoughts.
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- ST
Sep 1, 2020We eat out a lot, its very rare to see a single man or woman eating in a restaurant alone.
Ive never went or wanted to go to the cinema by myself.
Nudist resorts must have something to attract single men that restaurants and cinemas dont
ReactReply - TD
Sep 1, 2020[quote]We eat out a lot, its very rare to see a single man or woman eating in a restaurant alone. Ive never went or wanted to go to the cinema by myself. Nudist resorts must have something to attract single men that restaurants and cinemas dont[/quote] But a lot of people go to restaurants with friends of the same gender. A group of 2 or more men together at a nudist resort would be just as unwelcome as one being there alone.ReactReply - STSep 1, 2020
My point was Woodmans comment about restaurants and cinemas was a nonsense comparison as single men would not make a dent in takings as its something they dont do.
The resorts and hotels weve been at, often have pairs of men (not in a relationship) sharing rooms. Its cost is the same for the rooms /apartments even if its single occupied.
ReactReply - STSep 2, 2020
I completely forgot that Americans are nomadic. No wonder you all have to do things as single men.
Makes a lot of sense now.
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