My wife won't get nude.

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• RA

  

  Ray

  Sep 26, 2020

  sometimes we have to decide what is most important.
  Marriage? or being nude?
  If wife does not approve and you go in your camper and stay at nudist place. If she finds out, I dont like chances of convincing her there was no sex.
  So maybe you can get some ideas on how to deceive her.. but is it worth it. That is the question.
  Maybe getting naked is more important than marriage. Not judging. But you may have to choose
  best of luck.

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• NU

  

  nudony

  Sep 26, 2020

  [quote]sometimes we have to decide what is most important. Marriage? or being nude?[/quote] It can work the other way around too. When I met my wife, she had some strong negative feelings about social nudism. But she was respectful of my life style and was ok with me going to Mazo Beach every summer.That's the first step. If a wife has no respect for her husband's philosophy of nudism...well you've got your work cut out for you. After Mazo Beach got closed and we got married (preceded by an unfortunate bad experience in St Martin), she saw how much I missed nudism. And she felt empathy towards it. She knew I needed her to come to the resort with me, even if it meant her staying covered; and so she decided that being "uncomfortable" being around naked people for a day was worth it if it was going to make me happy.Which goes to my point that it can also be the other way around: a wife can also decide whether being "uncomfortable" for a little while can be more important to the marriage than sticking to her "anti-nudist" ways.Since that initial "loving and selfless gesture of goodwill", my wife has seen how profoundly happy, fun and relaxed I am in a nudist environment; which led to her decision to be naked with me. As a matter of fact she likes how we are when we're naked together so much that she plans nudist outings herself, and has embraced being socially naked all day with me; because she knows it contributes greatly to our marital harmony. Nudism is not her first choice (as she often likes to remind me), but the fact that we have fun and relaxing times naked together is enough to make nudism a priority for her. I'm not saying someone's wife is uncaring or callous if she totally refuses to participate in social nudity. For a woman, many personal factors can play into it. I'm just saying that the choice can go both ways.

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• GI

  

  Gilan

  Oct 6, 2020

  I've been married multiple times and if she isn't into nudism you are very unlikely to live a happy nudist life. When I was married I just forgot about being a nudist because it just wasn't going to happen. If you have to sneak away to be a nudist then you are not being fair to yourself or to her. sorry to say but you will have to just forget about nudism or get divorced or live a lie. The truth isn't always easy.

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• TD

  

  Tom D

  Oct 6, 2020

  [quote]I've been married multiple times and if she isn't into nudism you are very unlikely to live a happy nudist life. When I was married I just forgot about being a nudist because it just wasn't going to happen. If you have to sneak away to be a nudist then you are not being fair to yourself or to her. sorry to say but you will have to just forget about nudism or get divorced or live a lie. The truth isn't always easy.[/quote] There are wives who are OK with their husband's nudity even though they choose not to participate. Mine is.

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• BR

  

  Brett Rapley

  Oct 25, 2020

  [quote]sometimes we have to decide what is most important. Marriage? or being nude? If wife does not approve and you go in your camper and stay at nudist place. If she finds out, I dont like chances of convincing her there was no sex. So maybe you can get some ideas on how to deceive her.. but is it worth it. That is the question. Maybe getting naked is more important than marriage. Not judging. But you may have to choose best of luck.[/quote] Mind if I ask why some people are assuming this guy would be going there for sex, when that is not even mentioned in his question/thread ? If being naked is something someone wants to do, that is their choice, married or not ! Don't assume naturism has anything to do with sex, it doesn't ! It's also about compromise from both people, the wife may not like being naked herself, but if her husband does, then that is his choice. Why do so many people have to assume that being naked equates to it being sexual ? Even in a marriage or long term relationship, couples have things they like to do alone and separate from each other, which is perfectly normal. Regardless of what one or the other person feels, that does not give them the right to control the choice of their partner.

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• FU

  

  FullSun

  Oct 25, 2020

  bravobr said: [quote]Mind if I ask why some people are assuming this guy would be going there for sex, when that is not even mentioned in his question/thread ?[/quote]
  You might want to read what you are commenting on. No one ever said anything like that. They were just saying that if the wife equates nudity with sex it might be hard to convince her a visit it a nudist place want for sex.

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