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Posted Feb 15, 2020

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Rex
RexOriginal Poster
Feb 15, 2020

I consider my self a straight male, with a wonderful nudist partner. I find myself becoming aroused when I see another male erect. We were walking on the beach when a guy walking towards us started to get erect. by the time he reached us he w as fully erect. I became erect looking at him. He stopped for a quick chat, we where admiring each other and exchanging pleasantries then we both went on our way. My partner asked me about it, but I couldn't explain it.

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  • ST
    StevieLorna
    StevieLorna
    Feb 16, 2020

    Bait

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  • JI
    Jim
    Jim
    Feb 20, 2020

    Yea. It happens. Who cares, I think seeing it makes you realize you have a penis that can do that too. Maybe you like it or maybe its just a commonality. An erection on its face does not have to be sexual

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  • ME
    Member
    Feb 20, 2020

    No need to go into a frenzy about it. Walking along a beach with your partner is very sensuous and charged with eroticism--feeling the sun and breezes all over your body, out there naked for the world to see. Seeing another guy's penis in the process of becoming erect as you get closer can, understandably, trigger a release of your own erotic sensations. Erections do occur sometimes when least expected (or wanted). It happens naturally at times, to all of us; no need to make it something bigger than it is.

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  • HA
    hairyballs2
    hairyballs2
    Feb 20, 2020

    boners are like yawns, you see one guy do it, you have too. its like your cock thinks you may be missing something

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  • SA
    Stone Andy
    Stone Andy
    Feb 20, 2020

    Ah, we drive ourselves crazy with all the prefixed sexuality. There is only one sexuality for men and it's male; the rest is posturing to the environment. As men, sexuality is social and primal, a wave vibrating through a tribe or community. Like the heightened awareness from hearing a threatening scowl or rumbling thunder, arousal is a shared survival instinct. Should you not get a contagious boner, see a doctor about your circulatory health. In the meantime, know that a popping a sudden boner says you are male, you are alive, and it's all good.

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  • SE
    Sebastien
    Feb 20, 2020

    Very true! Its natural.

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  • TC
    Terry C
    Terry C
    Feb 21, 2020

    We males relate to other males when nude, look8ng at male genitals turns us on in a typical manly competitive manner. Its biological! It does not mean you desire sex with another male, unless you truly have hidden homosexual desires. Only you can determine that depending upon your thoughts at that time.
    Hickguy

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  • KE
    kev
    kev
    Feb 21, 2020

    Nothing wrong with looking at another guy and wondering what it would be like.

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  • ST
    StevieLorna
    StevieLorna
    Feb 28, 2020

    How do you get so many idiots in the one place.

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  • HO
    HotHarleyCouple
    HotHarleyCouple
    Feb 28, 2020
    [quote]How do you get so many idiots in the one place.[/quote] We ask ourselves that same exact question Steve , every time you that open your mouth, with some lame comment.
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  • ST
    StevieLorna
    StevieLorna
    Feb 29, 2020

    The moron is back

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  • EA
    EarlD
    EarlD
    Feb 29, 2020
    [quote]A cynical person would think there is some sort of agenda here to discourage nudism by implying its a sexual experience, which it isn't. Its happening so often with naturism.[/quote] It would be understandable to thing that based the these overtly sexual questions and comments
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    Terry C
    Terry C
    Mar 5, 2020

    Agree. Our penises have a mind of their own at times.

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  • RA
    Ray
    Ray
    May 21, 2020

    Mysel and other male friends also noticed this. But when we discussed in detail when and how ofter.. We realised it was alwys when we were walking with our wives/girlfriends, We realised it was that our wifves/G were looking at another guys hard cock and enjoying it, and getting a bit turned on that was getting us aroused. We decided next time it happened to ask our partner if she enjoyed see other nude cocks erect on the beach. They all said they had, which usually let to a really hot sex session while talking about it and imaginations running wild.

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  • JE
    John English
    John English
    May 21, 2020

    My wife is a non nudsts but she goes to the club with me a few times a summer she stays dressed I asked her if it bothered her seeing the nude men she said no kind of liked it

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  • TR
    Truckingnude
    Truckingnude
    May 23, 2020

    I agree...it's SO NATURAL, at times. Last summer, I was chatting with another guy at a nudist resort, and before I realized it, I was dripping pre cum, and he said...."you must like looking at my cock"....to which I told him I did, as he too, had a nice shaved cock. He then asked me if he could touch mine, and I allowed him to, and I did his. The rest....is another story, but it's the first time I've ever just come out, and did that at a nudist club, with just another guy, and I must say, it was an enjoyable experience.

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    Truckingnude
    Truckingnude
    May 23, 2020

    I agree...it's SO NATURAL, at times. Last summer, I was chatting with another guy at a nudist resort, and before I realized it, I was dripping pre cum, and he said...."you must like looking at my cock"....to which I told him I did, as he too, had a nice shaved cock. He then asked me if he could touch mine, and I allowed him to, and I did his. The rest....is another story, but it's the first time I've ever just come out, and did that at a nudist club, with just another guy, and I must say, it was an enjoyable experience.

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  • GU
    Guy
    Guy
    May 23, 2020

    Or we could look at it like animals act. Ever watch male animals? They tend to try to so dominance over the other. Just a thought...... but who knows.

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  • SM
    SmoothHouston78
    SmoothHouston78
    Jun 3, 2020

    Erections are contagious, like yawns as someones earlier reply mentioned. There have been many times either in the gym steam room or nude resorts I will do my kegel training and notice other penises growing as well. I think its a primal instinct when a male sees a penis growing or fully erect, yours stands up too. Nothing wrong with admiring and asking questions and complimenting. On cam chat I will often become erect without touching if my friend I am chatting with becomes erect. Good bonding to be free and natural

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    Mike
    Mike
    Jun 3, 2020

    I still don't quite understand the idea that nudism must be 100% nonsexual. I'm not saying we all need to jump into piles and fuck all the time but why is the only option to be totally neutered?

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  • JO
    Jonathan
    Jonathan
    Jun 3, 2020
    [quote]I still don't quite understand the idea that nudism must be 100% nonsexual. I'm not saying we all need to jump into piles and fuck all the time but why is the only option to be totally neutered?[/quote] In the sense that nudism isn't about sex, then it's as non-sexual as any other everyday activity. Swimming is non-sexual, shopping is non-sexual, playing golf, driving, eating lunch, sunbathing... But at the same time, I don't think it should artificially exclude any sexual matter just because "we're nudists" - for example, if I'm with my hypothetical girlfriend, sunbathing on a beach, nude, I'm not going to deliberately go out of my way to avoid finding her attractive or not give her a kiss just because we're "being nudist". But again, that same logic would apply in any clothed situation too, I wouldn't stop finding her attractive because we're shopping and its wrong to think of her in "that way" while we're shopping. Similarly, if I meet a [subjectively] attractive woman whilst we're nude, I'm not going to somehow make myself not notice it because we're in a nudist environment, I'd notice, but it's how you react, which should be the same whether you're nude or not. Enjoying nudism isn't about sex or sexuality in itself, but I don't think there's a need to be over-sensitive about it either. Not sure that makes sense much as I write it, I hope you can see what I'm trying to say though.
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  • ME
    Member
    Jun 4, 2020
    [quote]I agree...it's SO NATURAL, at times. Last summer, I was chatting with another guy at a nudist resort, and before I realized it, I was dripping pre cum, and he said...."you must like looking at my cock"....to which I told him I did, as he too, had a nice shaved cock. He then asked me if he could touch mine, and I allowed him to, and I did his. The rest....is another story, but it's the first time I've ever just come out, and did that at a nudist club, with just another guy, and I must say, it was an enjoyable experience.[/quote] Sounds like fun!
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  • ZE
    Zeke
    Zeke
    Jun 5, 2020

    So now 4 months from when this was first posted, the originator of this topic has gone from bi-curious to bisexual. So now he doesn't consider himself straight as he stated he was so his arousal as he stated in his post may have been more of himself not wanting to accept that he has, as he states now, interest in males. And as many guys go thru life, desires change for various reasons.

    I've witness many times guys getting aroused and then others around get that way also but also sometimes guys get totally annoyed or even mad at those individuals. Nudity as many have stated, is sexuality charged but not for everyone. Going to a public nudity place does nothing for me sexually. It maybe that I'm nude a good deal of my time, that seen another nude body is that, a nude body. Yes, I've seen other guys get semi and almost erect in public (mostly at nude yoga glasses) but it take a lot more to get my 'fella' going. Would I let another guy 'touch' me in a public place? That would not be something I'd even respond to. And yes it has happen, more than I can count. I know been an uc male, does attract their attention but I don't give it a second thought when asked. I kindly respond that that kind of activity is not welcome in public and that I'm very flattered for the compliment. And then I leave.

    I've had wife ask sometimes, why a guy would walk around with a boner? This is at nude beaches we've been to. She has eyes like I do. I really don't have a respond since I have no idea why someone would, I don't. I usually reply... well he's trying to impress someone I guess. She is like, "I don't get it"... "I agree" is my reply. We've walked the beach together and I do alone also, it has happen some guys sitting there get an erection as we approach, so I then have to think is it because of me, of her or us? I know when i walk around alone that it's only me the answer. Alone on the walk back I've actually stopped to talk to some, and in about 3/4 cases, guys does state that 'he liked what he saw'. Some go as far as stating, like to see your's in action or even can I touch it. Again seldom do I get semi or hard with the talk, I just wonder, is the sex they are satisfying their need?

    I been in situations where a guy goes to showing his semi or hard, at resorts, or at gym saunas or showers where the other guy totally express his displeasure about it, some have even cus guy out and they leave. I've had some comment then something to that fact "guess he's not that type" or "what's his problem?". Do not take it that every guy is welcoming to seeing a penis hard or semi, there are places and times when those type of interest should be kept private and not subject to desires that are not welcome by all.

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  • KY
    kynudedude03
    kynudedude03
    Jun 5, 2020

    bi-curious/bi-sexual=confused gay man or if I believe in bi-sexuality I believe in Santa Clause

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