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  WindyCityNkd

  Jun 7, 2020

  Why do you feel you have to explain it?

  Not every sexual urge or erection is readily explainable. Sometimes it just happens. If you're worried about your sexual orientation, you should stop. I think it is more important to know who you are and what arouses you than to label yourself for the benefit of others.

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  Stone Andy

  Jun 7, 2020

  [quote]Sexuality often isn't either/or. Don't assume your personal experience is universal.[/quote] You are correct. There is only one male sexuality: masculine. All the pronouns and labels help others define men, but we continue to adapt to our environment and evolve despite that.

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  jim

  Jul 1, 2020

  YEA I LIKE LOOKING AT A HARD ON A MAN I WAS WALKING DOWN THE BEACH IN NAVARRA FL NUDE AND MET A COUPLE COMMING TOWARD ME THAT WERE NUDE SHE WAS HOT AND HE GOT HARD AND SO DID I.I WAS THINKING ABOUT WHAT IT WOULD BE LIKE TO GO DOWN ON BOTH OF THEM BUT I STILL WONDER HOW HIS HARD WOULD FEEL LIKE IN MY MOUTH.

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  Paul

  Jul 12, 2020

  Sexual identity and what we do sexually are not necessarily the same. Also, males are more visual and are often aroused by what they see. For example, straight porn which is generally not made for women. It's made for straight men, however, it's full of erect penises and cum shots. Do straight men just avoid looking at that and just at the women? If so why not just watch porn with women only? Men need to relax and know who they are and not be so afraid of being labelled weak because they like seeing an erect penis. Erections are a beautiful thing and a very important part of being male.

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  Chrispy1937

  Jul 12, 2020

  I do wonder about the term "bi curious". Is it a straight guy who wants to know about being bidexual or gay or a guy with the beginnings of being bisexual and wanting to know and experience more of a gay life. I think we men, as we get older, look for more varied and adventurous sex and move along the scale of Hetero to Homo towards the latter. If a nude man walks towards me with an erect cock my thoughts would turn to to what it would be like to have sex with him and so I would have an erection too.
  My definition of Bi Curious is a straight man who wants sex with another man, and who has not tried it yet or has had sex with another man but does not want to admit it

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• BR

  

  Brett Rapley

  Jul 13, 2020

  [quote]Bait[/quote] Don't comment unless you have something nice or decent to say ! What this gentleman experienced is perfectly normal, it does happen on occasion, and it means nothing more than it should do !! Don't read more into it that you think you need to. A visual stimulus, even of another guy becoming erect, does not mean it's a prelude to anything sexual.

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• BR

  

  Brett Rapley

  Jul 13, 2020

  [quote]How do you get so many idiots in the one place.[/quote] Your here being a complete idiot ! Or don't you get masculinity without the idea of sex having to be involved ? It's not as simple as you are making it out to be. Any guy can be as "straight" as he likes, but seeing another cock becoming erect is as someone put it, a primal thing, competitive even, which is NORMAL HUMAN NATURE. Get the hell over yourself or shut up, please !

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• BR

  

  Brett Rapley

  Jul 13, 2020

  [quote]How do you get so many idiots in the one place. We ask ourselves that same exact question Steve , every time you that open your mouth, with some lame comment.[/quote] You two can keep your stupid opinions to yourselves ! If you 2 think your the epitome of what nudity/naturism is, then you are sadly mistaken.

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• BR

  

  Brett Rapley

  Jul 13, 2020

  [quote]A cynical person would think there is some sort of agenda here to discourage nudism by implying its a sexual experience, which it isn't. Its happening so often with naturism. It would be understandable to thing that based the these overtly sexual questions and comments[/quote] In what way is or are the question or answers sexual ? They are not ! Reading more into it than you need to again.

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• BR

  

  Brett Rapley

  Jul 13, 2020

  [quote]I still don't quite understand the idea that nudism must be 100% nonsexual. I'm not saying we all need to jump into piles and fuck all the time but why is the only option to be totally neutered?[/quote] Spend enough time on here and you will come across the Caped Crusaders that automatically assume any single erection means the guy want's sex, whether they are straight, gay, bi or whatever ! Truth be known, nudism is not, non-sexual ! It simply boils down to people respecting each other and the SO CALLED boundaries that are expected. There are those on here that think everyone is here for a fuck fest, when it's most certainly not the case. These types of people, think they are the morality police and that they have the right to ASSUME more than most of them are entitled to ! In some cases it may be jealousy that makes them like this, or it could be the simple fact that they are incapable of interacting with others on a level that is above who they are.

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• BR

  

  Brett Rapley

  Jul 13, 2020

  [quote]I still don't quite understand the idea that nudism must be 100% nonsexual. I'm not saying we all need to jump into piles and fuck all the time but why is the only option to be totally neutered? In the sense that nudism isn't about sex, then it's as non-sexual as any other everyday activity. Swimming is non-sexual, shopping is non-sexual, playing golf, driving, eating lunch, sunbathing... But at the same time, I don't think it should artificially exclude any sexual matter just because "we're nudists" - for example, if I'm with my hypothetical girlfriend, sunbathing on a beach, nude, I'm not going to deliberately go out of my way to avoid finding her attractive or not give her a kiss just because we're "being nudist". But again, that same logic would apply in any clothed situation too, I wouldn't stop finding her attractive because we're shopping and its wrong to think of her in "that way" while we're shopping. Similarly, if I meet a [subjectively] attractive woman whilst we're nude, I'm not going to somehow make myself not notice it because we're in a nudist environment, I'd notice, but it's how you react, which should be the same whether you're nude or not. Enjoying nudism isn't about sex or sexuality in itself, but I don't think there's a need to be over-sensitive about it either. Not sure that makes sense much as I write it, I hope you can see what I'm trying to say though.[/quote] What an excellent answer. I applaud you sir, for putting it into words that are easily understood. Not that some on here won't try and call you out on your superb words.

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• BR

  

  Brett Rapley

  Jul 13, 2020

  [quote]bi-curious/bi-sexual=confused gay man or if I believe in bi-sexuality I believe in Santa Clause[/quote] Why do you assume it's as simple as black and white ? We all know humans are complex beings, whether Bi-curious or then deciding Bi-sexual, that's his decision, no one else's, it has nothing to do with actual labels. If this gentleman has come to the conclusion that he is actually bi-sexual, so what !!! It does not make him a "confused gay man". We all know that there are guys and women that like both sexes sexually, it's not a problem and should never be. It's just a part of what makes that person who they are, nothing more.

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• AL

  

  Alheath

  Jul 14, 2020

  Wise words.

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• LE

  

  Leo

  Jul 15, 2020

  [quote]boners are like yawns, you see one guy do it, you have too. its like your cock thinks you may be missing something[/quote] Its true its part of the animal kingdom and mating

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  StevieLorna

  Jul 19, 2020

  [quote]I am the same, straight as straight can be, but an erection gets me aroused, too. Now, here is the interesting part .... my wife has actually encouraged me to talk to guys with erections at beaches, as she derives some level of pleasure out of watching two guys, pretending to be oblivious about the obvious, discussed spirts and cars, or whatever. Does this makes sense? Do women enjoy this more than we know? As for the other part, getting aroused when somebody else is would be quite normal, wouldn't it? It does not mean that we have an interest in going for it, it merely means that we can acknowledge what nature has brought upon us![/quote]
  
  I doubt the validity of this story.
  
  According to your profile your wife isnt a nudist.

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  StevieLorna

  Jul 19, 2020

  And she gets her kicks from seeing you chat to erections?

  Interesting kink.

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  KiK / WICKR: cumpig85 (yeah my u

  Jul 21, 2020

  I agree 100% I enjoy the feeling of my penis being hard but not feeling sexual about it.

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  KiK / WICKR: cumpig85 (yeah my u

  Jul 21, 2020

  I agree 100% I enjoy the feeling of my penis being hard but not feeling sexual about it.

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• AU

  

  AustinJohn

  Jul 25, 2020

  Me too and had no idea what was going on. Other friends teased me since I got hard and got hairy before them. Yeah what a mess the first few times were when no idea why.

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• ME

  Member

  Aug 18, 2020

  I can agree with all of that

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• ME

  Member

  Aug 18, 2020

  Ive always enjoyed seeing other men naked. Im a straight guy who is married but I still like to think there might be a chance that one day......

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• ME

  Member

  Aug 27, 2020

  I call myself curious I guess because I'm not attracted to men in anyway other than I found I got on better with them from young but also that I enjoyed seeing others erect and I have always become easily aroused with other men and usually when and where least expected, I must admit I even became erect swimming my my uncle, textile swimming!

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• JO

  

  John

  Aug 27, 2020

  [quote] I must admit I even became erect swimming my my uncle, textile swimming![/quote] Assuming that it wasn't because your uncle wasn't turning you on, I think it's because any sort of new or pleasurable sensation on your penis often brings men to erection. It can even be a cool breeze or the sun suddenly coming out on a sunny day. I wish that was something that more women, and more men who are less sensitive to that sort of stimulation, would understand. As Freud said, "Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar." Likewise, sometimes an erection is just an erection. Women with sensitive nipples experience the same thing. Sometimes it means they're turned on, sometimes it just means that their nips are cold. Since nips are smaller then penises, the condition isn't as conspicuous, and since we often don't see women in such various stages of arousal, it isn't seen as such an issue.

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  lonelyinoklahoma

  Aug 30, 2020

  I like your saying about erections. Lol

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