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MikeOriginal Poster
Feb 9, 2020I just read through the comments on a topic titled "This Sites Culture."
Many commenters expressed negative feelings about people who posted naked body images with no faces. Others referred to people who post content they considered sexual as "bad."
Well, my feelings on this topic may offend some. But, oh well, here goes:
One of my issues with the nudist/naturist community is how much they seem to like to sex shame. Sex-shaming is, after all, just another form of body-shaming. I wrote some about this in a recent blog post titled [url][link]/link/4e54463aa4d7bfa7/aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubmFrZWR1bmFzaGFtZWQub3JnL3Bvc3QvY29uc3RydWN0aXZlLXdheXMtdG8tY2VsZWJyYXRlLWFuZC1wcm9tb3RlLW51ZGlzbQ%3D%3D[/link]Constructive Ways to Celebrate and Promote Nudism[/url].
Sure nudism isn't about sex. Nudity and sex are, however, linked in multiple ways. Furthermore, there is nothing wrong with that. And, one thing is certain: if we accepted and embraced the notion that humans are sexual creatures then nude-shaming would be a thing of the past. Sex-shaming others actually perpetuates naked-shaming.
As to why some people chose to NOT post photos that include their faces here is a fact: Some people simply cannot risk doing that. I am one of those. In my day job, I am somewhat of a public figure and if my naked body with face was out on the Internet my career would be over. That is a sad statement about the culture we live in. But, it is a fact. And, IMO, y'all who are on the "others are not nudists the way *I* am a nudist so they are bad" bandwagon are living in a paradigm that is not really much different than the modern culture which says your nudism is bad. Shaming others for expressing their nakedness/sexuality differently than you do is no different than the people who would shame you for being a nudist. You can't have it both ways.
Live and let live. And, treat others as you would like to be treated. Then, the culture here will be just fine.
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- MEMemberMay 10, 2020[quote]Sunluver101; Someone did report that one and it changed twice. Apparently some do know how to effectively report. I have not been able to either. Maybe they can share how they do it.[/quote] It would take a group of real nudist members who come together, coordinate, and keep reporting until either the frauds are banned or the real nudist members are. One person here or there reporting abusers accomplishes absolutely nothing. I reported to one mod with the result that the mod told me that he had to go back to watching the room and then turned off his PM so that I could no longer say anything to him. I also reported the problem to TT2 with no response or reply. Mods actually have very little authority here and it is obvious that they are not trusted due to abuse of power by a few. The message is clear: If people want a true nudist site, then they need to speak up as one voice and be willing to pay a price for their beliefs. Otherwise, let the perverts and frauds overrun this site as they are doing now.ReactReply
- MEMemberMay 30, 2020
Wow !!!
Beautiful explanation. As true nudists it doesn't even come to our minds even once how the other persons look like. We respect each other and not even see others as being nude. It's just OK. What we are more interested is in being friends or knowing the other person. Respecting one another. Nude not even comes to mind.ReactReply

