Hubby wanting others to see Me Nude

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• MA

  

  macnude

  Oct 14, 2012

  "IS IT GOOD THOUGHT FOR WANTING OTHER MALES / FEMALES SEE WIFE NAKED ???
  This thought does comes in my mind often, that is it just a bad thought of my mind thinking that it would be cool for letting my wife to be nude seen by other males or maybe females too if they like ???? I do, would like her to be seen. Stated in this manner, it sounds more like some sort of exhibitionism by transference rather than nudism."  I feel good when people eye and comment on the car which I drive, however, the car is a possession, not a wife to be put on display.To particpate in nudism for the purpose of displaying your wife is contrary to the thinking of nudists everywhere.

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• OV

  

  overexposed

  Oct 17, 2012

  Im very new here and was browsing through all of the sections and ended up here... saw youre question and thought.. hm ... Ladies are all beautiful in every shape and size, younger or older.
  
  As a nudist, we all do take a look see and only see the beauty in everyone... :)
  

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• WO

  

  womannudista

  Oct 22, 2012

  [quote]i believe we are nudist...if i want to see excited photos or mens or womens...there are another places...the nudism is for be freedom[/quote]

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• CO

  

  Curt, or Cowboy

  Oct 22, 2012

  Clothed or not, if I wasn't proud to be seen with the lady, I wouldn't be with her at all, so I find the criteria irrelevant.
  
  She can't help it if she's made that way,
  she's not to blame if they look her way,
  she ain't really tryin' to cause a scene,
  it just comes naturally, aw, the girl can't help it.
  
  Down on the corner, by the traffic light,
  everybody's lookin', as she goes by,
  they turn their heads and they, watch her till she's gone.
  
  Lord have mercy, Baby's got her blue jeans on!
  Heaven help us, baby's got her blue jeans on!

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• WO

  

  womannudista

  Oct 26, 2012

  [quote]I'm not saying my wife is hairy, but when I saw her naked on our wedding night, I thought I'd married a chimp.[/quote]and what do yo think she think about?
  
  jejeje
  

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• DE

  

  DesertRat

  Nov 2, 2012

  Nudism isn't about seeing nude people; it's about being confortable and enjoying the company of people who feel the same way about nudism as you do.

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• CD

  

  Cheri Donna Dawson

  Nov 2, 2012

  Nudism is NOT about seeing or being seen!!!
  
  Naked is not nude per the dictionary.  Naked has a sense of vulnerability.  Nude is just unclothed.
  
  

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• ME

  Member

  Nov 3, 2012

  [quote]Hii...
  
  
  I just wanted to curiously ask something to the women also. Since its related to ladies as well.......
  
  I am been married since 1 year now. I have nice n caring husband. He is more open to nudism as compared to myself. We do stay naked at home since we are the only ones at home.There is a question coming into my mind..
  
  IS IT GOOD THOUGHT FOR MY HUBBY WANTING OTHER MALES / FEMALES SEE ME NAKED ???
  iIs it just a bad thought of his mind thinking that it would be cool for letting me to be nude seen by other males or maybe females too if they like ????
  Pls comment
  
  [/quote]If you aren't comfortable say no.  There is that chance that its 'exhibitionism by transference rather than nudism'.
  I'd want to be sure that your husbands intent isn't a sexual one rather than a freedom and enjoyment one.
  I think some people do get it confused.  Or see it as an opportunity.
  
  

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• DE

  

  Dean

  Nov 11, 2012

  hi there,
  
  There is nothing wronge with your hubby wanting others to see you, it sounds like he is very proud of you and want to show you off to everyone. If you are fine with others seeing you nude then i don't see why you shouldn't after all we are all nudists and share the same lov for the lifestyle. i on't care who see me or my wife nude as long as they are true nudists and not just another pervert.
  
  So i say go for it why hide.

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• CL

  

  cloudy

  Nov 13, 2012

  Sometimes it's not that the hubby wants others to see his wife naked, it's that's he proud. Being naked is a fine feeling with the sun and wind and all. But, it's also an attitude. The attitude that I am my own person and I feel comfortable with myself. True nudist has nothing to do with sex. Unfortunately, there are pervs  that will ooggle everyone without cloths. Just walk on by.  I, personally, am more impressed with the persons attitude that their body.
  

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• CO

  

  Curt, or Cowboy

  Nov 13, 2012

  [quote]Sometimes it's not that the hubby wants others to see his wife naked, it's that's he proud. [/quote]Referring to post #8 above..........
  ;)

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• DO

  

  doorbundle

  Nov 24, 2012

  i think it is something that should be a mutual decision for it to be healthy for a married couples relationship. if only one partner wants to show off the other then it will lead to future issues.

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• LI

  

  lifeisocoolcplOriginal Poster

  Nov 26, 2012

  [quote]It's probably best all around that instead of asking us what we think, that you tell us what answer you would prefer to give him and together we will formulate some sort of response that he will have to at least grudgingly accept. That is really what you are seeking, isn't it?
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  What it meant ? dint really got you. can you please explain....if you dont mind
  

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• DW

  

  Dario Western

  Nov 26, 2012

  Your body belongs to YOU, not your husband.  If you don't want other people other than your husband and gynaecologist to see you nude, tell him straight up so you both know where you stand on the issue.
  
  You are not a toy or a piece of meat, you are a human being in your own right.  If you want to go nude in public and be seen nude by other people then do so because it's your own choice, not to appease your husband.
  
  

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• TE

  

  Terry

  Nov 27, 2012

  [quote]Hii...
  
  
  I just wanted to curiously ask something to the women also. Since its related to ladies as well.......
  
  I am been married since 1 year now. I have nice n caring husband. He is more open to nudism as compared to myself. We do stay naked at home since we are the only ones at home.There is a question coming into my mind..
  
  IS IT GOOD THOUGHT FOR MY HUBBY WANTING OTHER MALES / FEMALES SEE ME NAKED ???
  iIs it just a bad thought of his mind thinking that it would be cool for letting me to be nude seen by other males or maybe females too if they like ????
  Pls comment
  
  
  [/quote]
  Being from India some of your meaning may be getting lost in translation...Its good that your husband wants other to see you in that he's proud of you and likes to confirm you're attractive. I never mind other men seeing my wife, smiling, saying hello, being friendly and confirming she's an attractive woman ... naked or clothed.If he's seeking to put you on display so others can voyeur you then that wouldn't be right. He may also be trying to get you out and show you that social nudism isn't wrong and being seen isn't the big deal its sometime perceived to be. Believe me, when you get out in a public nudist setting there's nothing that special about everyone. We're all very ordinary with a mix of people we all see anywhere including a shopping mall. Males/females will see you and treat you like anyone else they meet in any social situation.

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• LI

  

  lifeisocoolcplOriginal Poster

  Nov 29, 2012

  [quote][quote]Hii...
  
  
  I just wanted to curiously ask something to the women also. Since its related to ladies as well.......
  
  I am been married since 1 year now. I have nice n caring husband. He is more open to nudism as compared to myself. We do stay naked at home since we are the only ones at home.There is a question coming into my mind..
  
  IS IT GOOD THOUGHT FOR MY HUBBY WANTING OTHER MALES / FEMALES SEE ME NAKED ???
  iIs it just a bad thought of his mind thinking that it would be cool for letting me to be nude seen by other males or maybe females too if they like ????
  Pls comment
  
  
  [/quote]
  Being from India some of your meaning may be getting lost in translation...Its good that your husband wants other to see you in that he's proud of you and likes to confirm you're attractive. I never mind other men seeing my wife, smiling, saying hello, being friendly and confirming she's an attractive woman ... naked or clothed.If he's seeking to put you on display so others can voyeur you then that wouldn't be right. He may also be trying to get you out and show you that social nudism isn't wrong and being seen isn't the big deal its sometime perceived to be. Believe me, when you get out in a public nudist setting there's nothing that special about everyone. We're all very ordinary with a mix of people we all see anywhere including a shopping mall. Males/females will see you and treat you like anyone else they meet in any social situation.[/quote]
  
  Hii There...
  Appreciate your comment.. I do agree with you for most of the part you said in your comment.
  Thanks

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• LI

  

  lifeisocoolcplOriginal Poster

  Dec 13, 2012

  Hello fellow Nudists !!!
  
  Excited to get on here again n putting down my new experience n sharing it with all you like minded people. I was told by my hubby that i have been let seen nude to some stranger. Hubby later on told me about it. Earlier i was nervous n dint knew how to react to it. But when he said that, the guy who saw me was being nice n dint looked like any perv. So that gave me little comfortable. I am unable to say but i dint really felt bad about it... :)

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• AR

  

  artmodel1967

  Dec 13, 2012

  Hi,
  
  Don't see anything wrong with a husband wanting others to see their wife nude, after all if we are real nudists others see us, we see them. Also you should take it as a compliment that he thinks you are worth seeing!
  
  I work as a nude model so am used to people seeing me, even though they are not nudist but just artists or students, there is nothing wrong with a naked body, being seen by others or having others see you. We really arn't all that different and no one has the perfect body so no need to be body conscious
  

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• NU

  

  NudistsCouple1969

  Jan 1, 2013

  True nudists is a great way of life everyone should try so you will have others see you if thats what you want

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• DE

  

  DesertRat

  Jan 1, 2013

  It's difficult to tell what your husband's real motives are. You're going to have to figure that out for your self. If you ask him you might not get the real answer. It's possible that he fully doesn't understand his motives. There are several possibilities that I can think of and probably more that I can't come up with.
  
  One; your husband is very proud of you and wants everyone to be appreciative of your beautiful body.
  
  Two; your husband wants to show off what he has that others don't, just to make others jealous.
  
  Three; your hubby wants you to be more comfortable as a social nudist so, the more people who see you nude, the more comfortable you become with the nudist experience. This would lead to a fuller social nudist life style.
  
  Four; it may be a combination of two of these or maybe all three.

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• LI

  

  lifeisocoolcplOriginal Poster

  Jan 3, 2013

  [quote]It's difficult to tell what your husband's real motives are. You're going to have to figure that out for your self. If you ask him you might not get the real answer. It's possible that he fully doesn't understand his motives. There are several possibilities that I can think of and probably more that I can't come up with.
  
  One; your husband is very proud of you and wants everyone to be appreciative of your beautiful body.
  
  Two; your husband wants to show off what he has that others don't, just to make others jealous.
  
  Three; your hubby wants you to be more comfortable as a social nudist so, the more people who see you nude, the more comfortable you become with the nudist experience. This would lead to a fuller social nudist life style.
  
  Four; it may be a combination of two of these or maybe all three.[/quote]
  
  Hii Desert... by reading your comment it made me feel nice. i would say most of the part what you said is true. I would accept that my hubby does finds me good looking and attractive. He often makes good comments about my naked body too.

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• DE

  

  DesertRat

  Jan 3, 2013

  [quote]Hii Desert... by reading your comment it made me feel nice. i would say most of the part what you said is true. I would accept that my hubby does finds me good looking and attractive. He often makes good comments about my naked body too.[/quote]
  
  Thank you. It's always nice to know that you've made someone feel good about themselves.
  
  My wife and I have been 42 years and I make it a point to compliment her whenever she's nude. She acts like she thinks I'm crazy but I know that she appreciates it. Personally I also like for others to see her nude. My reason for this is that she does have some personal image problems but other people just don't see it and they treat her just like anyone else. If I, and everyone else, cannot see any problem, then why should she?
  
  I tell her that her image problem is caused by having just too many birthdays. She laughs and tends to accept this.

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• LI

  

  lifeisocoolcplOriginal Poster

  Jan 7, 2013

  [quote][quote]Hii Desert... by reading your comment it made me feel nice. i would say most of the part what you said is true. I would accept that my hubby does finds me good looking and attractive. He often makes good comments about my naked body too.[/quote]
  
  Thank you. It's always nice to know that you've made someone feel good about themselves.
  
  My wife and I have been 42 years and I make it a point to compliment her whenever she's nude. She acts like she thinks I'm crazy but I know that she appreciates it. Personally I also like for others to see her nude. My reason for this is that she does have some personal image problems but other people just don't see it and they treat her just like anyone else. If I, and everyone else, cannot see any problem, then why should she?
  
  I tell her that her image problem is caused by having just too many birthdays. She laughs and tends to accept this.[/quote]
  Thats really nice to hear :)

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• DA

  dakotacpl

  Jan 11, 2013

  For years my wife would laugh every time I told her she was beautiful or sexy. I always told her I wanted to show her off naked. Being the total sweetheart she is she obliged me on a trip to Jamaica 8 years ago. After a few jitters at first she loved going nude and we go on a nude trip every year now. It has helped her self esteem immensely. Now she knows we are all sexy and beautiful in our own way.

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