Hubby wanting others to see Me Nude

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• ME

  Member

  Jan 13, 2013

  In my opinion, it should be your choice and your decision (not your hubby's) whether you want to be seen naked by others or not. If you are not comfortable getting nude in front of other men and women, don't go for it just because your husband fantasies it.
  Nudism is about being comfortable with your body without cloths. Some are comfortable getting naked only in private, while some are comfortable being naked in public. You should decide for yourself what is your comfort zone and do accordingly.
  
  
  
  
  
  

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  lifeisocoolcplOriginal Poster

  Jan 13, 2013

  [quote]In my opinion, it should be your choice and your decision (not your hubby's) whether you want to be seen naked by others or not. If you are not comfortable getting nude in front of other men and women, don't go for it just because your husband fantasies it.
  Nudism is about being comfortable with your body without cloths. Some are comfortable getting naked only in private, while some are comfortable being naked in public. You should decide for yourself what is your comfort zone and do accordingly.
  
  
  
  
  
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  Ya. As i said earlier i dont mind being naked. Been staying naked at home since last 1+ yrs now. I was just concern that what my hubby thinks is cool or not..

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  annamarco

  Jan 16, 2013

  [quote]Hii...
  
  
  I just wanted to curiously ask something to the women also. Since its related to ladies as well.......
  
  I am been married since 1 year now. I have nice n caring husband. He is more open to nudism as compared to myself. We do stay naked at home since we are the only ones at home.There is a question coming into my mind..
  
  IS IT GOOD THOUGHT FOR MY HUBBY WANTING OTHER MALES / FEMALES SEE ME NAKED ???
  iIs it just a bad thought of his mind thinking that it would be cool for letting me to be nude seen by other males or maybe females too if they like ????
  Pls comment
  
  
  I just say "depends from you". You are free. How do you feel nude in fron of other do you feel fine ? if yes go on and be nude, if no. keep you clotes and don't show you. Other point respect and parity, are the other man or woman nude? this is also an important point if they are not nude why you should be nude?[/quote]

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• LO

  

  Loren

  Jan 21, 2013

  I too encouraged my wife to join me in visiting a nude resort and to meet other people in nude social situations.  I didn't do that for the purpose of having others see her nude, but because I wanted to participate in those activities and did not want to do so by myself.  Having others see her nude was "cool" in the sense of being "okay", not in the sense of being the primary purpose.
  

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  MikeRobinson

  Jan 22, 2013

  I'm optimistic enough to think that he merely wants you to feel more comfortable being seen undressed. This way,you'd be more receptive to taking a nude trip to a beach or club. My advice is to go with the flow until or unless something feels wrong. If his intentions are honorable,that felling will hopefully never come. Best of luck and congrats on being a newlywed. I hope this is the first of many wonderful years together.

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• KE

  

  Keith

  Jan 24, 2013

  My partner was open enough to try the social nudist thing with me and went with me and participated at a few pool swim nights which she appeared to enjoy.We  Also tried a few nude beaches here in Victoria (Aus.) and because of the actions of a few malingers she now refuses to participate in any social nudist activity.Now she says i just want to get a kick out of others seeing her nude, when all i wanted was for her to enjoy the feeling of being nude with nature being seen is in my opinion is no difference nude or clothed but now she is quite the opposite .
  Thanks to the shirt tail malingers who are too introvert to be totally nude, but have no qualms dropping the bottoms so they have free access to their dongles to play with themselves at any females expense. One such guy at pt. impossible plonked himself down in front of our shelter stripped off and in the pretense of applying suntan oil played away to try and impress a lone female. Funny how he moved off to another spot when I returned from a walk on the beach.
  In Answer to the original poster of this thread, I am sure your husband is like me. We want to enjoy our nudity and want you to be relaxed and enjoy it with us. To that extent yes you would be seen by others and yes we are proud to be in your company when you are exposed or not. Please give it a try and if you get over the hurdle of being seen as a bad thing I hope you can enjoy the life styleCheers Keith
  

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• WA

  wahyudi12345

  Jan 26, 2013

  [quote]Hello fellow Nudists !!!
  
  Excited to get on here again n putting down my new experience n sharing it with all you like minded people. I was told by my hubby that i have been let seen nude to some stranger. Hubby later on told me about it. Earlier i was nervous n dint knew how to react to it. But when he said that, the guy who saw me was being nice n dint looked like any perv. So that gave me little comfortable. I am unable to say but i dint really felt bad about it... :)[/quote]
  

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  Ariarome

  Jan 26, 2013

  hy...
  

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  lifeisocoolcplOriginal Poster

  Jan 31, 2013

  [quote]it is not a matter of people looking its a matter of social nudism and interacting with others. it deoends on how u feel. if the others were dressed and u were nude then yes thats them seeing u naked.. But if the purpose is to enjoy nudism with others then its different. How do u feel about it?. Do u want to be nude with other people?
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  Hi..As i have earlier mentioned that we are home nudist. so i do stay naked at home most of the time. You asked if others were dressed n me naked... for that i would say that hubby was refering to that i suppose, by letting even clothed people see my naked body.

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  coalmanandwoman

  Jan 31, 2013

  its good to b naked thats way u was born its not offenceive if it is to people then they to uptight
  
  

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  lifeisocoolcplOriginal Poster

  Feb 2, 2013

  [quote]have  you had experiences where your husband has let others see you naked?. and are you ok with that? what situation were  you in for some one to see you nude?
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  I was coming out of shower. There was a delivery guy standing at the door, while hubby was signing the acknowledgment slip for him.

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  lifeisocoolcplOriginal Poster

  Jun 23, 2013

  Hii Friends.....
  I am sorry for not being here since last few months. Was quiet busy with my work. I have few interesting incidents to share with you all. I hope you all wont mind :)

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• ME

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  Jun 23, 2013

  Share away!

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  lifeisocoolcplOriginal Poster

  Jul 3, 2013

  [quote]Hii Friends.....
  I am sorry for not being here since last few months. Was quiet busy with my work. I have few interesting incidents to share with you all. I hope you all wont mind :)[/quote]
  In last few weeks around 5-6 times people have seen me fully nude

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• BR

  Brizman67

  Jan 18, 2014

  Nudity in a committed relationship is (or at least should be) part of the intimacy.  Some fear that if this aspect of their intimacy is open to all others, something is lost.  Among genuine nudist couples, the reverse tends to apply.  Many view the nudist experience as taking their intimacy to new levels...a very uniquesharedexperience of liberated freedom.
  
  If your partner wants you to be seen naked as part of a sexual agenda, then that's an unhealthy thing in my humble opinion.
  If your partner doesn't object to other men seeing you naked, it could be quite healthy and indeed reassuring for you.  He may well be projecting his own values and attitudes onto other male nudists that may see you, namely they are not nudists so as to oogle nudist women, nor are they nudists to exhibit themselves.  They are nudists for the simple pleasure and liberation that nudism makes them feel.
  Speaking for myself, there is nothing more liberating than going nude amongst other like minded adults and saying "This is me, fully exposed.  I don't care about whether I meet pop culture ideals of body perfection, I'm comfortable with me just the way I am".
  I think any man who wants his wife to feel the same way is wanting something lovely for her, given the terrible body perfection pressures on women.  He wants nothing more for her than to feel good about herself, implicitly suggesting she deserves to feel good.  What is wrong with that?
  
  

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  DesertRat

  Jan 18, 2014

  I am very happy to have my wife nude in the midst of other nudists. To me it is an acceptance of herself and her body and the elimination of problems with self image. She is enjoying the freedom of not having to worry about what others are thinking about her appearance. This is one of the true joys of nudism.
  
  I am not concerned about her being "seen" by other nudists. True nudists have the gift of being able to see the real person and not just the body.

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• SU

  sunnmaxx

  Jan 20, 2014

  Understand that he just wants you to experence the freedom he enjoys when he is naked. Who ever made it soo tabo?  Once you can experence nudity around others you will see how natural it is.
  

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• ME

  Member

  Jan 20, 2014

  yes agree

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  iwanttofeelgoodagain

  Jun 7, 2015

  this is a great feeling. very special. in a good way
  

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• KE

  

  Keith

  Jun 8, 2015

  Maybe he does because he is proud of how you look nude.
  Or maybe he just wants to able to enjoy activities with others whilst nude and wants the wife or partner to be involved too.
  I love being and doing things whilst I am nude and love my wife to join me in such activities. Whether others see my wife nude or not is immaterial. I love it when the joy of being naked takes over her emotions and she doest care if others see her nude.

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  griysleta

  Sep 19, 2016

  [quote]Nudism isn't about seeing nude people; it's about being confortable and enjoying the company of people who feel the same way about nudism as you do.[/quote] my hub knows i do not go nude for other men to see me, i feel confortable been nude

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  indycouple

  Jan 27, 2019

  My bride also is lovely in cloths or naked. She does like others seeing her nude...

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  NudeJohnny

  Jan 28, 2019

  Has anyone else noticed how often the word "clothes" is misspelled as "cloths" on this site? LOL Don't wear clothes, can't even spell clothes.

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• ME

  Member

  Jan 30, 2019

  Hi All,
  I also enjoy my wife showing off her goods. She also enjoys the attention at the right times
  M&V

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