Hubby wanting others to see Me Nude

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• ME

  Member

  Aug 18, 2020

  My husband likes other men and women to see me nude as well. He admits he hugely enjoys me being nude in public and that its the main reason he encourages me to visit nudist beaches. At first I was reticent as I've never been much of a nudist and certainly not in public. At first he would accompany me but now, 10 years later, he rarely does as it's enough for him knowing that I'm spending a day at a beach naked where he knows there will be plenty of people seeing and looking at me. I must admit I now find the whole experience extremely enjoyable and being a single woman on the beach you always get a lot of attention.

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• ME

  Member

  Dec 14, 2020

  I hope my wife gets here someday. Thanks for sharing.

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  Steve

  Dec 15, 2020

  [quote]'I enjoy being with lots of people naked and will compliment them by saying things like "you have a lovely body etc". '[/quote] Hi Julie, mant men here, me included, would be very cautious about doing the same, no matter how much we may be thinking it. Do you think this is (for want of a better term :-) ) female privelidge?

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  nudony

  Dec 19, 2020

  [quote]'I enjoy being with lots of people naked and will compliment them by saying things like "you have a lovely body etc". ' Hi Julie, many men here, me included, would be very cautious about doing the same, no matter how much we may be thinking it. Do you think this is (for want of a better term :-) ) female privilege?[/quote] I usually steer clear of the "ladies only" page; but this thread has clearly gone coed, so... Compliments, delivered in the "right tone" by the "right people" at the "right time" can actually be a good thing. I've shared before how it tremendously helped my ex-wife, who had body-acceptance issues. The people at our non-landed club were aware of her hang-up; so they encouraged and complimented her every step of the way. When she finally decided to "drop the sarong" and try socializing nude, the compliments she received (that did not extend beyond "you look great naked!") boosted her confidence to the point where she decided to stay nude around them; because she felt good about it. But if you are not sure how your compliments will be perceived or are appropriate, it is judicious to keep them to yourself. Is it "female privilege"? I guess you can look at it that way. Men usually don't need a "push" like women (sometimes) do. There's nothing wrong with making an exception if it's ultimately helpful to someone IMHO. To answer to the original question; I don't think it's hard to tell if a husband just wants his wife to get comfortable with nudity; or if his intent is more "mischievous." "Pushiness" is often an indication that the husband is not primarily concerned with his wife's comfort. One the other hand, some wives can misinterpret their husband's intention; as it not necessarily about "showing them off" but rather getting them to enjoy social nudity.

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  Steve

  Dec 19, 2020

  [quote]'I usually steer clear of the "ladies only" page; but this thread has clearly gone coed, so...'[/quote] I'm usually here on my phone. The view the website delivers to me strips out the finer details like which section the post is in. :-D Great post. Good perspectives. I only go to the CO beach rather than a club and generally keep to myself which limits my opportunities somewhat. Perhaps I just have to look harder for opportunities to interact with others and see where that takes me.

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• ME

  Member

  Dec 19, 2020

  If there is any sexual aspects in participants or observers then this is not a nudist or nudism issue whatsoever It may not even be considered exhibitionary either. Which leaves it to be purely a sexual act or fantasy being carried out. At least from my perspective and understanding. Whether if it is a healthy one or not, depends on you and how it makes you feel.

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• ME

  Member

  Feb 18, 2021

  Well stated !!

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• NU

  

  nudony

  Feb 18, 2021

  Just out of curiosity (and boredom) I went back to the OP's posts and I found it confusing (probably due to the "broken English" and random "cut/pasting"); but at times it looks like a woman asking, and at others a man asking for his wife. Inconsistencies aside, it seems to reflect a concern about being "exhibited naked for other people's enjoyment." In the original post, the question is (in corrected form): [quote]Is it just a bad thought in his mind thinking that it would be cool to let me to be seen nude by other males - or maybe females too - if they like ????[/quote] "She" appears to be looking for some reassurance that she is not being forced into objectifying herself. IMHO, this mostly reflects a misunderstanding on her part of what actually occurs in the nudist environment. There are actually few resorts now that are nudity-mandatory and you have to - ready or not - "strip" right off the bat in front of other people. And as far as "wanting our spouse to be naked"; it is not necessarily driven by some "candaulistic" desire for others to enjoy our spouse's nudity (although this thread has shown that this is a motivation for some people) as the OP seems concerned with; but rather by the desire to fully share the experience of social nudity with our partner. The effect of this is obviously that other people will see our spouse naked; but that is ultimately not the main purpose (at least for myself). Like Andy and RD, I am certainly happy - even proud - that my wife has the confidence to be openly naked around other people; but I certainly have no "agenda" as to "getting them to SEE her."

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  deezeey

  Mar 16, 2021

  Hi
  I and my husband are nudists because we like being nude. We do it for us. But we are also sexual beings who love to admire other people's bodies and also love to be seen. We have become exhibitionists and we have fun with it. While nudity is not necessarily about sex it doesn't have to exclude or prohibit it. What is important is that people are not pressurised into doing something that they are uncomfortable with. I am easily encouraged to show myself off as long as it is in a safe environment and my husband is proud to see me being admired

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  Getm212

  Mar 17, 2021

  My husband loves to see me naked in front of others and i enjoy it and am not embarrassed about it this the body god gave me so im proud of it. When we go on vacation we stay nude as much as possible car, hotels, camping, beach even a non nude beach. We love the sun and is so good for us . just wanted to add my 2 cents.
  Thank you Exie

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  John

  Mar 18, 2021

  Rafael wrote: [quote]What is most important is what you want and how you feel and not what others decide about you.[/quote] This.

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• CN

  

  Ceilidh Naarasusi Gambill

  Mar 18, 2021

  I used to photograph My misses so others could see her as well. A person should take pride in their other and show her off.

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• DE

  deezeey

  Mar 18, 2021

  [quote]My husband loves to see me naked in front of others and i enjoy it and am not embarrassed about it this the body god gave me so im proud of it. When we go on vacation we stay nude as much as possible car, hotels, camping, beach even a non nude beach. We love the sun and is so good for us . just wanted to add my 2 cents. Thank you Exie[/quote] Good for you. Be proud.

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• SM

  

  Suncouple Male

  Mar 18, 2021

  This question has received so many responses and by enlarge the majority have been respectful views of both sides. I wonder if the use of the word wanting has triggered some of the responses. There is a similar post in the couples forum that asks if men like to show off their wives. One reply stated that showing off your wife objectifies her. I thought is less about wanting or showing off my wife and more about how proud I am to be with her, both dressed and undressed. I am proud that she is my wife and is comfortable in mixed company whether clothed or not. And I can appreciate that others, male or female, can respectfully appreciate her beauty, again, clothed and unclothed.
  If I may ask, have you ever been at a formal event and your wife has on the most loveliest dress, she looks spectacular. Of course, there are a handful of men (and women) who quietly and respectfully admire her beauty. And you as her husband are filled with joy that she is your wife. So why should that be different if your wife is unclothed. I would think that as nudist, a mere article of clothing should not make the difference. For me it certainly doesnt.

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  Steve

  Apr 8, 2021

  [quote]"Like Andy and RD, I am certainly happy - even proud - that my wife has the confidence to be openly naked around other people; but I certainly have no "agenda" as to "getting them to SEE her.""[/quote] Confidence is a good look no matter what one's wearing. :-)

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• KE

  Kendbski

  Apr 11, 2021

  Its baby got nothing on lmao. I love that song.

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• JA

  janzen13

  Apr 16, 2021

  I love for others to see my wife nude or in see thru clothes it is a big turn on I also wear see thru tops as a male when she does mesh shirts and such

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  Mark

  May 18, 2021

  I feel the same way as Janzen - I've been trying to get my wife comfortable with others seeing her naked. I must admit that the thought of men and women seeing her is quite a turnon.

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  Steve

  May 25, 2021

  My wife won't participate in public nudity, but her swimsuit collection is testament to my desire to show her off a little.

  A 'little' meaning whatever I hope I can get away with!

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  Steve

  Jun 3, 2021

  varvara writes: [quote]'mine is also begging me. But, but it is interesting to watch him when he behaves like a proud rooster at such moments:)"[/quote] "Proud rooster" sounds a little like me in this situation. :-)

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  Charliep1215

  Jun 4, 2021

  It's nice that they are proud to show you off. I think I'd be more concerned if my partner said to keep my clothes on haha

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  marquz01

  Jul 16, 2021

  bit risky

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  Lisa

  Sep 24, 2021

  My husband was the same way. At first it was you dont need to wear a bra when my buddies come over. Then no top, then just stay nude they are ok with us being nudist. I doubt him wanting his buddies to see my nude had anything to do with being home nudists. Especially with the evidence he showed.

  I think if you are ok being nude, go ahead. If the fact he wants you to turn them on you might want to have a conversation.

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  Lisa

  Sep 24, 2021

  Do you really believe that? I doubt the majority of nudists do. I think seeing is an important part for most nudists.

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