How did being 'not as endowed' make you feel first time at a nudist place?

HappibearOriginal Poster

Jan 16, 2018

Walter w/ Q. to men of 'lesser' size. When first at a nudist place, aside from normal nervousness, did you worry because (as wwe all know) 'regular' society is about 'bigger' , that : 1. You'd feel all would be staring & judging because of that? ...and 2. You'd get laughed at? Me...I'm a self taught nudist (at home, when parents out) but with an unsure image of myself I thought it possible but once there, it was like being at home. I knew then I'd really love being a nudist. : ] )

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jeff1215
Feb 8, 2018
never really bothered me, grew up in age of having gym classes in high school and playing sports. I knew I had less to show than some others but was equal to or larger than others. Sure I would have liked a nice 9 inch but have been happy with my 5 incher.
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Stephen Konarik
Feb 11, 2018
Although Ive grown up going to clothing optional beaches, I was always concerned about having a small penis. I do think its an acceptable statement that most people dont care, but its of course something many will notice. It took a lot of time to me to not be self conscious that when nude at the beach or elsewhere, people will see that I have a short one (even if they dont care). That said, Ive never really had anyone come out and make some mean comment or anything.
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Tom === Thomas S. Tierney
Feb 11, 2018
The "endowed" also have problems. The barely concealed looks. The giggles. I had one woman walk up to me, reach out and grab hold and shake it like she was shaking hands and say, "Pleased to meet you" she let go of it and walked away amid laughter from her friends. I laughed and walked on.
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sam
Feb 11, 2018
I had problems at first with it and then grew to accept what was given to me
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shed2skin
Feb 12, 2018
I was kind of nervous about size and nudity during my first visit to a nude beach. I kind of had that stereotypical image of rather endowed men out there strutting their stuff. It is probably why I got my butt so sun burned. After a bit it finally occurred to me that most were not there to show their goods, but to enjoy a naked day at the beach. It took a bit of looking around me that there were people of all shapes and sizes as well as endowment and I had to think of my reasons for being there. It was just to enjoy some sun and surf in the nude.
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Steve
Feb 12, 2018
Learned to just accept myself as being the way I am . Grew to accept what was given to me . Steve
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M
Feb 13, 2018
I really don't believe the majority of nudists even pay attention.
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Tom === Thomas S. Tierney
Feb 13, 2018
[em][strong]If Nudists don't care or look then why does this subject keeping coming up in the Forum??[/strong][/em]
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Benjamin
Feb 13, 2018
My size is XXXM.
Never worried I was too small, but was deathly afraid of popping a boner when nude. But one of the friends I made at the gym once gave a very nice compliment in the locker room about my penis. Quite a revelation to find my man bits are pleasant to the eye (regardless the shape of the rest of me, or my extremely average size dick). I figured if anyone else enjoyed viewing me, they probably wouldn't mind seeing me erect too. Since then I don't worry if I get a little inflated in the locker room showers. I still don't "display" if I get a little hard, but the fear is gone.
Though there are some eye popping dicks that swivel everyone's heads, most are not so noteworthy. I've never thought less of a man due to his "not as endowed" physique. Likewise, I suppose no one looks down on me for any supposed shortcomings. Does anyone beyond puberty think derisively of another man due to his naturally smaller size?
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Zeke
Feb 26, 2018
Here's a tumblr blog I found..so for you that have small is a problem...then compare..
http://amicropenisblog.tumblr.com/archive
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Christopher Jeremiah
Sep 8, 2018
Well funcouple in regards to your question, you must might ask this to a low life bitch who was pissed off at me after putting her in her place. She never even met me, so she never saw my face let alone any of my body. However she had to hurt me somehow so she of course had to refer that I had a tiny one. I don't know of any way to change it but I also can't figure out what it has anything at all to do with my intellectual or intellegence.
It is unfortunate that there aren't more people who have the same respect as you.
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Christopher Jeremiah
Sep 8, 2018
Well funcouple in regards to your question, you must might ask this to a low life bitch who was pissed off at me after putting her in her place. She never even met me, so she never saw my face let alone any of my body. However she had to hurt me somehow so she of course had to refer that I had a tiny one. I don't know of any way to change it but I also can't figure out what it has anything at all to do with my intellectual or intellegence.
It is unfortunate that there aren't more people who have the same respect as you.
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Alen
Sep 9, 2018
I suppose back to the original question
I can't remember my exact thoughts the first time naked down the beach.
It was too long ago.
I was probably more concerned with getting sunburn on those sensitive parts than anything else.
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Alen
Sep 9, 2018
I suppose back to the original question
I can't remember my exact thoughts the first time naked down the beach.
It was too long ago.
I was probably more concerned with getting sunburn on those sensitive parts than anything else.
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Brian
Sep 18, 2018
I am not big by any means. But I'm happy with my size and what other people think about it doesn't matter to me.
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FullSun
Sep 19, 2018
Why would I or anyone else care about size? I just dont get it. We are made in Gods image each with our own strengths and weaknesses. What does size have to do with anything? These constant questions about size or how your penis looks drive me crazy......who cares?????
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Member
Oct 6, 2018
I'm fairly small soft, but it does grow when needed so as for others seeing me naked and seeing i have a small one - never really bothered me, maybe it did a bit when i was younger and would get giggles when i showered etc but now im fine with it. Does small mean not as good anyway?
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Member
Oct 6, 2018
I'm fairly small soft, but it does grow when needed so as for others seeing me naked and seeing i have a small one - never really bothered me, maybe it did a bit when i was younger and would get giggles when i showered etc but now im fine with it. Does small mean not as good anyway?
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nudeyooper
Oct 8, 2018
I remember being at the swimming pool locker room with a brother or two and a few friends. All of us were pretty much the same size when considering our age differences. Not exactly tiny, but we considered ourselves normal and found a rather unusual sight when a guy in our age group walked into the showers who had enough to hang down. I still don't, and don't care about such trivial things. I'd certainly be more embarrassed by my extra weight than by my smallish penis.
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Nick Costello
Nov 2, 2018
[quote]The "endowed" also have problems. The barely concealed looks. The giggles.I had one woman walk up to me, reach out and grab hold and shake it like she was shaking hands and say,"Pleased to meet you" she let go of it and walked away amid laughter from her friends.I laughed and walked on.[/quote]

[strong]I'm not quite as "endowed" as you thomas, but I noticed the looks from both men and women. Sitting by the pool, over a short period of time 3 different women walked by took a good look and said, "Nice dick" and walked on.[/strong]
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Erik
Nov 2, 2018
All shapes and sizes are welcome. Honestly, though, I felt like I could possibly be judged upon my attributes during our first visit. But the resort we went to for the first time made both of us forget that we weren't wearing clothes. And we forgot quite quickly.
I do think it is a concern of many; comparing themselves to others. Albeit our first visit was late in the season so a lot of retired folk were there but very few younger folk.
Now I honestly more worried about Mr. Happy wanting to make an appearance. But so far, except for one brief time in the pool, luckily that hasn't happened!
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ooigor
Nov 3, 2018
[quote]It never crossed my mind, I see myself as average, it was all about a new experience of being totally naked around other nudist. Taking in the awesome freedom and having fun was the driving force of getting naked, if was not about my body and I never had anyone make any comments about my endowment. I have been to many nudist gatherings and this is not an issue, nudist just enjoy the nudist lifestyle and accepts everyone as is no mater of their body type.[/quote] i agree that i never thought about size when i was nude until once when we went to st martin and took the nude cruise to another island. my wife commented about my larger size compared to the other men on the trip. i know size sometimes "changes" depending on activity (and i am not talking about sex) like running, sitting around eating lunch, getting in and out of cold water, etc. but whatever the size, the only one that has to be happy with mine is my wife.
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Slimmannn
Dec 12, 2018
I am really small when soft and cold.
Being this way when I first went skinny dipping in some cold water I really shrank up and my friends, both guys and girls commented with small laughter about how I had become like a 10 to boy.
It happened ever now and then.
I didn't like it, but it wasn't really terrible.
When I am with new nudists I become slightly self conscious, but I can't believe that as adults anyone would giggle or laugh.
I know it is obvious though
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wildnude
Dec 13, 2018
Nobody comments or stares. And I don't think anyone cares, really.
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