I saw a man on a nude beach wearing a penis ring. Any thoughts?
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- JO
Jun 13, 2024An update of sorts:
I posted something about a friend of mine who used a cock-and-ball ring, which he claimed made him more comfortable by pulling his scrotum forward so that his balls didn't get in the way of his sitting down or moving. One of the posters on the thread scoffed at the idea.
Well, I was cleaning out my garage a couple of weeks ago and found some rings, one of which was about 2 inches in diameter. On a whim, I put it on to see if it made a difference. As it happened, I went on a weekend camp-out at a nudist resort here, and wore it much of the time. My pubic hair concealed it from public view, although at this particular resort, it would have been tolerated if it were visible.
Result: it did what my friend claimed. It wasn't as marked on my body as it was on his, because his scrotum was larger than mine, but it definitely got the testicles more out of the way when I was sitting. Erotic effect: zero. Pleasure effect: almost nil, although I did feel it, and liked the small difference it made, simply because it was different than the usual sensation. Much like wearing contact lenses or a watch, it's something you feel but don't notice it once the novelty wears off.
So if I saw somebody wearing such a device, I wouldn't give it a second thought. It works as advertised, and I'd put it in the same category as a support bra for a full-breasted woman, or sandals or sunglasses when the environment mandates them. If it were heavily adorned with jewels or something, that would be a different matter entirely.
ReactReply - CH
Jun 14, 2024I met a guy at Studland wearing a cock ring. We discussed it at length and then he allowed me to remove it and then he fitted it on me. Then heremoved it and I fitted it back on him. interesting exercise!
ReactReply - ST
Jun 14, 2024Studland beach is Englands most well known naturist beach. Right now it is fighting for its continued existence because of the unacceptable behaviour of a few perverts. Everyone who uses this beach knows this, but it seems one interesting experience is more important to some.
Woodsman thanks for taking on the social experiment, but its just like an underwire bra?
Seriously?
Sounds like just another excuse.
ReactReply - BI
Jun 14, 2024[quote]I met a guy at Studland wearing a cock ring. We discussed it at length and then he allowed me to remove it and then he fitted it on me. Then heremoved it and I fitted it back on him. interesting exercise![/quote] With respect, and depending on the style of ring involved, I cannot help but think this trading of jewelry between strangers is way too personal an exchange in a public forum. Considering that both men were essentially handling each other's genitals during the transfer, the allowance of this kind of activity is what will probably make Studland into just another place lost to healthy social nudity -- unless this scene happened back in the dunes or otherwise out of view of the general population. Seeing two guys wandering back into the dunes lends the bare space an air of overt sexual activity. That has doomed many naturist's places. I don't care to bring my nude family for an afternoon of sun and fun anywhere near that adult action. All I'd hear would be, "Grampa, where are those men going? Is there a playground back there?" Why yes, there is a playground, but only for consenting adults - and this sort of sexualized interaction will likely ruin the natural place for wholesome nudism. It happened locally to the only beach we had, a nature preserve which allowed nudism to be practiced until a sexual element began and became news and the authorities did what they had to do to stop people fucking around on the sand in view of everyone. A more 'interesting exercise' would be to keep hands to oneself on a public beach, and try to remember that the bigger picture is more important than any instant gratification achieved by the tempt of intimate contact, and the likely attachment of libidinous-driven action to nudism by those people who don't know any better. Instead, exercise restraint - keep nude beaches out of controversy and keep them open.ReactReply - STJun 14, 2024
WW, is the interesting experience a genuine encounter, or just a piece of fantasy fiction. It doesnt matter.
If true, did it happen in full view of others or in private in the dunes. It doesnt matter.
If someone is looking to shut down a naturist beach they can come to this website and say here is the evidence, point directly to the interesting experience and say this is whats happening.
ReactReply - EA
Jun 14, 2024The underlying issue is fantasy or not these individual only care about their own experience and have little regard for the impact their "interesting exercise" has on others who just want to enjoy the beach clothes free. Sadly this is what it has come to for nudism and naturism and the result will be the continued loss of public spaces for non sexual social nudism. [quote]A more 'interesting exercise' would be to keep hands to oneself on a public beach, and try to remember that the bigger picture is more important than any instant gratification achieved by the tempt of intimate contact, and the likely attachment of libidinous-driven action to nudism by those people who don't know any better. Instead, exercise restraint - keep nude beaches out of controversy and keep them open.[/quote]ReactReply - EAJun 14, 2024Nudists nudist need to stop trying to justify this kind of thing in the name of openness. Not everything that is possible is useful. Every movement and sustainable group has boundaries and guardrails. When people who call themselves nudists advocate for no limits it makes me wonder about motives. The no limits approach has never worked out for the nudist community to its benefit and it isnt now. After all even swingers have rules. [quote]Studland beach is Englands most well known naturist beach. Right now it is fighting for its continued existence because of the unacceptable behaviour of a few perverts. Everyone who uses this beach knows this, but it seems one interesting experience is more important to some. Woodsman thanks for taking on the social experiment, but its just like an underwire bra? Seriously? Sounds like just another excuse.[/quote]ReactReply
- MEMemberJun 14, 2024
To me it seems like a sexual encounter more than anything, handling each others genitals, strangers too. Call me a prude if you want but I don't think it's appropriate at a public CO beach. I've had two unusual encounters at a beach I go regarding piercings. A guy walked past me to go swimming, I was sitting in the shallows, it was hot. He said hello, I asked did his piercing hurt when he had it done (I had been thinking of getting one), we talked a bit and went separate ways. Another day a different guy saw me look at his piercing, he offered to go into the dunes so I could get a closer look, I declined and walked on. I guess he is like lots of men who proposition women at every opportunity, and some do.
These beaches were legalised for us to be able to swim, get sun and walk the beach naked if we want. At too many of our legal CO beaches sex happens in the dunes and it sometimes causes complaints to authorities from passers by. Those passers by know they are on a CO beach usually and accept that they will see nude people there, sadly mostly men these days, but I'm guessing they don't usually expect to see sexual encounters.
I don't care what people do at home or in each others homes were everyone is a consulting adult. I love being nude at the beach too but don't believe the beaches should be used for sex. My concern is that this behaviour will get our CO beaches closed.
ReactReply - EAJun 15, 2024
What people do and wear in private is indeed their own business. However, some people seem intent on bringing their private sexual lives into the public sphere and use clothing optional beaches as a venue and excuse for that. They make up all kinds of excuses to justify this action. The resulting impact for genuine nudists seems to be of no consequence to them.
ReactReply - STJun 15, 2024
And as is usually the case the person who had the interesting experience has no come back on why he is the problem.
ReactReply - JOJun 16, 2024StevieLorna wrote: [quote] Woodsman thanks for taking on the social experiment, but its just like an underwire bra? [/quote] I didn't say anything about an underwire bra. I meant the sort of bra that women sometimes use in athletics. Here in the US we call that a sports bra. It's mainly elastic, no wires needed.ReactReply
- JOJun 16, 2024StevieLorna wrote: [quote]If someone is looking to shut down a naturist beach they can come to this website and say here is the evidence, point directly to the interesting experience and say this is whats happening.[/quote] I doubt that this website would serve as any reliable indication of nudist behavior. There's no real filter between fact and fantasy, as there is in the more carefully vetted web sites run by naturist organizations. If "somebody" really thinks that we're representative of true nudism, despite the name of the site, he should be sat down and have it explained to him what the Internet is.ReactReply
- JOJun 16, 2024StevieLorna wrote: [quote]If someone is looking to shut down a naturist beach they can come to this website and say here is the evidence, point directly to the interesting experience and say this is whats happening.[/quote] I doubt that this website would serve as any reliable indication of nudist behavior. There's no real filter between fact and fantasy, as there is in the more carefully vetted web sites run by naturist organizations. If "somebody" really thinks that we're representative of true nudism, despite the name of the site, he should be sat down and have it explained to him what the Internet is.ReactReply
- STJun 17, 2024[quote]StevieLorna wrote: Woodsman thanks for taking on the social experiment, but its just like an underwire bra? I didn't say anything about an underwire bra. I meant the sort of bra that women sometimes use in athletics. Here in the US we call that a sports bra. It's mainly elastic, no wires needed.[/quote] Apologies Woodsman yes, you said support bra not underwire. The point I was trying to make as you were indulging the social experiment with the cock ring at your weekend naturist camp out, is While you were supporting your cock and balls, how many of the nudist ladies were wearing support bras?ReactReply
- JOJun 19, 2024StevieLorna wrote: [quote] While you were supporting your cock and balls, how many of the nudist ladies were wearing support bras?[/quote] That weekend, none. But I have seen them wear them while playing tennis or while jogging. My feeling is: whatever makes you comfortable is legit. That includes glasses, sunglasses, and sandals too. I also wear a hat sometimes, when I want to protect my balding head from the sun, even if I'm not wearing anything else. And sunscreen, of course.ReactReply
- STJun 19, 2024[quote]He is telling you he is down for fun.[/quote] Whatever you think of the merits of this statement its probably the most honest answer weve had. Extrapolating that to woodsmans response, Perhaps wearing sunglasses means you are down for fun. Oiling up your naked body with sunscreen can only mean you are down for fun times. Sandals. with your toes showing, thats a fetish of fun for someone. And of course, every lady in a bra.. yip that means they are well down for some fun with anyone in a cock ring. Equating wearing a hat to wearing a cock ring is legitimising the down for fun crowd who will end up ruining nudism with their selfish attitude.ReactReply
- EAJun 19, 2024This is the crux of the matter the end result will be the loss of more opportunities to practice actual nudism for the majority who have no problem separating their sexual activities fromnudism. [quote]Equating wearing a hat to wearing a cock ring is legitimising the down for fun crowd who will end up ruining nudism with their selfish attitude.[/quote]ReactReply
- BL
Jun 20, 2024I would not equate a cock ring with a hat, sunglasses, or oil. Nor am I condoning the ring. I am just saying it is my opinion that someone doing that is trying to project something specific about their desires. To think otherwise is kind of naive.
ReactReply - MEMemberJun 20, 2024[quote]I would not equate a cock ring with a hat, sunglasses, or oil. Nor am I condoning the ring. I am just saying it is my opinion that someone doing that is trying to project something specific about their desires. To think otherwise is kind of naive.[/quote] So how about a women with ear rings? Nose pierced? How about pierced nipples? What are they projecting? Should that fall into same categories?ReactReply
- STJun 20, 2024[quote]I would not equate a cock ring with a hat, sunglasses, or oil. Nor am I condoning the ring. I am just saying it is my opinion that someone doing that is trying to project something specific about their desires. To think otherwise is kind of naive.[/quote] This is what Ive been saying, I could care less what you dangle from your dick, but dont tell me its to keep your balls from hitting you in the face or its just jewellery or its no different from wearing a feather in your hair. We are not that naive.ReactReply
- BLJun 20, 2024[quote]I would not equate a cock ring with a hat, sunglasses, or oil. Nor am I condoning the ring. I am just saying it is my opinion that someone doing that is trying to project something specific about their desires. To think otherwise is kind of naive. This is what Ive been saying, I could care less what you dangle from your dick, but dont tell me its to keep your balls from hitting you in the face or its just jewellery or its no different from wearing a feather in your hair. We are not that naive.[/quote] Exactly. There is a difference between jewelry and a cock ring. Just for fun, here are the uses for the ring. https://www.healthline.com/health/what-is-a-cock-ring-used-for#safety-tipsReactReply