Wife going nude

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• MA

  

  ManOfWicklow

  Oct 15, 2015

  [quote]Is this wrong or weird?
  [/quote]Yes, and so is this type of question from a blank profile.

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• FL

  

  Flokie

  Oct 15, 2015

  It doesn't sound like the non-sexual nature of a nudist/naturist venue would suit you.

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• FU

  

  FullSun

  Oct 15, 2015

  Well your fantasy even though it is inappropriate would not work out as you will quickly find that no one cares, they are just there to relax and enjoy life as it should be.  They are not there to be voyeurs.

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• KE

  

  Keith

  Oct 16, 2015

  I think most men who are proud of their wives, like them to be seen, just many men on here can't admit to the truth . Because it doesn't fit their mental image of nudism.
  Those same guys would be only too happy to show their wife off in a textile situation.

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  nudony

  Oct 16, 2015

  [quote]I think most men who are proud of their wives, like them to be seen, just many men on here can't admit to the truth . Because it doesn't fit their mental image of nudism.
  Those same guys would be only too happy to show their wife off in a textile situation.[/quote]
  I think for some men out there there is sometimes a confusion between "pride" and "exhibitionism."
  

  1. I still recall the first time my X "got it."  We were at a get-together, she was fast making some friends there; she got comfortable being around nudists, truly for the first time.  And her reluctance to be nude just disappeared.  And when I saw her, nude, walking around, happy and talking to people with no self-consciousness, I was truly proud of her.  And the positive feedback she was receiving from other nudists for being happily nude contributed to my sense of pride.
  2. On another resort trip with some friends shortly after, she decided to be nude from the get-go.  When she tossed her sarong in the backseat and confidently walked to the main office nude by my side, I was once again very proud.  The reception at the front office was very warm; it was clear that the other nudists there appreciated her "resolve."  Later on a group activity was organized; and she just jumped right into it, helping organizing the event.  She became the center of the event; and all the positive attention she received once again filled me with pride.
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  5. When I speak of "attention", I am not talking about other people "checking her out."  I am talking about appreciation for her nudist involvement.   There is a big difference between "pride" in my wife being socially nude, and other people appreciating that fact; and deriving a "kick" from knowing that other men are looking at her nude body.
     

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• KC

  

  KCandRC

  Oct 16, 2015

  [quote][quote]I think most men who are proud of their wives, like them to be seen, just many men on here can't admit to the truth . Because it doesn't fit their mental image of nudism.
  Those same guys would be only too happy to show their wife off in a textile situation.[/quote]
  I think for some men out there there is sometimes a confusion between "pride" and "exhibitionism."
  

  1. I still recall the first time my X "got it."  We were at a get-together, she was fast making some friends there; she got comfortable being around nudists, truly for the first time.  And her reluctance to be nude just disappeared.  And when I saw her, nude, walking around, happy and talking to people with no self-consciousness, I was truly proud of her.  And the positive feedback she was receiving from other nudists for being happily nude contributed to my sense of pride.
  2. On another resort trip with some friends shortly after, she decided to be nude from the get-go.  When she tossed her sarong in the backseat and confidently walked to the main office nude by my side, I was once again very proud.  The reception at the front office was very warm; it was clear that the other nudists there appreciated her "resolve."  Later on a group activity was organized; and she just jumped right into it, helping organizing the event.  She became the center of the event; and all the positive attention she received once again filled me with pride.
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  5. When I speak of "attention", I am not talking about other people "checking her out."  I am talking about appreciation for her nudist involvement.   There is a big difference between "pride" in my wife being socially nude, and other people appreciating that fact; and deriving a "kick" from knowing that other men are looking at her nude body.
     

  [/quote] Your OP said nothing of "pride". It said you wanted to " show off your wife naked" and it was "A huge fantasy to have guys check out your naked wife" So, which is it, happiness that she may be comfortable doing her own thing, or titillation that she fulfills your fantasy of her being nude in front of other men? Nudeism isn't about fantasy fulfilment, it's about being comfortable in your own skin.

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  Connor

  Oct 16, 2015

  
  [quote]I havebeen asking this and[/quote]
  [quote]I amvery curious[/quote]
  [quote]I lovebeing nude and would love to[/quote]
  [quote]I really wantto take my wife but[/quote]
  [quote]I wantto take her to show her off naked.[/quote]
  [quote]I have afantasy of guys seeing her totally naked.[/quote]
  [quote]I believe shehas an amazing body and would love for guys to see her totally exposed[/quote]
  
  It seems that these are all aboutYOUandonly you.
  
  What does your wife think about these and what does she want?
  
  [quote]Is this wrong or weird?[/quote]
  When you start treating people, especially your wife, as objects for your pleasure or others, it is always wrong.
  
  

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• NU

  

  nudony

  Oct 16, 2015

  [quote] Your OP said nothing of "pride". It said you wanted to " show off your wife naked" and it was "A huge fantasy to have guys check out your naked wife" So, which is it, happiness that she may be comfortable doing her own thing, or titillation that she fulfills your fantasy of her being nude in front of other men? Nudeism isn't about fantasy fulfilment, it's about being comfortable in your own skin.[/quote]
  I think you missed the fact that I was responding toausmanvicand not the OP.
  

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• KE

  

  Keith

  Oct 16, 2015

  [quote][quote] Your OP said nothing of "pride". It said you wanted to " show off your wife naked" and it was "A huge fantasy to have guys check out your naked wife" So, which is it, happiness that she may be comfortable doing her own thing, or titillation that she fulfills your fantasy of her being nude in front of other men? Nudeism isn't about fantasy fulfilment, it's about being comfortable in your own skin.[/quote]
  I think you missed the fact that I was responding toausmanvicand not the OP.
  [/quote]I fully agree with your reply Nudony, the message I was trying to say is that I feel proud when my wife joins in the activities naked, its also interesting to see her demeanor vary as she becomes more relaxed and joins in the various activities. The choice as to when and if she gets naked is totally hers.
  My wife comes from a very closed society so any achievement in her going nude is a big change for her. Thus my pride and respect for her when she let's others see her naked. Normally a big taboo in her culture.

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  Tom === Thomas S. Tierney

  Oct 17, 2015

  [quote]Hey everyone, new to the site and figured I would start with a question.  I have been asking this and I am very curious.  I love being nude and would love to go to a nude resort, beach, etc.I really want to take my wife, but I want to take her to show her off naked.I have a fantasy of guys seeing her totally naked.  I believe she has an amazing body and would love for guys to see her totally exposed.  Is this wrong or weird?
  [/quote]SHOW HER OFF?????Why not buy a show dog and parade it around.
  

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• MA

  

  ManOfWicklow

  Oct 17, 2015

  [quote]SHOW HER OFF?????Why not buy a show dog and parade it around.
  [/quote]Maybe he's looking for prospective buyers !

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  Freecospirit

  Oct 18, 2015

  He doesn't mention how his wife feels.He should perhaps try "tru Swingers" if that is what they both want.  There are some (a minority) naturists who get a kick out being naked in company who may or may not be nude.  Most of us simply find it more comfortable to without clothes when it feels right.  It will only feel right if those around you are also relaxed about your nudity.  I've been to many CO beaches in Europe and have no issues with those around me being either nude or costumed.  I do however notice couples where only one partner is nude.  The idea is not show off your partner's body but for your partner to be relaxed nude or clothed irrespective of whether you are nude or clothed.

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